I used to be on AFF and was often on the webcams and chatting. I quit paying for the site because there were so many fake profiles, and other dubious stuff the site did. For example, they mirrored my profile on getiton.com and sexsearch.com, 2 other sites owned by the same company. When I was on webcam at times, I would get IMs from people saying "hey I see your cam on getition.com" and I would be stunned, because I didn't have an account on there that I knew of, and I certainly wasn't broadcasting my cam on that site. Sure enough, on those sites I had a profile with the same pics and profile text. It was these things that they did that made me realize they had no scruples whatsoever and can't be trusted. Also the website works differently depending on who you are. As a free male member, you can't do shit on the site. Can't email, can't IM, can't even view profiles. But as a free female on the site, you can do almost everything. So it's not surprising that there are so many fake profiles that are lurkers, wankers, spammers, or whatever. I've also heard that if you have a billing dispute with them, as in you want to cancel your sub, they make it very dificult. It also shouldn't be surprising that they sell your contact info to spammers (I used a unique email address and still get spam from it many years later)
Having said all those complaints, I did meet several couples and a few single ladies, but it was a needle in a haystack. And overall, I decided AFF and all the other names they go by was not worth it.