Has something happened to you that seriously changed your sex life?

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by zaza, May 19, 2007.

  1. zaza

    zaza New Member

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    Reading the thread about circumcised penises got me thinking. I have only ever had experience of circumcised guys and would be quite curious about uncircumcised guys. A few years back a colleague of mine needed a circumcision for medical reasons. He was 42 and had been married for 16 years. How weird must that have been to them both? Presumably it made quite a difference to their sex life.

    Has anyone got experience of this, or other happenings that have dramatically changed things?
     
  2. D_Andy_Whorewall

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    Don't know how this fits in but: Last year at this time I began jelqing, for penis enhancement (7x5 then). I took it slowly and progressed throught the summer to where I was performing some pretty intense excercises on my penis, mostly for girth.

    After over 6 months I tapered off my routine, not enough free time, and then found that my penis became very sensitive. Though I've gained a 1/4 inch in girth, I can no longer last more than 3 minutes of vaginal sex, and it's very annoying.

    My wife didn't know about my enhancement routine and she's wondering why after 20+ years of marriage my penis is overly sensitive. I attribute all the pressure applied to my penis as the result in my now over sensitivity.

    I'd give the 1/4 inch back if I could last the 20 minutes+ like before. " Be careful what you dream for huh ?"
     
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    Yes. About 25 years ago I discovered that I preferred cock to pussy and the rest is history.
     
  4. zaza

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    Did your wife notice the extra bit of girth?
     
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    A long time ago I lost my virginity. Man, did that have a huge impact on my sex life.
     
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    I just found my virginity,I misplaced it many years ago
     
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    Most definitely there have been numerous moments that would fit this category. Somehow I had never really had any interest whatsoever in my b-hole. I have a foreskin and he did not, and we had something of an obsessive fascination with each other's cock which led to tons of oral between us. I also have a pretty hairy ass and crack, and he discovered quickly that while I am being sucked that I enjoy having my glutes squeezed and my crack tickled. So one night he has sitting on my bed, and I was standing in front of him, and my cock was in his mouth, and he was running his fingers up and down my ass crack. He nudged my b-hole, and his finger lingered there, and suddenly I discovered that was a crazy pleasurable sensation. That turned in to the best sucking I have ever had as he slowly worked his finger in a circle inside my b-hole. Ever since that night, I occasionally will get that itch that needs scratching. It was a true awakening.
     
  8. JR7

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    I impregnated my wife for the second time and have not had sex more than 4 times since late October 2013.
     
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    Yeah, puberty!
     
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    Some years ago I started jelqing, pumping and stretching even though I was considered big before. Since then some years later I have enlarged my cock a lot and can now fuck continuously for hours and cum multiple times which never happened before.
     
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    I married a woman who doesn't really like to receive oral sex. I was always accustomed to, and very much enjoyed, eating a lot of pussy. I'd do it every day if I could. I still would too. But my wife doesn't like it, which leaves me a little lost sometimes when what I really want is to eat pussy.
    That's a bigger change than I thought it would be.
     
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    Not to me, but my ex. After we broke up (a LONG time ago) he tested positive. It scared me witless. I was picky before, now I'm Incredibly picky. Add to that a partner who can't have sex (which happened about 2 years later) and I'd say my sex life has been radically changed.

    Recently I've started to come out of my shell (with permission of my partner) and look around a little more seriously than the standard glance at a profile online, and I hope to fully recover soon. :biggrin1:
     
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    Yep, got married 13 years ago to a fantastic lover who really enjoys sex. Regular sex is a good thing.
     
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    I divorced a wife who didn't enjoy sex, and then finally explored my interest in guys and came out 38 years ago.
     
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    Yes, and not necessarily for the better: ever since I fucked a guy bare, I cannot go back to condoms. It's some mental thing. I never cared for them, but I dealt with it. Now I can't stay hard with one on. It's embarrassing.
     
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