Has anyone ever told you that they love u

[absinthium]

I've been told it and said it myself a few times... I question the validity of all of it when I compare it to my current situation.

But then, doesn't everyone say/feel that?

 

[absinthium]

Alright, speaking of the L-word (and no, not the fucking Showtime series)...

Have any of your significant others told you they loved you, but you didn't feel that way at the time? If so, did you ever grow to feel the same way eventually?

OR

Have you ever told someone you loved them, but they didn't respond in kind until much later?

 

[Knight]

Some girls who've said they loved me I've always said it back just so they won't feel bad lol. Tried to sound as convincing as possible...easier to say it in text (had one girl who would text me a lot saying she loved me when I know for a fact the only thing she wanted was in my pants...).

I have a hard time believing anyone who says they love me too. I am also supsicious of people who say it out of the blue, or so often its a bit dodgy.

 

[rts8]

yea one girl. we had been together for almost a year and we were walking around a lake and it started raining. she said it had always been a small romantic fantasy to kiss in the rain, and we did, for a long time. after that she said it. it shocked me cause we had both agreed in the early stages of the relatioship that we'd never say the word cause it just complicates things. obviously it did cause we broke up a month and a half later.

 

[naughty]

ignore this box

 

[naughty]

Originally posted by rts8@Jun 27 2005, 10:37 PM
yea one girl. we had been together for almost a year and we were walking around a lake and it started raining. she said it had always been a small romantic fantasy to kiss in the rain, and we did, for a long time. after that she said it. it shocked me cause we had both agreed in the early stages of the relatioship that we'd never say the word cause it just complicates things. obviously it did cause we broke up a month and a half later.

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rts8,

I think one of the main reasons using the word "love" is so problematic is that people have a whole truckload of expectations assigned to it. There are many different forms of love and even though you may have a warm feeling toward someone, it doesnt mean that it will always be the same or that it will not have problems. Or that you will always be together or even get married.

Naughty

 

[absinthium]

Originally posted by naughty@Jun 28 2005, 09:55 AM
I think one of the main reasons using the word "love" is so problematic is that people have a whole truckload of expectations assigned to it.

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Christ, you just said a mouthful! I've had to confront this very thing recently.
Everyone seems to have their own definition and getting them to meet can be awfully tricky.

 

[madame_zora]

I guess I'll have to sadly admit I don't think I've ever been in real love. Anytime it's been said to me in a romantic context it's been used as leverage later, which is dusgusting. I have an impossible time trusting people (usually for very good reason). It's easy for me to love my friends, want to share in their lives, have interest in the things they do, but to love someone in the context of societal definition- I just don't see it happening.

I find it most delightful that the younger generation is going about the business of defining their own parameters for love, and Julianna, I wish this most of all for you.
Be creative, be wise, and know for certain that things will blow up from time to time, but that doesn't mean that what you feel is not right. Love is an agreement between people to share time, everything else can be negotiated between the people involved any way they want. I know you'll find that place given time.

 

[absinthium]

Originally posted by madame_zora@Jun 29 2005, 01:13 AM
I find it most delightful that the younger generation is going about the business of defining their own parameters for love, and Julianna, I wish this most of all for you.

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You're only saying that because I escaped from your womb in the night...

I know that despite how insane I can be when things don't go exactly the way I plan that they can still turn out well. I have a really good feeling about my current situation...
Maybe Axl was right, all we need is just a little... COCK.

 

[ashlar]

Originally posted by madame_zora@Jun 29 2005, 12:13 AM
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Be creative, be wise, and know for certain that things will blow up from time to time, but that doesn't mean that what you feel is not right. Love is an agreement between people to share time, everything else can be negotiated between the people involved any way they want. I know you'll find that place given time.

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And this is why I love you so much.

 

[madame_zora]

Originally posted by ashlar+Jun 29 2005, 10:53 AM--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(ashlar &#064; Jun 29 2005, 10:53 AM)</div><div class='quotemain'><!--QuoteBegin-madame_zora@Jun 29 2005, 12:13 AM
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Be creative, be wise, and know for certain that things will blow up from time to time, but that doesn&#39;t mean that what you feel is not right. Love is an agreement between people to share time, everything else can be negotiated between the people involved any way they want. I know you&#39;ll find that place given time.

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And this is why I love you so much.

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Aww, and you know I loooooves you too, pretty Romey.

 

[ashlar]

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Originally posted by ashlar@Jun 29 2005, 10:53 AM
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Be creative, be wise, and know for certain that things will blow up from time to time, but that doesn&#39;t mean that what you feel is not right. Love is an agreement between people to share time, everything else can be negotiated between the people involved any way they want. I know you&#39;ll find that place given time.

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And this is why I love you so much.

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Aww, and you know I loooooves you too, pretty Romey.

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What the fuck are you doing awake at this ungodly hour?

 

[B_DoubleMeatWhopper]

Originally posted by absinthium@Jun 29 2005, 04:06 AM
Maybe Axl was right, all we need is just a little... COCK.

Axl ... as in Axl Rose? I saw him in his boxer briefs on the Freddie Mercury tribute: all he can offer is just a little cock: very little.

 

[B_RoysToy]

Two females have told me they loved me and I don&#39;t doubt either of them. The second one to tell me became my wife for 29 years.

I have loved (the last time I counted) 12 males. I still love 10 of these and wonder what I ever saw in the other two. I&#39;ve never told anyone the L-word if I didn&#39;t mean it and only told a couple of the males what my true feelings were. I&#39;ve always suspected most of the others knew without my telling them, though.