Has anyone else ever been spotted on this or another site? We ask, cuz we've only joined a few days ago and have already been emailed by an anonymous person who knows our true identity. For that reason, we've pulled the pic of Su until we can put some up that can't be 100% identified (it's not likely to be Bud that was recognized, but if it was, it's either my ex-wife who's cool, anyway, or someone I've been intimate with at some time, in any case). Can only hope Su's pic was not "collected" by them and is not, as we speak, being giggled over at some coffee-morning or other. Hopefully the person will reveal him/her/themself. Not overly bothered at the moment, if gossip occurs it might even result in a few more local "buddies" - LOL. Or does anyone have any experience of either good or bad things that resulted in being "outed" on-line?