Has The Conduct Of A ‘ Man ‘ Stopped Being Taught To A Lot Of Boys?

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Just as well. The first few sentences sounds like a scenario where someone winds up on a meathook. Not saying it was the intention, just how it comes across.

Here are the rules from AAW:

With that in mind this particular forum has rules.
  1. Men can only respond to their their own threads. If you didn’t start the thread, and you’re a man, you cannot post in that thread. You will get a warning from the mods. If you feel you have to say something, you can message one of the women in the thread to post it for you, or start a new thread.
  2. As a man, you can start a thread anytime you like. Post all you like in your own thread.
  3. No dick pics. We know what a penis looks like. Trust me on this one. Your thread will be deleted or moved.
  4. No porn clips. We’ve seen porn, too. And, no, most us of don’t have any favourites. :grinning: (Use the search for more).
  5. Don’t dish it out if you can’t take it. The women of LPSG are fun, but feisty.
  6. Be original. Be sincere.
If he new he would breach no. 5, why did he start a thread there? Then he went on to breach no. 6 as well.

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Maybe there should be an automatic post set up to display the rules at the top of a new thread? @LaFemme ?
 
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I'm thinking "LPSG Man Academy" or "LPSG Man University" instead. It sounds more formal/official.

too bad that Tool Academy has already been used.

I think maybe a Forum of Shame would cut this behavior. Send someone an unsolicited doc pic and it gets posted publicly for all to see - just kidding - no one needs to be shamed. The virtual beat down they get From the ladies here should do the trick.
 

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Some people like being meathooked apparently. Either that or dude really thought we would sugar coat all our answers for the sake is sparing his under-evolved ego.

I didn't start up my flamethrower until he pissed himself. I figured he needed help drying off.

I didn't mean meathook as in the drubbing he got, as glorious as it might have been, but as in just the first few sentences came off as very creepy and even if it was not his intention my first thought if I was this girl would be getting almost run over today and part of someone's cannibalistic dinner tomorrow.
 

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I didn't mean meathook as in the drubbing he got, as glorious as it might have been, but as in just the first few sentences came off as very creepy and even if it was not his intention my first thought if I was this girl would be getting almost run over today and part of someone's cannibalistic dinner tomorrow.

Ah.. gotcha.

I know he reads this section too. Pops in once in awhile. That's why I'm glad this thread is in this section. He can see that some of the men here also found his nonsense ridiculous and/or creepy.

Hopefully he'll learn.
 

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Ah.. gotcha.

I know he reads this section too. Pops in once in awhile. That's why I'm glad this thread is in this section. He can see that some of the men here also found his nonsense ridiculous and/or creepy.

Hopefully he'll learn.

I generally didn't have a problem with his question. I personally wouldn't have left a note like he did but everyone has a different way of approaching things in life.

What I had issue with is that he asked for advice and received it. He ultimately didn't like said advise, proceeded to shoot the messengers and finally self implode,
 

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too bad that Tool Academy has already been used.

I think maybe a Forum of Shame would cut this behavior. Send someone an unsolicited doc pic and it gets posted publicly for all to see - just kidding - no one needs to be shamed. The virtual beat down they get From the ladies here should do the trick.
It’ll be like when a liquor store hangs a display of all the fake IDs they confiscate. I enjoy the thought of this.
 

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Here are the rules from AAW:

With that in mind this particular forum has rules.
  1. Men can only respond to their their own threads. If you didn’t start the thread, and you’re a man, you cannot post in that thread. You will get a warning from the mods. If you feel you have to say something, you can message one of the women in the thread to post it for you, or start a new thread.
  2. As a man, you can start a thread anytime you like. Post all you like in your own thread.
  3. No dick pics. We know what a penis looks like. Trust me on this one. Your thread will be deleted or moved.
  4. No porn clips. We’ve seen porn, too. And, no, most us of don’t have any favourites. :grinning: (Use the search for more).
  5. Don’t dish it out if you can’t take it. The women of LPSG are fun, but feisty.
  6. Be original. Be sincere.
If he new he would breach no. 5, why did he start a thread there? Then he went on to breach no. 6 as well.

Edit:

Maybe there should be an automatic post set up to display the rules at the top of a new thread? @LaFemme ?
I don’t know if it’s possible. I have a feeling people would just skip past it anyway. Sometimes, I think, as impossible as it seems, that no one reads any rules.
 

