Yep. Even though I'm huge and I've been the biggest for every other woman who's seen it, my wife actually had one guy who was bigger than me. He was a monster, probably on the ballpark of 9.5-10 inches long and 6.5+ inches around. About as big as humanly possible. I am definitely a bit jealous, since I know she's kind of a size queen and I can't fill her up quite as much as he did, even with a penis pump.
The saving grace for my self-confidence in bed with her is that (A) I know from experience that sex is way better with love than without, so I definitely have him beat, (B) I know I can pump to about his girth and I've noticed, when I do, that she does enjoy it but she actually enjoys it less than a slightly thinner cock, and (C) I know that the vast majority of the time, she wants like 8-8.5 inches inside her, not more. She is physically capable of taking more, but it's usually not a good thing. So I basically have her perfect length dick and a great girth for her, and I can pump to her perfect girth, and everything else about our sex is perfect
The saving grace for my self-confidence in bed with her is that (A) I know from experience that sex is way better with love than without, so I definitely have him beat, (B) I know I can pump to about his girth and I've noticed, when I do, that she does enjoy it but she actually enjoys it less than a slightly thinner cock, and (C) I know that the vast majority of the time, she wants like 8-8.5 inches inside her, not more. She is physically capable of taking more, but it's usually not a good thing. So I basically have her perfect length dick and a great girth for her, and I can pump to her perfect girth, and everything else about our sex is perfect