like_a_UB_Bull: Have any of you guys ever hated yourself for your sex drive? I've been in a relationship with this girl for almost 2 and a half years, and she's terrific, everything a guy could ask for. But I'm 18. I go to parties and girls look at me, stare at me, and I know I could go and have some fun, but I don't. I want to marry this girl someday, but I need to satiate this desire to meet all kinds of women first. It's even more complicated than that, but it's an example of why I wish I had less of a sex drive. I feel like it's leading to the demise of what could possibly the best thing that will ever happen to me. There's no guranteeing we'll get back together once we're ready. Bah, damn this thing.