Ill say this...Ive never had an issue reaching orgasm with a woman, no matter her "equipment" or otherwise, so as a result id imagine most men would call those successful encounters..but lets be fair, your average man can orgasm with enough friction and pressure from a sock, a pillow, a hand, etc., so it's not exactly like there's a high bar of performance women are being judged upon.
My experiences then are akin to the Chris Rock bit where he broke down what the difference was between him cumming and her making him cum. I've experienced such a thing and it is disappointing to say the least to realize a womans sexual skill or lack thereof allows her be a veritable fleshlight and believe that is some complement to her overall prowess.
But lets be honest as men; we have to accept the fact that unlike women, a complaint about sex will typically ensure we wont be having sex with her again anytime soon. And so as such i think most men will settle for mediocre sex regularly then to possibly turn off their partner by implying they could bring about better performance.