Has Lpsg Made You More Or Less Confident?

Has LPSG made you more or less confident?

  • I’m more confident in my body

  • I’m less confident since arriving here

  • I’m more confident overall

  • Neither. I am just here for good porn!


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ItsAll4Kim

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Less confident in my penis size, more confident in my body though. Of course, LPSG does skew large, so....

When I click on female profiles and see a lot of memberships like "9" Cocks and Up," "BBC For Me," and "Monster Meat: 8 Inches and More," I realize I'm never gonna stack up. Some of the men's profiles as well. :sob:

On the up side, lots of compliments on the rest of me, which is nice!:grinning:

So, better body image, worse manhood image, if that makes sense. Still glad I joined and having fun!:emoji_thumbsup:
Ironically perhaps, some members say that threads like "$10,000 For 10 Inches" have made them more confident. Dispelling the myth that there are boatloads of guys with 10 inch and larger penises helps guys understand that their penis isn't small at all. Even 8 inches is exceedingly rare, as evidenced by other threads seeking correctly measured photos. Understanding that Photoshop and clever photography can make an penis appear enormous, can help guys adopt a realistic attitude about themselves. And the fact that so many women here openly state that penis size isn't nearly as important as porn would have us believe.
 
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See! That would qualify as showing off & in a profitable manner. On this site you’re a contributor who happens to be a woman with pics posted. I imagine the person using “show off” as a pejorative doesn’t claim the same about men of LPSG lol.

Did you just gradually leave camming & product reviewing?

Very true. There's nothing wrong with showing off if you want to. If you've got it, flaunt it!

Now, if you have an account here and you have any pictures of yourself at all, wouldn't that technically be showing off, in a sense?:p
 
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Way less confident. Since I have been on the sight due to all the negative comments I have received about my body.
 
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If you reaíd my introduction - why am I here - you could understand that I gained confidence. I thank for the site and the users to achive that. But I could have picked the less confident answer too - many guys here could ruin that first feeling. And many just here for fishing ego boost.
Overall Im happy that Ive joined this site. Mainly because I never tought I could accept my sexuality and myself but now I know I can.
Wish you a happy day to you all.
 

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Hard to say for sure, since im on the low end of the large range this place makes me feel small by comparison. And all the pics of hung ripped guys makes me feel even more out of shape than a i am, but i've also gotten a fair amount of compliments on my pictures so i dunno.
 
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Very true. There's nothing wrong with showing off if you want to. If you've got it, flaunt it!

Now, if you have an account here and you have any pictures of yourself at all, wouldn't that technically be showing off, in a sense?:p

Counterpoint: if most people on this site have at least one photo is just a couple photos showing off or fitting in?
 
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Counterpoint: if most people on this site have at least one photo is just a couple photos showing off or fitting in?
True enough. I guess it's only showing off if it's gratuitous.

Even then.... nothing wrong with that.
 
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If you reaíd my introduction - why am I here - you could understand that I gained confidence. I thank for the site and the users to achive that. But I could have picked the less confident answer too - many guys here could ruin that first feeling. And many just here for fishing ego boost.
Overall Im happy that Ive joined this site. Mainly because I never tought I could accept my sexuality and myself but now I know I can.
Wish you a happy day to you all.
Where is your introduction?
 
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Hard to say for sure, since im on the low end of the large range this place makes me feel small by comparison. And all the pics of hung ripped guys makes me feel even more out of shape than a i am, but i've also gotten a fair amount of compliments on my pictures so i dunno.

This site has made me go back to the gym as well. I view that as a good reaction. I’m told regularly by Pet that she is happy with me, but I still am getting into better shape.
 
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See the last several pages of "The Truth About a Tiny Dick".
I read through that thread. It seems like a minority of guys were truly bought into propaganda. Most posters stated big dick is not everything.
 

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Neither - it's nice to hear things about my pics, but I don't take things from here into real life. My confidence is linked to how people IRL interact with me. I find praise on here is very easy to come by and it's not hard to get compliments from horny idiots ...
 
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At the bottom on my comment you could find a link in my signatures and quotes. (fixed it)
I’m assuming that shows up when viewing from a laptop/desktop. I’m on mobile so I don’t see any signatures.
 
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Neither - it's nice to hear things about my pics, but I don't take things from here into real life. My confidence is linked to how people IRL interact with me. I find praise on here is very easy to come by and it's not hard to get compliments from horny idiots ...

Gotdamn if this isn’t fact.
 
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Indeed. Finding confidence here is like building a house on sand - loose foundations on which to ground yourself.
This is likely true. And like all social media, this site has the potential to lead to self-image problems.

Having said that, I’d say it’s mostly been an experience that has led to feelings of confidence. OTOH, I’m all too aware of the previous poster’s concern when, e.g., I’m disappointed if a pic doesn’t get enough likes or whatever. Slippery slope, this.
 

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Not sure any of the 4 alternatives fit in on me. I think that as I have gotten older, I care far less of what others may or may not think of me and how I look. While I of course was in far better physical shape when I was in my 20ies and 30ies, I was less confident in myself generally and worried more about what others might have been thinking. So, while my confidence or the lack of it probably hasn't changed much, it is something which doesn't bother me anymore, or certainly not as much.

Something I've learned from lpsg.com is that when you have a "shower" like mine, that is what others are going to be looking at if I take my clothes off, so the fact that I have gained weight and now have something of a built in air-bag where the beginnings of a 6-pack once were, doesn't bother me in the slightest.
I've also learned that I will never again stay in a hostel whenever travelling. Not from personal bad experiences at all, but from reading what others get up to, or hope to get up to while staying in one. Besides, the older I get, the more comfortable I am getting, so no longer prepared to share a room with strangers or having to walk down a hall to a shared bathroom.