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Have any guys with big asses ever felt insecure about it?
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I’ve always had a big ass, even had to wear jeans that were a couple waist sizes up from my actual waist size so I can fit. When I was younger I felt insecure about it, kids used to say that I had a womanly figure (big hips and thighs with a bulbous ass cheeks compared to my waist). Even when I became sexually active I had guys commenting on how my ass feels like a woman’s having more fat than muscle naturally. Always attracted men that fetishized it and felt very self conscious about the way I walked and moved. Had people reject me for either having a very big ass (the NO FATS gays) or for having a small waist/no belly (by chubby chasers). As I grew older I began to care less about all that. Through my fitness journey it became more toned but still being very big. IDC now if the guy who’s attracted to me for how feminine my figure is perceived, I am more secure in who I am and still getting fucked either way.
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Wow that’s beautiful. It seems like lots of middle eastern men are thicc from what I’ve seen. Always loved big booties. When u were younger did u ever try to hide how big ur butt looked?
I’ve always tried to wear things that are baggy so that the shape isn’t as obvious. The fits I leaned toward most made my look fatter than I was. Nowadays I just wear what I like
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Depends on situation/vibe. I don’t live in a place that’s gay friendly, so that kind of thing doesn’t happen. But I’ve been at parties (safe spaces) where I’ve let straight guys and girls feel it, lots of people ask me if it’s “real” or if I had something done so that’s usually what they’re asking to touch it for, usually nothing sexual.
I had a big bubble butt as a young man and on into middle age. Had many older men comment on it and tease me in front of others. I was taught to respect my elders but I wish now that I had had the presence of mind to call them out and tease them about their obvious attraction to another man's ass. I hated it back then but it served me well as I aged and it got smaller, as most men do. If you start with a small ass then you end up with no-ass-a-tall LOL. As a young man I wanted to fit in and didn't want to be pointed out as different. I feel most young people feel the same way. Looking back it all seems different now. I realize that some of those men were sexually attracted to it but I was young and dumb back then and didn't know it was a thing. My how my outlook has changed!
Initially yes, because I thought my big butt was due to being overweight. Well, I lost a lot of weight and I still have a big butt and I love it. Both women and men have complimented my ass.
This is a terrific share. Thank you for this. I for one love em' large, natural or not - simply more to love.
Speaking of natural, I’ve had more than my fair share of comments lately (with the surging popularity of BBLs) that my ass isn’t natural. Appreciate someone who doesn’t care about that sort of thing
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Yes. Waist of my pants were always to big when fitting over my ass and thighs
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its not as nice as it once was, but yah I used to get teased a little. I remember my buddy when I was younger joked "you have a bubble butt!" and I got self conscious of it at a young age. Its something I worked on for sure at the gym, it got bigger and rounder, and my wife really loved it and still does 
I know it was a target for eyes from the gay dudes I've known through the years, and it helped me spot gay dudes I didn't know; it kind of helped me know if guys I knew were gay or not, they'd really check me out and my ass for sure. Didn't make me too uncomfortable, but I knew what they were targeting with their eyes and it brought back the same old thoughts: "my ass, it is looked at and I have to be okay with that." I can't hide it!
I know it was a target for eyes from the gay dudes I've known through the years, and it helped me spot gay dudes I didn't know; it kind of helped me know if guys I knew were gay or not, they'd really check me out and my ass for sure. Didn't make me too uncomfortable, but I knew what they were targeting with their eyes and it brought back the same old thoughts: "my ass, it is looked at and I have to be okay with that." I can't hide it!About 20 years ago I met a guy, through friends at the time. He was a nice looking guy, he was 21/22 he had a lovely juicy arse, nice, big & round, he was insecure about it. Sadly it was because he had a small belly & he had quite a big receding hairline. I'm not criticising him or anyone else in a similar situation, he felt insecure because of it, but I found him incredibly hot, sexy & beautiful. We ended up having some very hot fun together, def one of the best guy's I've ever been with. I've thought about him many times & his beautiful ass was just perfect.
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