Has any sexual experience made you question your bisexuality?

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Since I was young I remember enjoying looking at other guy’s chiseled bodies, and enjoyed looking at the beautiful bodies of women. I’ve had about a dozen sexual encounters with different women, all of which have been good or great. I’d feel satisfied and delighted afterwards.
But I can’t say the same for my sexual encounters with men.

When masturbating about 70% of the time I think of women and 30% I think of men.
I enjoy fantasizing about men, but the two times I’ve had sex with men have been nothing but a dissapointment. I’m starting to question if I am actually attracted to men at all, or if I am just attracted to the top 1% of men seen in porn, or if I am just attracted to the idea of being attracted to men.

Anyone have similar thougts or experiences?
 

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I can't wait to hear more comments, this is a good one..


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What is it you are looking for if/when you have a m/m encounter?

Most straight men will look at (and be attracted to) anther guy if that guy has something, which will attract others. For example, the other guy drives an eye-catching sports car or has a great body. The straight guy is likely not sexually attracted to the other guy, but has the ability to understand what a powerful presentation the other guy has to attract others.

It is not exactly the same thing, but is like what causes some people to become die-hard fans of athletes, movie stars, or politicians.
 
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Has any sexual experience made me question my bisexuality? No.

Sounds to me like you have developed a masturbation fetish for what you consider the top 1% of male porn stars. Guys with whom you've had sex in real life haven't met that standard. Were you at least physically attracted to them? What was disappointing about sex with them?

Being bi doesn't mean you're attracted to all women and men, but it does mean you'd enjoy having sex with the partners you do choose from both.
 

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I find I don't really have a sexual attraction to men's bodies. I appreciate a great physique, but the body doesn't get me sexually aroused the way the curves and contours of a woman's body does. I look at the cock in porn, not their body.

For me it is a nice sized erect cock that gets me aroused and interested in a male. And when I do hook up it is all about the cock. I don't have any interest in body contact, rubbing or massaging their body. I just want to stroke and suck their cock. And sometimes take it in my ass!
 
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Very thought provoking topic. I am still exploring after about 6 yrs. I respect all boundaries of the men I have hooked up with. I think I want to explore intimacy and it not be all about the cock. There are some lovers that are so good that I don't care about anything else just experiencing what they have to offer. Others I may or may not ever hook up with again and it wasn't really disappointment, I just seem to get turned off and it be mutual. I did make a friend with one such guy and I don't think we will ever be sexual again. He is friendly and good looking enough, we just didn't click sexually. So, like a lot of things I think it all depends and each encounter is different. As for women, I still see a lot of women that I am interested in or that are so good looking that my cock wants to get hard. Sometimes I will be with one of my bi friends and I see a hot woman and say that she will turn me 100% straight! LOL! Then every now and then I will see how sexy some women are and almost get an instant hard on. So, I would say every encounter is different. Have you checked out the definition of pansexual?