Has having a big dick made you confident?

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Has having a big dick made you confident? I would imagine having a big dick would make someone confident overall in all areas of life: socially, romantically, etc. It must be a big time ego boost, maybe having a big dick has made you arrogant?

Or is it the opposite? Maybe a big one has made you more insecure in some ways. I would imagine the pros outweigh the cons though. Thoughts?
 
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Ngl, yes. I've gotten attention, respect, and confidence from knowing I've got the biggest package in the room.
That said, I do try to always be the best version I can be, stay fit, stay smart, work hard.
 

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Has having a big dick made you confident? I would imagine having a big dick would make someone confident overall in all areas of life: socially, romantically, etc. It must be a big time ego boost, maybe having a big dick has made you arrogant?
This was recently asked in another forum, and my answer was both yes, and no. My dick size has had no impact on my life outside of my sex life.

It has made me more confident in sexual situations as every woman I've been with enjoyed what I have and how I use it. Of course every woman is different so paying attention to what they like, how they like it, etc is the key to satisfying them sexually and meeting their needs. A sexually satisfied woman tends to reciprocate in kind, ensuring that my efforts in giving her pleasure allow me to experience great pleasure as well. The sexual satisfaction part is not really related to my dick size at all, but it doesn't hurt when it cums to penis in vagina sex.

Or is it the opposite? Maybe a big one has made you more insecure in some ways. I would imagine the pros outweigh the cons though. Thoughts?
Fortunately not for me. Since I am a grow-er, not a show-er, my dick is only large when I'm sexually aroused. When first with a woman, and I'm sexually aroused, she has already decided that sex is happening. While all the women I've been with have commented on my erect size (and complimented me on it) none have had any issue with taking all of me inside them. Patience and lube ensured success every single time. I guess I've been fortunate in that I have no insecurities with my size at all.
 

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No. And I'm not sure if it ever will.

My values and morals that I apply and use, and my overall goals of interaction with people don't have anything to do with my dick size.

I've given up on ever having a relationship. I have many personal quirks and problems and baggage that I dont want to burden others with. Instead, I TRY to help others amd show compassion, empathy and understanding. We all have our bad days and fuck up but I try to continue. If you ever met me in real life as a worker or randomly on the street, I would most likely come across as a very pleasant and grounded person. Underneath however, there is so much going on that having a big dick would probably do nothing to salvage the garbage and mess. (Ugh there I go self depreciating again. Just my standard mode nowadays in passing and thought unfortunately. )

TL;DR - no my "big dick" does not give me confidence because it barely mitigates my offensive baggage deep down nor contributes to general interactions
 

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Not really, and especially not towards courting the opposite sex. Honestly, it actually makes me a bit more insecure when it comes to clothing, because there's a lot of situations where a bulge is not what I wanna show off, but its inevitable in certain clothing.

My experience with women is that your superficial traits will only matter once they get to know you and actually have an interest. You could have the biggest dick in the world but even a size queen wouldnt care unless you've actually shown to be an interesting person 9 times out of 10

Though, when it comes to men I think it helps (with hookups, that is).
 

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Not likely to matter at all outside of a sexual relationship... and even then..
Theres few if any aspect of life where that will matter.
If someone in your family has cancer are you really gonna give a shit about the doctor's dick size comparison?
If I take anyone on this forum and put him in the ring to fight Mirko Filipovic `CroCop` your dick size will give zero confidence over the fact you are about to get beaten up, knocked out and maybe worse...

on the other hand, it can help getting more sex.. so it comes to priorities.
 
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I’ve never really had an ego about my cock size, but I also spent a lot of my younger days questioning my size and being warped by porn, thinking that I was way smaller than those porn stars. In some ways I wish I could go back and relive my younger years knowing what I know. But i still do have added confidence knowing I am bigger than average.
 

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I’ve never really had an ego about my cock size, but I also spent a lot of my younger days questioning my size and being warped by porn, thinking that I was way smaller than those porn stars. In some ways I wish I could go back and relive my younger years knowing what I know. But i still do have added confidence knowing I am bigger than average.
I was warped by porn, and thought I was small too. If us above average guys felt like this, imagine what average guys felt.
 

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I was warped by porn, and thought I was small too. If us above average guys felt like this, imagine what average guys felt.
Yep, you are absolutely right!
 

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I was warped by porn, and thought I was small too. If us above average guys felt like this, imagine what average guys felt.
I'm in this same group. Porn has me warped, and this is an intimidating group also. Only in the last year have I begun to feel something slightly above average. Everyone says I'm also above average, and the statistics bear them out. But I still feel really intimidated. Even when a woman sees it for the first time and says something like "Holy ____!" , I still feel like they see something I don't.