harder to have sex with uncut tight foreskin

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  1. Anon

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    Hey all,

    just curious here, anyone here who is uncut and has 'tight' have a problem having sex (ie putting on a condom and fucking a girl)

    Some people say it hurts? or its not possible and you have to get a circumcision.. can anyone shed light on this?
     
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    well when i gave a bj to this one guy, i'd stick my tounge in between the foreskin (made him clean it first) and the toes always curl. then after he shoots, i gently and slowly rub his foreskin in between my thumb and index figer for a few minutes. he LOVED it. man, i drove him crazy doing that.

    and if you cant get a condom over the foreskin, try a magnum.
     
  3. rich-9.8

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    If you absolutely can't pull the skin back, you might have a phimosis. If it's bothersome, you could see a urologist.
     
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    You don't need a circumcision. Just stretch the opening with anything, your fingers, tubing, anything that can be inserted comfortably. It's a good idea to make it sanitary, wash your hands, etc. It may take awhile, but that's how it's done. Masturbate more. That helps too.

    Conservative Treatment of Primary Phimosis in Adolescents
     
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    I have had trouble getting condom on because of girth when my cock is at it's largest. Can't see why foreskin makes it difficult though. I always pull mine back first before putting condom on. My last gf was tight and it just took time!

    I also heard circumcision is not always necessary and you can stretch it yourself.
     
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    Perhaps it would help if you removed that keychain from your penis first? :tongue:
     
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    I remember when I was little my mother told me to pull it back and clean behind it when she bathed me, this was until I was about 5-6 years old. I never bothered to pull it back or clean it until this week, I am 21 years old. Ive posted some threads about phimosis, Im currently trying stretching techniques. I pulled my foreskin back completely for the 1st time in 15 years this week, and I'll just say this......there were chunks of smegma as big as dimes, no joke. It felt relieving to clean it all out though, now I stretch everyday in shower and hopefully within a month or two I'll be able to retract it fully. I wish I had a camera when I pulled it back for 1st time.......
     
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    Do yourself a favor, go get some professional medical advice. See a urologist and ask your questions. Perhaps there's something that might work best for you that no one in this forum could suggest.
     
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    Vegas that can cause phimosis, it's something that used to be recommended but you should never advise a child to pull back it's foreskin when you're advising them about hygiene.
     
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    vegaskid, good for you! As I recall you've been doing the stretching routines for just a week or two so that's just preliminary results. Keep us updated, in one of the two threads you started.
     
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    Stretching helped me. I did it on and off for a few months. The test was having sex. My frenulum didn't tear (which I was SHIT scared of).

    I have no problems having sex and I don't have the loosest/most mobile of foreskins. But I like it. Only thing is I have a problem cumming but I don't know if its psychological or physical (slightly tight foreskin, never wanting to stop having sex!) :cool:

    I like having sex. My foreskin spreads the lub(e) around inside a girl. Feels neat too.

    If anyone is stretching, hydrocortisone or any other steroid cream (1%) is supposed to help. :smile:
     
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    I don't know if that made the rounds in the UK, but it was in the Dr. Spock baby manual that every American mom bought back in the 50s and 60s. He started the whole, "you need to pull it back and wash under it," mania. You can still find this gem of "advice" in some baby books though most now get it right.

    The foreskin and glans are fused together at birth and it can take anywhere from infancy to 5-8 years for it fully separate. American moms and even health care providers are woefully ignorant on how to properly clean a boy's genitals. My sister and sister-in-law had to tell their mothers and child care providers what to do as they all thought the foreskin should be retracted! As you stated, this kind of thing can cause phimosis which most pediatricians immediately then say, "Circumcise him!," and then the parents feel bad for leaving their boy intact because they've created their own self-fulfilling prophecy.
     
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    I started masturbating daily when I was 12. By 14, My foreskin was as loose and can possibly be and has stayed the same since. It's better this way (for both you and the girls you get with). Try masturbating daily and/or stretching your foreskin as far back as you can.
     
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    My parents had four sons. While still in diapers our parents pulled our foreskin back and washed the cockhead and under the foreskin. Yes I know that not all males can have this done when babies but the old family doctor said most could and if one couldn't there was no need to worry about it. He said the skin would pull back when ready, but until the child was old enough to do it by himself, the parent should gently pull on the foreskin on a daily basis until it would pull back. Then teach the son the importance of daily cleaning. If you don't clean you get head cheese. I can't remember ever not pulling the skin back and cleaning. I do not know if the head and skin was fused at birth or not, but I do know I was taught early to pull it back.

     
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    Well josiah, I'm glad this worked out for you, but it is also the basis of many school age and adolescent circs - too much care. There is also that weird element of having your parents manipulate your penis on a daily basis. It's just not necessary. The penis develops with the child. The adult functions of the penis are not needed in childhood. This is why the foreskin is initially fused to the glans. The child should be the first one to retract his own penis, wouldn't you say? Read up on it.

    Intactivists call this foreskin fiddling. It can create the very problems that it supposedly is intended to avoid. Like the rest of the body the penis requires no special care beyond washing with warm water and soap on the outside. We don't put soap up in our buttholes and vaginas and especially our mouth and eyes. It is not necessary and dries out mucosal tissues.
     
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    I'm glad the stretching is working for you and everything is just fine. 'Nuff said. Thanks for the visual. :smile:
     
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    well i'm uncut. and use to have alot of problems with the whole "tight" thing. it hurt to much to have sex. practice man, i start masturbating more and just start pulling my forskin back a lil more each time. now i fuck alot, and its fuckin awsome

    ps i fuckin hate condoms, i don't wear them any more which sucks cause i can't fuck random people. but once i hit it raw i could never go back
     
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    The only thing I was getting at is that it is not uncommon to be able to pull the skin back shortly after birth. I said my parents cleaned my penis on a daily basis when I was a infant. That is different that manipulating a childs penis. Should the child be the first to retract his foreskin ? Not if it can be retracted before the child has learned how to clean his own. And I know of a 8 year old boy who had injured his penis in a fall. When he got to the doctor, the first thing the doctor did was pull the foreskin back and found a lot of smegma. He asked the mother if she had ever taught her son about cleaning his foreskin and she said no. The boys head was red and very iritated from the very old smegma. When is it not manipulation ? Teaching a son how to clean his penis before his penis becomes infected or after. Like I said I was just trying to show that it is not uncommon to be able to pull the skin back when a infant.

     
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    Nobody likes condoms. They're not comfortable, they're not cool, and they interrupt sex. Condoms are a pain in the ass.

    I hate playing old fogey because it sounds so trite and patronizing though I don't mean it to be. My concern is genuine and comes from some horrible heart-breaking experiences with guys your age and even younger.

    Please, please, please: use condoms even if you think someone is safe. Way, way too many horror stories of people out there who caught diseases from someone who swore they were clean.

    The most frightening thing in the world is the number of HIv+ people walking around out there who do not know they're HIV+ and would swear to their creator they were clean.

    When you have unprotected sex you're trusting that person with your life and you have so much life left to live. I beg you, don't fuck it up. All it takes is once.
     
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    So I'm trying to stretch foreskin in shower, and I have a couple questions. 1) When I retract it while limp, then get an erection, the frenulum gets extremely tight, even when the rest of the foreskin is loose, is that normal?
    and 2) If I left my foreskin retracted all day to stretch it, am I running any risks? Thanks for help and input guys/girls
     
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