Has my dick done me any good?

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Am I the only one here who wonders if my size (6 3/4 girth, 7 length) has done me any good in life? I cannot help wonder what good it has done me, and I can think of many reasons it has actually been a problem.

It has never done me a damned thing to get me girls. Unless I'm walking around with an erection in tight-fitting jeans how would they know? Closest thing I can think of is the time I met a woman whose very first words to me were "Did your father have a big cock?". Apparently I had been pointed out to her by another woman who knew me. But I actually found the experience cold and a little unnerving.

And there were many women in my life who, I eventually realized, only wanted me for my dick. This is not a good basis for a relationship. Relationships like that are empty, frustrating, and a distraction from finding a true partner.

And I do not believe it ever improved my pleasure during sex. I have exactly the same number of nerve endings and a man half my size, and thus feel exactly the same degree of sensation. But it HAS gotten in the way of my sex life. It is very hard for me to get a blow-job. Usually the teeth come out and cause me pain. There were many times I had to "put up" with a painful blowjob in order to keep my partner happy. My current girlfriend, who loves given them, cannot fit me. And there were women with whom plain-old intercourse was difficult because I was simply too big for them. Tragically, my now deceased wife was one of them.

OK, I'm being a complainer. I realize there are men who would pay a million bucks to swap with me. But I can't help feeling as if my "gift" was anything but. I alone in this?
 

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How about give you extra confidence? Knowing that a girl will not be dissapointed when she gets ur pants off. Well at the very least it's one less thing to worry about.
 

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That's true. I guess having never experienced sexual insecurity I take confidence for granted. Oddly enough when I was young it didn't keep me from being nervous introducing myself to women. But yes. I guess there were things I was spared. And yes, back when I was young and promiscuous I guess I did bring a little happiness into the world.
 

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All gifts are curses, and vica versa. They don't always help, they don't always hurt. I'll share with you the ONLY real reason I'd lie to have a big cock. It has nothing to do with sex, even, it has to do with people's perception of things that they see as having intrinsic value. A bg cock, right, wrong, or indfferent, is pretty much ALWAYS seen as a valuable commodty to have, yours or someone elses. This may not be the reality, but it is a very common perception. So, for me, it would be a sense of something I had that was always considered desireable. When life craps all over you, and it seems like everything worth anything is beng taken from you, you can always look down, take it in your hand, and tell yourself "Well, at least I always have THIS, and I'll be able to keep it". :) Use it as a reason to feel better about yourself and what you have, shalow as it may be, when life gets you down. Then you can build on it with the things that truly matter the most in your life. It's a great kic start to feeling better. :)
 

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All gifts are curses, and vica versa. They don't always help, they don't always hurt. I'll share with you the ONLY real reason I'd lie to have a big cock. It has nothing to do with sex, even, it has to do with people's perception of things that they see as having intrinsic value. A bg cock, right, wrong, or indfferent, is pretty much ALWAYS seen as a valuable commodty to have, yours or someone elses. This may not be the reality, but it is a very common perception. So, for me, it would be a sense of something I had that was always considered desireable. When life craps all over you, and it seems like everything worth anything is beng taken from you, you can always look down, take it in your hand, and tell yourself "Well, at least I always have THIS, and I'll be able to keep it". :) Use it as a reason to feel better about yourself and what you have, shalow as it may be, when life gets you down. Then you can build on it with the things that truly matter the most in your life. It's a great kic start to feeling better. :)

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