Has anyone else had a low and tight circumcision?

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I had to have a circumcision last year and I've been given a very low and fairly tight circumcision. Basically the most sensitive skin and frenulum have been cut off. My scar-line is next to the rim of my glans. Also my glans has desensitized due to being constantly exposed and rubbing against clothing all day. I've lost so much feeling the last few months it's unreal. I'm struggling to climax during sex due to the lack of feeling. I'm regularly having to give up after pounding my girlfriend for ages and am left with a boner which won't go away and a feeling of overwhelming sexual frustration. It's the same when I masturbate even when I use tons of lube and am watching hot porn. I get close to cumming but don't. I had none of these issues before my circ. I would usually cum after about 10 minutes either when having sex or jerking off.

Has anyone else on here had experience of a low and tight circumcision? Has anyone got any tips for getting some feeling back to trigger an orgasm? I need to get off so badly I'm at desperation point. It's over 5 weeks since I ejaculated. I'm getting constant boners during the day with very vivid sexual fantasies. My balls are aching too due to not being emptied. The sexual frustration is making me aggressive in ways I'm not usually.
 

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It sounds frustrating and you have my sympathy. It may be a matter of continuing the process to "retrain" your cock and give it some time to carve some new nerve pathways. Like someone who has a spinal injury and has to learn to walk again, it may take some time for your body to get used to new ways of doing things. It takes time but if you keep at it, you will get there.

You may be experiencing a reverse version of the "death grip" problem. There's long been a challenge with guys who have become used to very intense stimulation and pressure -- the so-called "death grip syndrome" -- during masturbation that makes it nearly impossible for them to orgasm from less intense stimulation. This makes sense: if your dick is used to being abused forcefully, the soft, low pressure environment of a mouth, vagina or ass won't be able to compare. But for those with this syndrome, abstaining from the "death grip" and limiting all stimulation to whatever you're aiming for (e.g., only fucking a vagina) starts to re-train the dick and nervous to be more sensitive to those different and softer inputs. Eventually you get so horny, and the brain gets so desperate for an orgasm, that where before it took a jackhammer and a vacuum cleaner to get you off, suddenly a light breeze is all it takes.

I'd be willing to guess that if you give it more time and do things to perhaps protect the glans from that increased sensitivity (condoms, jerking off without touching the head, etc.), and focus on exploring the sensitivity of the other parts of your penis, those new neural pathways will continue to develop. You might even find yourself experiencing some wet dreams again in the meantime.

I had a friend who had to be circumcised later in life due to an overly tight foreskin and problems arising from it. It took him a few months for the sensitivity of the glans to wear down. But it did. And the shaft became more sensitive whereas it hadn't really been before. It can take 6 months or more for nerve connections to be made/repaired (I know this from my own surgical experiences, not on my penis though...). You just need to be patient, keep trying, and don't let yourself be overwhelmed by frustration. I bet you'll be into your "new" normal in just a few months and then you'll have a lifetime of better experiences ahead.

Good luck!

PS: Send us some pictures! ;-)
 
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I'm cut this way as an adult - it takes alot longer to cum for sure. I dont think we'll be able to get back to the "10 minute cum". Probs takes me about 30-40 mins. It sounds strange that you feel close to coming but cant get over the edge. I find it takes a long time to feel like that, but when I do I cum quickly thereafter.

Maybe you are overthinking it some how and something psychologically is stopping you from cumming. 5 weeks is very long time to not cum and you should be able to do it easily at that kind of time. Maybe it is best to seek advice from a Dr, maybe its something else going on other than your cut.
 

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Most problems like this are more psychological than they are physical. I think part of it is that your mind is repeatedly focusing on sex not feeling the same and over analyzing it, which stops you from going up the next gear to blow your load.

You just need to focus your mind on something that really turns you on. eg focus your mind on what it would be like to flood your girlfriend's pussy with 5 weeks of cum.

Over time your body and mind will recondition to the new standard and you will be fine. If John Wayne Bobbitt can do porn, you can get your junk to work again too.
 
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