According to my wife she has been with guys bigger than me, smaller than me, and about my size. She says a couple were really big. The same could be said of me that I have slept with women who had bigger/smaller breasts - but this reference to size has had no bearing of our feelings/love for each other.
Has your partner been with someone who is bigger than you?
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Why is it always the man that is either to big or to small? Don't pussys come in different sizes also? It kinda pisses me off that the man is to blame for any size problems. Some women may simply be huge while other may think a man is huge simply because she is tiny
My wife has had some really nice big, long, thick cocks and it turns me on to think about it, but she doesn't want to discuss it saying that it's private. She also says that the guys were selfish and the sex was bad for her. So, we don't talk about it, instead, I think about those cocks and come here to this website to read about the nice big, long, thick cocks possessed and covetted by the members of this site ;-)
That's just how it is.
And that's also why many women, especially size-queens, say that their pussies are small and tight, which is just utter nonsense. Who do women think they're fooling?
If you can take a huge cock, you don't have a small/tight pussy. Period.
I think she has been with two guys who were bigger than me. One of those was a once and done thing, she said he was huge and very very bad in bed. She remembered that a female friend who was recommending him to her said that his cock was like two coke cans stacked on top of one another, and, being young and adventurous herself, decided to give it a go. It sounded terrible though. The other guy was about 9 and was someone she saw for about a year, but she never got off with him.
My partner has only had extremes. The first guy she ever slept with she said was about 3 inches long. Then the next guy she hooked up with, after getting out of that relationship, was massive - the biggest she's ever seen (had to be huge to be bigger than 2 cans of soda), but they never got farther than her giving him a handjob. Needless to say, she was confused about penis size at that point in her life.
It's definitely given me some pause about my self-esteem but I think she appreciates me in bed and I am always open to learning and trying new things. I'm very focused on her and try to listen to what she needs and be attentive. We try to employ an "orgasm first rule" for her because she tends to get off in multiples if warmed up enough before sex, and she really enjoys that.
My partner has only had extremes. The first guy she ever slept with she said was about 3 inches long. Then the next guy she hooked up with, after getting out of that relationship, was massive - the biggest she's ever seen (had to be huge to be bigger than 2 cans of soda), but they never got farther than her giving him a handjob. Needless to say, she was confused about penis size at that point in her life.
It's definitely given me some pause about my self-esteem but I think she appreciates me in bed and I am always open to learning and trying new things. I'm very focused on her and try to listen to what she needs and be attentive. We try to employ an "orgasm first rule" for her because she tends to get off in multiples if warmed up enough before sex, and she really enjoys that.
A few years ago, I dated a girl who had a few partners who were a lot larger than me (the exact size she couldn't be too sure of, but when we watched porno she told me he was the size of Lexington Steel). She found it enjoyable, but could only take him to a point and then it got painful. She loved my penis because of the curve and how it hit her g-spot. Also, she'd had a guy who was easily 9" and the girth of me who had anal with her and although she took it, she didn't like the way it felt as much as with me. Size does matter, but it also helps if the person using the penis knows what they are doing. Just slamming it into a girl with no regards to how she is taking it isn't pleasurable for her.
In turn, I dated a few women who said I was the biggest (girth-wise) they had ever had and were almost afraid to try to take me on. Did I ruin them for smaller men? I know a woman's vagina will accommodate most penises and I know the next guy whom she might have will be thinner than me and she'll (I hope) enjoy it as much as mine.
If you are stressed about size, then you are barking up the wrong tree. If she's happy with what you have and hasn't left you for a larger one as of yet, then don't mess with a good thing. You keep asking her about it and wondering if you are not going to satisfy her then you are going to turn her off to you and lose her...
In turn, I dated a few women who said I was the biggest (girth-wise) they had ever had and were almost afraid to try to take me on. Did I ruin them for smaller men? I know a woman's vagina will accommodate most penises and I know the next guy whom she might have will be thinner than me and she'll (I hope) enjoy it as much as mine.
If you are stressed about size, then you are barking up the wrong tree. If she's happy with what you have and hasn't left you for a larger one as of yet, then don't mess with a good thing. You keep asking her about it and wondering if you are not going to satisfy her then you are going to turn her off to you and lose her...
Probably.
I don't ask my ex's how big the other men who they've been with have been as it's pointless and not everyone is obsessed with size or knows the size of other people who they have been with.
I don't ask my ex's how big the other men who they've been with have been as it's pointless and not everyone is obsessed with size or knows the size of other people who they have been with.
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Exactly. Who cares? No matter how big you are, there is always someone, somewhere bigger. Your GF or BF is not the moon. You are not planting your flag anywhere.
BINGO. I've got a big one, I don't really care if you do or not. I'm more about a guy's overall look.
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I'm sure my sexual partners have been with bigger. As gay males living in New York, one has to eventually run into someone with the "notorious club" or the "hateful anteater". But I don't let it get to me because I very rarely ever get complaints in that department. :wink:
I have been dating my gf for a while now. We were talking about past lovers about a month ago. As I thought would be the case, she has had a few lovers that were bigger than me. I am above average but not huge at 7.5" x 6". It was intriguing but not a concern for me. As a matter of fact, one was really big according to her. She said she personally measured him at a little over 9". That is huge. She said that she enjoyed sex with him but a big dick does not make for a great relationship. We have a great sex life and a great relationship. A big dick is what it is but I think most women will tell you that it does not make a relationship.
I think you have to be very careful with this subject. If your girl enjoyed some bigger dicks then thats great, but now she is with you. The large majority of girls go 1) Do I like the man? and 2) Body, Penis, looks. Its you she likes, not the penis.
IF you keep hounding her about her exes and how big their dicks are you could subconciously be telling her that size is the most important thing in the world, that you are insecure, and that she should be looking for bigger or going back to someone bigger....
IF you keep hounding her about her exes and how big their dicks are you could subconciously be telling her that size is the most important thing in the world, that you are insecure, and that she should be looking for bigger or going back to someone bigger....
Ok here we go again, with people making puzzling statements... so you are 7.5 x 6 and simply "above average but not huge", but the guy who is slightly over 9 is "huge"? Makes me wonder if you are really the size you claim to be, because you would know how big that really is... might want to go look at a ruler again and see how close the measurements 7.5" and 9" are located to each other.
And even if the guy was "a little over 9"... that means he's automatically thicker than 6"? Long does not necessarily mean thick, and long and skinny does not equal big.
If you haven't read my posts about the crazy chicks that use this certain tactic to control their SO, I'd suggest you check them out. Not trying to be an ass - just sayin'.
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Yea I agree with Mr. cumalot. Just assume she's been with bigger as theres going to be someone bigger and better than you, just be happy that she's with you!
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