Has a straight man made a move on you to have sex?

[silvertriumph2]

A study in contradictions:

He'll call his wife from your bed to tell her he's "working late"

He'll suck your cock, but won't kiss you.

Claims he's a big stud, but he wants you to fuck him

:rofl: :rofl:
So true...Love it!!!!

 

[Boondocksaints]

lol at this frequent fantasy on this site of turning a straight man.

They are not straight. That's why they are sucking your cock... not because you are somehow irresistible all of a sudden to a totally straight man.

 

[D_Relentless Original]

Seriously though, Why does it matter who does what and who has sex with who?.

Again it is back to labelling people, Imo, I don't think it is the sex that worries anyone, I think its the labelling that goes with it.

Funny thing is, Majority of Women have a better understanding and acceptance of guy with a guy or a woman with another woman.

Most men have a deep appreciation of girl on girl action and get off on it, yet most men will be threatened by guys who like guys.

Is that more about their own insecurities or questioning their masculinity?

 

[bwhip1011]

The last one said to me, "So are you seeing anyone?" and then looked at his crotch.

 

[D_Relentless Original]

The last one said to me, "So are you seeing anyone?" and then looked at his crotch.

Was he checking for Raspberries too?

 

[curious_angel]

A number of the responses here make me wonder if a guy would get more cock if they identified as being straight, instead of gay. :thinking:

 

[nudeyorker]

The question should really be; men who are married or have girlfriends and have conflicted feelings about their sexuality. But yes if you have spent as much time as I have traveling and/or you spent the night at an airport hotel or a hotel near a convention center; you will develop a radar for these men. While they try to be subtle they usually have a desperation that you can can see if their eyes and on a balmy night you can even smell.

 

[MarkLondon]

A number of the responses here make me wonder if a guy would get more cock if they identified as being straight, instead of gay. :thinking:

Sadly, that question has occured to me too.

 

[deleted556573]

The question should really be; men who are married or have girlfriends and have conflicted feelings about their sexuality. But yes if you have spent as much time as I have traveling and/or you spent the night at an airport hotel or a hotel near a convention center; you will develop a radar for these men. While they try to be subtle they usually have a desperation that you can can see if their eyes and on a balmy night you can even smell.

Quoted for truth! In my extensive travels over the last 10 years, I can vouch for this being true.

I was on Grindr the other night and a guy a few blocks away who claimed to be "totally and completely straight but curious" propositioned me. When he came over, he wanted to suck my cock, and give him pointers on how to do correctly. What can I say, it was a fun two hour blow job. That boy's jaw just did NOT get tired.

I have my doubts as to whether that was the really the first time he ever had his lips wrapped around a cock. :wink:

 

[MrToolhung]

Best answer. Ever! :tongue:

Love the pics dude! I wish you could be my first str8 guy!

 

[bwhip1011]

Was he checking for Raspberries too?

No, but good of you to ask.

 

[Supersized]

He keeps brushing his hand across your butt 9 times.
He puts his hand on your crotch.
You keep ignoring his advances but he keeps bothering you for atleast a year.

 

[bwhip1011]

Seriously though, Why does it matter who does what and who has sex with who?.

Again it is back to labelling people, Imo, I don't think it is the sex that worries anyone, I think its the labelling that goes with it.

Funny thing is, Majority of Women have a better understanding and acceptance of guy with a guy or a woman with another woman.

Most men have a deep appreciation of girl on girl action and get off on it, yet most men will be threatened by guys who like guys.

Is that more about their own insecurities or questioning their masculinity?

In all seriousness, though, I do agree with this.

 

[B_RedDude]

That label is SO important to some of them. Pathetic, really.

"totally and completely straight..."

 

[michaang]

Yes, a number of straight men have made a move on me to have sex.

I usually take the insertion of his penis into one of my orafices, to be a sure sign that he wants to go all the way.

:haha:

 

[JO_Bud]

I think the definition of straight and gay is based on the wrong criteria. Given the world we live in now and the changing attitudes of the young, it's not accurate to define straight or gay based on sexual activity. It would be more accurate to base the definition on who the person loves... who they want to build a life with, men or women.

