Hassled to be a porn star

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  1. gingernuts

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    Has anyone ever been approached about being a porn star and the person would not take no for an answer ?

    How valued are big dicks in the porn film world ?
     
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    That's weird. Under what circumstances were you approached? I'm sorry that you felt hassled. If someone were to pressure me to do something I didn't want to do, I might respond loudly.
     
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    I have experienced the reverse figuring in homemade movies for the entertainment or who knows perhaps pleasure of those in the not so wider community. My protests I remember fell on deaf ears but to this day I have not become aware that any of these 'titles' saw the light of day themselves.
     
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    I haven't been approached or hassled, I just wonder whether it is something I should worry about if it became widely known that I am well hung. I imagine there are some pretty serious people involved in the porn industry and if a big cock is a particularly valuable asset they might hassle me to do porn for them.

    Alternatively maybe they have lots of people with big dicks queuing up to be in their movies in which case no worries.

    So which is it ?
     
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    There's more to being a pornstar than having a big dick.
     
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    wtf?
     
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    If you meet the wrong person, you may have a problem. There are bad apples out there, people who know the value of some new face. Don't get caught up in taking pictures, especially since they will start small, saying that they want to see your soft penis, then get it hard, then jack off, etc. Don't do anything you are not comfortable with. It is never worth it.

    And just as Bbucko said it, there really is more to it than a big dick. Plus, no is always an answer.
     
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    So correct Bbucko....

    There needs to be talent as well .....
     
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    It matters not how big your dick is if it doesn't work on commnand and you can't keep it hard for hours on end.

    It's a business not a fantasy.
     
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    I don't think its them approaching you, as much as you approaching them. Many people want to be in porn so they can pick and choose whom they want.
     
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    ive been approached twice but the were agressive. i told them i didnt want to be on camera and that was it.
     
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    Joe your cock is so screen worthy don't hold your boy back let him persue his own career. Bbucko already knows what I think his boy's career should be. It could be a character actor it has so much charisma.:rolleyes:
     
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    I forgot---Yes you need talent ,timeing,mind space but ,a talent scout has to start somewhere. If the nessesary ingredient is big cock then thats where I would start looking.
     
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    Your two posts are contradictory, so which is it? Have you or have you not been approached and hassled?
    If you have been approached by a contact person, frequently they feel you out and size you up and probably take you out to dinner or to a sex club for the evening where your informal interview begins. Then if you are thought to have potential, either they or someone in the "group" arranges to get into your pants and the real interview begins....at least that is one way it was often conducted in the past. Romance is often part of the wooing process.
    I suspect you were made uncomfortable by the first approach and felt pressured by what was being proposed to you. This business is for profit
    and the people running the business are smart, savvy and in my opinion not about to "hassle" a prospect....their sophistication is apparent and their experience dealing with a "newboy" is extensive!
    That you have a big cock is important in the business, but unless you are packing something really "world class" and are movie star in appearance and physique....like the best superstars on this site.... relax, you are not that much in demand .... imho!
     
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    Hey Pops, does this mean I have to go back thru my fathers old gay romance paperbacks ?(gordon Merrick)
     
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    gjorg, you never know who you might meet back there in your father's gay romance paperbacks...might be fun...and if you do peruse them, gjorg, please read the one that I inspired 50 years ago in Paris. You might just enjoy the passionate story of my youth! :smile: :smile: :smile: :smile: Donkey
     
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    A lot of people approaching you via the internet aren't really connected to porn in any way, they just want you to do an 'over the cam' interview.
     
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    *chuckles*

    Yes, SG...we have all seen MANY pornos with nothing but incredibly talented actors.:tongue: :rolleyes: I get what you were saying though.

    To make it into porn, you have to have a look, a penis that works, stamina, the ability to fuck in front of others, and a lack of fear.
     
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    Yes, my first wife hassled me to do porn, i would have done it if it was just for us, the people she knew were too creepy, we went for her to do a photo shoot and they tried to get me drunk and passed out so they could have their way with her, they went as far as to go get more booze at the store and when that didn`t work they slipped something in my drink, i knew something was wrong so we left asap, i remember getting home and the rest was a blur the next thing i knew was that i woke up 12 hours later, thank god we made it home. My second wife did porn with women, she found someone who she trusted yet she got paid very little and now someone out there is still making money off her, she passed away in `98 and in a way she still lives on, plus the girl she was with was just as hot as her. Do i regret not doing it, no, that can be a dark world.

    lafever
     
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    I've been approached once by Playgirl and once by Michael Lucas, both in the locker room at a gym, both took it very nicely no hassles and no hard feelings on either end!
     
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