Have any women here worked as SPs?

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  1. shaguar

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    Have any of the women here worked as or are working as sex providers? Even if it's just occasionally or on the side?

    Strippers don't count. Massage with happy ending does count. Of course full prostitution counts.
     
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    shaguar neologisms like euphemisms are prissy. A woman or man that engages in sex for profit is not a "sex provider" by definition though that is what they could be said to do; he/she is a prostitute - defined legally, economically and socially as such.
     
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    I've never had sex for money or barter, but oddly, I've thought many times that I would have made a good prostitute. I think I would have been quite good at it and, for the most part, loved my job.

    However, I think it can seriously interfere with the development of future long-term relationships. I was friends with a former prostitute, and she had great difficulty finding a man who could accept her past.

    And, of course, I don't know what I would have told my family. :eek:
     
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    The truth is..yes,I am a prostitute,though at times I am shamed of it. But it pays my bills and my standard of living is class...so ???

    T.Goodman
     
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    That's ignorant. Even high-priced call girls get raped. Do you know the sickos you encounter as a whore? They want sick, perverted shit their wives would never even consider doing cos it's not SANE. Johns don't respect you, they don't care if they walk in your door stinking like shit or piss or body odor or what, they still expect you to blow them, you're their WHORE. WTF are you thinking? THIS IS NOT PRETTY WOMAN. You know how many guys walk out the door without paying??? And then there are streetwalkers, who are giving bjs in cars to all sorts from professionals to pedophiles. IS THAT WHAT YOU WANT???? YOU WANT TO "SERVICE" MEN WHO RAPE CHILDREN???? DO YOU WANT TO KNOW THAT WHEN YOU'RE DOWN ON THEM THEY'RE THINKING ABOUT MOLESTING THEIR GRANDDAUGHTERS?????

    I have encountered plenty of prostitutes as a shelter volunteer, and they have shared their stories. Don't put a nice slant on being a whore. WAKE UP.
     
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    Lighten up a bit love. She's entitled to her opinion and I don't see where in Holly's post she tried to put a nice slant on it :rolleyes:
     
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    My thoughts exactly. I do sort of think I coulda made a great one :biggrin1: . I think I see myself as a high-priced "escort" :biggrin1: . Of course there are plenty of reasons why I would never have sex for money, including that I'd never want to turn such a delightful thing as sex into WORK. Ugh. But I agree with you HollyBlue, I prob. would have loved the job. I mean, it's sex. The only prob. is I'm picky. I can see myself meeting a client and he's a 60 y/o short tubby fellah and I'd be like, umm, I was picturing Clive Owen, or at the very least a young Harrison Ford...

    J
     
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    both Paris Hilton and Nicole Ritchie are sex providers
     
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    been offered some stupidly large amounts of money...but it's just not me.

    i've know women who have done it for years & loved their job.
    i've known women who were utterly destroyed by it.

    luck & judgement.
     
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    yeah probably best you keep the prospect of prostitution out of the womens forum. give them a little respect.
     
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    Howzabout letting them decide if it's an appropritate topic.
     
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    Give us a number. How much money?
     
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    £500
    {or $1000}
    ridiculous imo.
     
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    I've known plenty of escorts/callgirls/massage parlor girls who do enjoy their work and haven't gone through half of what you describe. They're not streetwalkers, though. I'm sure those girls have it worse. Also, do you honestly think all men who would be so evil as to pay for sex must be unwashed sicko child-raping deadbeat perverts? I don't think that's really fair. They're not going to be Richard Gere, either, but most of them are just lonely horny working guys.
     
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    Are they on this forum? I didn't know Paris could do something as useful as reading.
     
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    The amusing part to me is that you are ignorant enough to tip the scale over completely in the other direction.

    No, the life of a sex professional is NOT akin to what was portrayed in 'Pretty Woman'.
    then again..
    No, the life of a sex professional is NOT akin to what you portrayed either.

    Reality, my dear, falls squarely somwhere in the middle of those two extremes. Also, I think it is terribly rude and judgemental to call these women whores. Some are just trying to do what it takes to make ends meet, put food on the table and a roof over their head for themselves and their children. Not all are privileged enough to have a good education and opportunity.
     
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    why you leaving out strippers??????

    they get paid to have sex also and sometimes they will have sex with you for free.

    every hooker i have seen walking the streets are NASTY LOOKING i doubt i could eat the amount i want to vomit when i look at them.

    when i went to amsterdam they had tons of HOT girls standing in the window did i pay them any money for sex no but they was nice to look at.
     
  18. dolfette

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    agreed.

    it's a job.
     
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    Agreed.

    I used to date a dancer(stripper) in Atlanta. Her roommate was a former dancer that, at the time, worked as an escort. This girl was very intelligent, well mannered, and generally fun to be around. She was very frank about her job when asked questions about it.

    The money was great and her clientele was select. She started out with an agency and eventually had enough clients to work independently. She described the work as being part lover, part friend, and part therapist. She said that she was fortunate that she never ran into anyone she felt was deranged or dangerous, which can sometimes happen to girls early in their careers or when they work for a disreputable agency. And this happens more often to girls who worked the streets or were into heavy drug use. I believe the drugs would lead one into making poor/desperate choices.

    I can elaborate more if anyone is curious. I was fascinated by her career choice and found myself asking her a lot of questions.
     
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    I can also do the same, having known (and still know) several ladies that work as escorts or SP's.
     
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