I've had sex with lots of guys that had GFs and wives they loved and would never leave for a man, but had a sexual itch they needed scratched. And that's all it was... sex. Time to change our perceptions and definitions for the 21st century man.

So yes, I've had straight men make a move on me to have sex.

 

[BigDallasDick8x6]

Kinsey found that 1/3 of men had homosexual experiences. He published this in what, 1948? Sounds like we have some verrrrry slow readers here. Yes some str8 men are horndogs and will go with another guy.

 

[maxcok]

I think the definition of straight and gay is based on the wrong criteria. Given the world we live in now and the changing attitudes of the young, it's not accurate to define straight or gay based on sexual activity.

Of course it's accurate. That's what sexual orientation is, by definition. The criteria used for defining sexual orientation (a sliding scale with more than two polarized choices, btw) are based on a person's sexual activities, thoughts and fantasies. That's why it's called sexual orientation. Anything else is at best deflection and at worst denial.

It would be more accurate to base the definition on who the person loves... who they want to build a life with, men or women.

No, that would be something else. I suppose you could call it romantic orientation or matrimonial orientation, but it doesn't change one's sexual orientation, which is based on sex.

I've had sex with lots of guys that had GFs and wives they loved and would never leave for a man, but had a sexual itch they needed scratched. And that's all it was... sex.

Which makes it part of their sexual orientation. I hope you don't think your situation is unusual. That's a very, very, very common scenario. And if these men define themselves as 100% straight they're deluding themselves.
[Surprise, surprise, a lot of them do end up leaving their girlfriends and wives, btw. There are others who continue in a sort of "marriage blanc", and have sex primarily with men on the downlow. There are loads of men who, due to conditioning, expectations and social pressure, don't start out to be or ever expect they will be partly or predominantly gay, but that's where they eventually end up nonetheless.]

Time to change our perceptions and definitions for the 21st century man.

Better call up all the scientists then and get them to start using your new criteria and new definition.

 

[silvertriumph2]

As a followup to what maxcock said in the last posting...re "Surprise, Surprise"
...etc.."

It happened while I was a new 1st year faculty member at a university. Another faculty member, who was married as I was,
just 2 years older than I and a very fit, athletic and handsome
guy...somehow managed to always talk about what he thought
some of the gay students were doing. I listened and laughed
inside, since even though I was a monogymous married man, I
was BI (but not out) and knew exactly what the gay students were doing. :biggrin:

He was, what I thought at the time, straight as they come.
One Saturday afternoon we both entered a Sports Car Gymkhana,
and afterwards went to a bar for some hamburgers and beers.
He went to the men's room and when he came back mentioned
the writing that was on the stall walls. He asked me if I had
ever let a man give me a BJ, and was shocked when I answered
..."yes." He wanted to know all the details, how it happened,
what he did and where did it take place...etc, etc....question
after question. I refused and said I was sorry I had answered
yes...and to forget it. But, he didn't forget it. It came up often
over the next couple of months.

Finally, we went on a 2day weekend to see a car race in another city and shared a motel room. That night after the race, we bought some pizza and beers and went to the room to watch tv
and eat. He said he wanted to watch porn and I said ok. We
ran out of beer, so he left to go get some more beers...3 sheets
to the wind, I might add!

He didn't come right back and after 45 minutes I got worried and went looking for him. I asked around and was told they thought
the guy I was talking about was in the men's room.

I immediately thought he had gotten sick, but when I went there,
I found him with another guy getting a BJ. He was very upset
that I had seen it and would not speak to me for days.

Our relationship sort of fell apart after that and I later learned that he had left his wife and 4 children and was living off campus with one of the male grad students. So, you never know!

 

[At.your.cervix]

What are the sure signs he wants to go all the way?

Unless this was directed to the ladies, doesn't that sort of negate the presumption that he's straight? If he's interested in male-to-male sex, he's bi. Just because a guy hasn't acted on his attraction to other males doesn't make him straight. Otherwise closetted gay men who haven't taken a male partner yet in their lives would be straight, even though they aren't attracted to women.