Am I the only one here who wonders if my size (6 3/4 girth, 7 length) has done me any good in life? I cannot help wonder what good it has done me, and I can think of many reasons it has actually been a problem.
It has never done me a damned thing to get me girls. Unless I'm walking around with an erection in tight-fitting jeans how would they know? Closest thing I can think of is the time I met a woman whose very first words to me were "Did your father have a big cock?". Apparently I had been pointed out to her by another woman who knew me. But I actually found the experience cold and a little unnerving.
And there were many women in my life who, I eventually realized, only wanted me for my dick. This is not a good basis for a relationship. Relationships like that are empty, frustrating, and a distraction from finding a true partner.
And I do not believe it ever improved my pleasure during sex. I have exactly the same number of nerve endings and a man half my size, and thus feel exactly the same degree of sensation. But it HAS gotten in the way of my sex life. It is very hard for me to get a blow-job. Usually the teeth come out and cause me pain. There were many times I had to "put up" with a painful blowjob in order to keep my partner happy. My current girlfriend, who loves given them, cannot fit me. And there were women with whom plain-old intercourse was difficult because I was simply too big for them. Tragically, my now deceased wife was one of them.
OK, I'm being a complainer. I realize there are men who would pay a million bucks to swap with me. But I can't help feeling as if my "gift" was anything but. I alone in this?
It has never done me a damned thing to get me girls. Unless I'm walking around with an erection in tight-fitting jeans how would they know? Closest thing I can think of is the time I met a woman whose very first words to me were "Did your father have a big cock?". Apparently I had been pointed out to her by another woman who knew me. But I actually found the experience cold and a little unnerving.
And there were many women in my life who, I eventually realized, only wanted me for my dick. This is not a good basis for a relationship. Relationships like that are empty, frustrating, and a distraction from finding a true partner.
And I do not believe it ever improved my pleasure during sex. I have exactly the same number of nerve endings and a man half my size, and thus feel exactly the same degree of sensation. But it HAS gotten in the way of my sex life. It is very hard for me to get a blow-job. Usually the teeth come out and cause me pain. There were many times I had to "put up" with a painful blowjob in order to keep my partner happy. My current girlfriend, who loves given them, cannot fit me. And there were women with whom plain-old intercourse was difficult because I was simply too big for them. Tragically, my now deceased wife was one of them.
OK, I'm being a complainer. I realize there are men who would pay a million bucks to swap with me. But I can't help feeling as if my "gift" was anything but. I alone in this?