Has anyone ever tried AdultFriendFinder or Ashley Madison websites?

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Hello,

I was just curious if any people on here have tried either of the two websites and if so how successful were they? I know they are one of the pay websites, but is it worth it to try out? Plus if you are married how do you get away with paying for them without the significant other knowing?
 
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I have used Ashley Madison and had two affairs with married women. I think it is good value because you only pay for the messages you send, so a small purchase can go a long way. The problem in Australia at least is there are about 10 men for each woman so it's hard to get initial interest, although I am good looking for my age and my photos come up well. But mostly it's about married men and married women looking for partners for affairs so you are both on the same page when you connect.

I look after all the finances at home and the Ashley Madison credit card name is listed as something else anyway.
 

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I've been on and off AFF for years now and do pretty well when I pay for a membership. Fuckers just kicked me off cuz some jealous asshole reported my pics as fake. I'll just create a new profile soon. Taking a break from it all for now. There's TONS of fake profiles on there, though. I have a system that works on picking out the real ones.
 

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We're on it, a lot of fakers and men that don't show up or answer when asked for pics or if interested in 3some, but other that that, if you have a little patience, it's not bad... Going to a party this Saturday invited through AFF in fact. :)
 

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I heard that AFF was in bankruptcy because they can't get enough paying members. I checked it out before and it seemed that there were 100 guys for every woman, not to mention all of the fake female profiles. I wouldn't spend a penny on a pay site...
 

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I've been on and off AFF for years now and do pretty well when I pay for a membership. Fuckers just kicked me off cuz some jealous asshole reported my pics as fake. I'll just create a new profile soon. Taking a break from it all for now. There's TONS of fake profiles on there, though. I have a system that works on picking out the real ones.

there are real profiles on there? all i ever saw were the fake ones they try to use to get you to pay
 

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I used to use AFF when I was just looking for NSA stuff and had a lot of success. Went back about three years ago and barely recognized the place. My real profile couldn't compete with the fake ones on the site! I was there for about a week and left.
 

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I used it in 2001, I posted some photos and I was chatting with a few females who I thought I didn't know and a couple of days later my nude photos ended up in my mail box. Weird, I thought maybe an ex did it. Never went back after that. besides, a lot of no shows and fakers.
 

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I used to be on AFF and was often on the webcams and chatting. I quit paying for the site because there were so many fake profiles, and other dubious stuff the site did. For example, they mirrored my profile on getiton.com and sexsearch.com, 2 other sites owned by the same company. When I was on webcam at times, I would get IMs from people saying "hey I see your cam on getition.com" and I would be stunned, because I didn't have an account on there that I knew of, and I certainly wasn't broadcasting my cam on that site. Sure enough, on those sites I had a profile with the same pics and profile text. It was these things that they did that made me realize they had no scruples whatsoever and can't be trusted. Also the website works differently depending on who you are. As a free male member, you can't do shit on the site. Can't email, can't IM, can't even view profiles. But as a free female on the site, you can do almost everything. So it's not surprising that there are so many fake profiles that are lurkers, wankers, spammers, or whatever. I've also heard that if you have a billing dispute with them, as in you want to cancel your sub, they make it very dificult. It also shouldn't be surprising that they sell your contact info to spammers (I used a unique email address and still get spam from it many years later)

Having said all those complaints, I did meet several couples and a few single ladies, but it was a needle in a haystack. And overall, I decided AFF and all the other names they go by was not worth it.
 

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Just looked it up. Various Inc., which owned AFF and all it's similar sites was bought by Penthouse Media in 2007. Changed name to Friendfinder Networks which is on NASDAQ. Filed bankruptcy in Sept 2013. They hadn't turned a profit since 2008.

Not a company I would entrust with any private information or pics.

FriendFinder - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
 

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i've posted about this before many times. All kind of what people are saying above. Mostly fake profiles. You need to ask yourself are ALL the fake profiles worth your time and money to go through in hopes of finding 1 real one???

In my experience i would say it's not worth your time or money and most of the women on there are fake. Granted if you join up and you're a woman, you're going to find that EVERY man on there is real. Why? because women can go to a bar and get sex any time they want it, so they don't need a site like AFF or Ashley Madison. Men are not so lucky, unless you happen to be a gay man.

You could probably get the same odds on craigslist and it's free. although i've found as a straight man, craiglist to be unreliable as well.
 
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