I'm only 21 about to be 22 I try to fit a lot of different sexual experiences in, in my life cause I don't want any regrets. I'm 7.75 long (when the head isn't aroused) when it is I'm 8.2 inches long. I'm 5.6 inches around mid-shaft, 6.1 at the base, and 5.8 at the front end. I was looking through these forums an apparently a lot of people are my size or even bigger. Anyway I noticed when having sex with girls my age when I try to put it all in there's a tearing feeling kind of like when you break a hymen. Usually after this happens the next day their stomachs are in great pain. So I had sex with this married woman she is 36, the same thing happened. Then I had sex with my moms friend who's 45 and again the same thing happened. I looked through this forum and haven't found anything on this.