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I generally didn't have a problem with his question. I personally wouldn't have left a note like he did but everyone has a different way of approaching things in life.

What I had issue with is that he asked for advice and received it. He ultimately didn't like said advise, proceeded to shoot the messengers and finally self implode,

Exactly. I didn't have an issue with his question. I had an issue with his reaction to our replies which were just genuine and honest.

I didn't like the way he phrased the thread, but I think he really did just want to feel like he wasn't being creepy. What he did... Leaving the note... I would have probably thought of finding a new place to walk/run/bike. So I answered honestly. That woman may have felt differently.

His reaction to honest replies was 100% the problem.
 
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too bad that Tool Academy has already been used.

I think maybe a Forum of Shame would cut this behavior. Send someone an unsolicited doc pic and it gets posted publicly for all to see - just kidding - no one needs to be shamed. The virtual beat down they get From the ladies here should do the trick.

I'm imagining a gallery of dudes holding dog shaming-esque signs :joy:
 

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It’ll be like when a liquor store hangs a display of all the fake IDs they confiscate. I enjoy the thought of this.

There was an adult store that used to put up the pictures of the shoplifters they caught and what they stole. Nothing like being immortalized for all to see over trying to get a finger-fingered discount on a dildo. That kind of shame lasts a lifetime.
 

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I don’t know if it’s possible. I have a feeling people would just skip past it anyway. Sometimes, I think, as impossible as it seems, that no one reads any rules.

It might be possible. The 'LSPG' account that sends members "Welcome", account upgrade and group invite conversations, might be able to do it. It currently has ~55,000 messages and most of them must of been posted automatically. I don't know if maybe @Mr. LPSG can look into it. Just my observations from around the site mixed in with my personal experience with websites/forums.

It seems a lot of the moderation time is taken up by people not reading the T&R. Maybe a part of getting verified should be a quick multiple choice test on the T&Rs?

On another note, would you be able to edit the title of the thread and capitalise the 'M' in 'man'? I missed it when I stated the tread and every time I see it in my notifications it makes me twitch.
 
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Leaving the note... I would have probably thought of finding a new place to walk/run/bike

I feel the same when people intrude on my alone walks in the woods. It's my thinking/decompress time, please leave me alone.
 
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It might be possible. The 'LSPG' account that sends members "Welcome", account upgrade and group invite conversations, might be able to do it. It currently has ~55,000 messages and most of them must of been posted automatically. I don't know if maybe @Mr. LPSG can look into it. Just my observations from around the site mixed in with my personal experience with websites/forums.

It seems a lot of the moderation time is taken up by people not reading the T&R. Maybe a part of getting verified should be a quick multiple choice test on the T&Rs?

On another note, would you be able to edit the title of the thread and capitalise the 'M' in 'man'? I missed it when I stated the tread and every time I see it in my notifications it makes me twitch.

Hi :)

The 55,000 messages on the LPSG are posts not inbox messages. I think all of them are just automated posts.

One thing I've learned is people don't take the time to read. They'll read the title and nothing else. That is the nature of the world we live in imo.

That said adding a text at the top of every post may not be possible and also would seriously impact the look for those who are on a mobile.
 
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I have just come from a thread in AAW and the conduct of said 'man' has been atrocious. I would never dream of saying some of the things that he said in that thread. It has just shocked me that people believe that as acceptable.

Am I alone in thinking this? What needs be changed in in our societies?

Just noticed that MisterB is tidying up the thread, at least now it will be more of a pleasant read.

This is a pretty androcentric topic to be posting in Women's Issues...
 
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This is a pretty androcentric topic to be posting in Women's Issues...

I think it suits this section just fine being that it was inspired by a man treating women like shit for giving him honest answers rather than stroking his fragile ego.
 

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This is a pretty androcentric topic to be posting in Women's Issues...

I was deliberating too much between Women issues, as this was a follow up from AAW, and Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy. It was stopping me from starting the thread. I came to the conclusion that the moderators could move it, if it was deemed to be in the wrong section. All that mattered was that everyone could contribute.

I hoped it would come across as a bit Tongue-in-cheek and an honest discussion on what occurred. But sometimes I forget that not everyone understands British humour.
 
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