Those curls really do it for me. No joke! Is it true that Orthodox couples cut a hole in the sheet to have sex? I could work that into my fantasies somehow; it's almost like a gloryhole.
No, they do not cut holes in the sheets. According to Talmud, nothing must come between a married couple in their physical intimacy. Sex is not something dirty in Judaism. The curls are referred to as, "payos," in Hebrew. It means, "corners of the head." There is no particular significance to the curls other than they are traditional and some may wear them or not. Length is entirely up to the wearer. The only prohibition on the payos is that they must never be shaved. They can only be snipped.
I've always wanted to meet a nice Jewish boy. I don't know why... I've seen some very handsome Hasidic men. I just wish they didn't have to be bearded. The clothes aren't exactly sexy, but there's nevertheless something attractive about their committment to a faith, tradition, and community that lies outside the mainstream. You might like The Chosen, featuring Robbie Benson as a Hasidic Jew. He's a cutie. The Chosen (1981) RobbyBensonScrapBook There's also a rather heartbreaking documentary called Trembling Before G-d about gay and lesbian Orthodox Jews struggling to reconcile their religion with their sexuality. Trembling Before G-d - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
Not according to this book: The Hole in the Sheet: A Modern Woman Looks at Orthodox and Hasidic Judaism: Evelyn Kaye It's been years since I read it (I don't own a copy), but as I recall, she quotes the pertinent passages from the Shulchan Aruch that require couples to separate themselves with a sheet.
i have a ritual/religion fetish so i tend to lust after the Hasidum. one of my favorite blogs: Hasidic Rebel there are just so many laws related to purity, modesty, contact between the sexes, the cloistered from the mainstream lifestyle. i just want to get dirty with a nice jewish boy. i know it's wrong to want to do unclean acts in the mikvah. that's why i want to do it. from payot to tzitzit or tallit katan to shtilf. yummy. the suits are to die for. all the black with stark white shirts. on a thin body the look is killer. oh and that studious all contemplating expression. if you have the inclination to watch Mendy: A Question of Faith is brilliant and the lead actor is beautiful. docs: A Life Apart: Hasidism in America. ML
Meniscus - oh my! "The Chosen" looks compelling. Both of the films you recommended do, actually - for different reasons. I'd heard about the documentary before, and would love to see it.
I deleted impulse300 entry as it dealt with incest and sex with a minor. The situation will be dealt with directly when the system is working properly. Moderator NY
I think you should make clear, lest you leave a false impression among people who never saw the messages that have been deleted, that Impulse300 did NOT write about such things: he merely quoted and commented on a message by another member which did deal with such matters.
Please cite the passage, if possible. Please, I live 5 miles from the largest Orthodox community in the country. I had a summer job for an Orthodox man doing PC repair. It was a fantastic and educational experience. Judaism has no prohibition on sex. A couple can have sex for whatever reason they want. They're encouraged to enjoy sex just for its pleasure. There's no Christian guilt or asceticism. Talmud states that nothing must come between a man and woman having sex. Most Orthodox interpret this to mean everything from sheets, to jewelry, to condoms. In the Orthodox bedroom, the woman has a right to enjoy her husband's body as she see pleases. Same for the husband. And here's Snopes on the subject. Case closed.
Did you read what you quoted from me?: That was never at issue. Any religion that had a prohibition on sex would die out with its founders, unless they could keep winning converts. So I assume you are speaking of relative and not absolute prohibitions. But as I understand, Orthodox Judaism does prohibit sexual relations between parties who are not married to each other. And even if they are married, once the woman has begun her menstrual period, her husband literally cannot touch her until she has been to the ritual bath seven days after her period has ended. So there are prohibitions even within marriage. You mean a married couple (consisting of a man and a woman, of course). Well, maybe that Kaye woman was full of shit. All the reviews on the Amazon page trash her book. Headings: "A biased, negative book"; "Thank God it's out of print"; "It's not true." Here is a passage that seems to me to give a plausible account of what is wrong with the book, if it really is as untruthful as all that:This book has a lot of anger in it, and seems to be written by someone who has unresolved issues. It would be like a book written by a rape survivor who attacks all men everywhere, or a book by someone who left Catholicism before Vatican II because the atmosphere was too stifling for him/her. It's not that your issues aren't real and painful, just that you should discuss them with a counselor instead of publishing them in a book before you've even tried to move past your awful past. Mrs. Kaye can't stop spouting off lies and inaccuracies, being sarcasm and venomous, using superfluous exclamation points and capital letters, or putting words in people's mouths.
Yes, there are prohibitions within marriage and I thought that marriage was a given. Sorry for not stating that.
I don't want to have sex with a Hasidic dude, but when I used to live in Williamsburg, Brooklyn, a lot of them hung out in my neighborhood bar. I thought it was pretty cool that you could belong to a fundamentalist religious sect and still get drunk, listen to rock & roll music and hit on every chick in sight.
I heard recently that they are freaky in bed. The women do not know much about sex before marriage and the men tell them that many freaky things are normal. I've also heard that it is a wife's duty to please her husband in the Jewish tradition.
My friend told me that most of the Jewish guys he's ever been with were hung bottoms that were freaky as hell. They loved to do all kinds of buttsex stuff. I personally love a cutie with a jewfro and a hairy chest.
