hachikid
It is true what you say that "the nerve endings stop only about 3 inches in", but quite a lot of women have different types of orgasms made more intense when they are completely full down there. The thin line between pleasure and pain.
Basically a big cock, especially if thick, maximises by far chances of orgasm. Again: there are big cocks out there that are totally useless, so it's no guarantee that it provides female orgasm, but it helps. A lot. Source: every girl I talked to about it.
the "full" feeling you talk about is just a mental thing. of course they are going to feel a thicker cock because it stretches the parts of the vagina with the nerve endings, but not necessarily a longer cock, assuming their vagina can accommodate it. and yes, some women get off on pain, but not a whole ton. that's with the whole "size queen" thing I touched on.
its funny because everything you just said feels like its something i have said or thought lol. yea when i found out this guy was huge immediately felt insecure. i always was curious too because i would hint about it and refer to my own penis as small and she would just say "your fineeee". (which i guess is a good thing but i felt that whenever someone says that, theyre just being nice. which might be the case if it werent for her intense orgasms that assure me it is indeed "fine" lol.) so then i knew there must be someone who was bigger for her to say things like "its fine".
i disagree about the 3 inches of feeling they have because i know that when i really want her to cum hard i try to hit the bottom of her vagina and press really hard. she says it hurts but feels so good. so maybe this is what made me feel insecure when she told me about the bigger experience shes had.
also i think most of my insecurities come from lacking in the girth area because i know this is what most women enjoy the most. so im definately jealous of your 6 inches around lol.
first off, you're not small. lol, trust me. and your dick is still plenty thick. look at it like this, you aren't like a pencil! and if that still isn't enough to satisfy your ego, your dick works
VERY good for her. apparently well enough to make her cum 10 times! I haven't been able to manage that...yet! ^_^
and as far as her having really intense orgasms when you press really hard, also remember that your pressing up against her clit, her g spot, and the tissue with the nerve endings with more intensity, and there's a possibility that you're hitting her cervix. some women enjoy that feeling, too. not too much, but just enough (my woman enjoys it, too). it's a medical fact that the majority of a woman's vaginal nerve endings end around 3" in. it may vary from woman to woman, but this seems to be the majority.
as far as size, I'm getting my information from a friend in Texas. her and I were talking about the subject of what it feels like for a woman, and she said it is definately more about how the person uses it, rather than the size. she said it's sort of vague down there, she doesn't really feel anything specific, "just pressure" (her words, not mine". she went on to say that as long as your within a reasonable size (around 4.5-ish), you're set. she's had a few guys with sizes ranging from 5 inches to about 7.5-8 inches, and she said she didn't notice a physical difference, more of a difference in how the guys operated their equipment. I've come to terms with that there are people out there with bigger dicks than myself (I've fooled around with one that outright shamed me, a little over 9"), and I'm sure there are guys out there that could pleasure my woman better than I can, but she doesn't care about them, and she doesn't want them. she wants me, and only me. and it's the same on my side. there are women who I find that are very attractive, but I know I have something special with my woman, and I could care less about the other women when it comes down to it. I wouldn't trade her for anything. it took a little bit to come to this point, but if you're just looking for sex, don't let your feelings get hurt if someone can do it better than you because that's true of anything. if you're looking for actual love and a solid relationship with a person you can trust no matter what, things like an inch here or there won't matter. just like I physically prefer taller women with a bigger chest, I don't really care about things like that when it comes to my lady (she's 5' 3" and has gorgeous b-cups) because of everything else that we share (connection, history, love, etc, etc).
so, I think while sex is an important part of a relationship, it's still just one part. you have to be good at all the other stuff to keep the relationship fulfilling and so forth, and what happens between the sheets will follow suit. I can definately attest to that.
Joseph.
