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I thin k all cultures develop. Someday the gay culture may go abck to the way it was. Styles change.
So many smart ass comments come to mind.....
But how about an honest question, why is being gay something so major in your life you feel like you must define yourself by it? Tyler perry is very much a gay man, but for what ever reason he keeps it to himself...... On the flip side john waters and richard simmons are 2 established icons of gay culture, how do you know they're gay? My question is, I know "straight culture" is everywhere and I tottally agree, but why is it such a simple thing as who shares your bed such a part of you it merits allegiance to a damn CULTURE?
If I'm off then I apologize, but as far as my mind and heart are concerned I don't see my gay friend paul the queen....... I just see paul
You're exactly right. Society defines what's okay, and what's not okay in respect to your gender. If you're gay or lesbian, you're automatically not going to fit into that mold. Children begin to shy away from the group that they're "meant" to emulate. This is why you find gay boys being closer to women, and gay girls closer to the men. They can't relate to their own gender which comes with specific rules, which includes appearance. Girls, a lot of times, dress in a certain way to attract other males. Lesbians, overwhelmingly, don't want to attract that sort of attention.I asked something like this before about gay ladies and got slammed for it, but many gay women DO like to look like men. I have learned that it is just a preference and sometimes a way to say "THIS IS WHO I AM AND I AM PROUD OF IT." I think there are many gay men who don't look "gay" and woman too. Again, a preference for what you like in someone and yourself. Plus, I think gay people have had a rough road with society and things are finally opening up in the West and people more are comfortable being who they really are...bi people too.