Have any women here worked as SPs?

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I didn't start the thread to become a slanging match or to define in the socieconomic climes of the early 21st Century, the impact of lewd images purchased via paypal on the birth rate of seal pups in Ecuador.

Everyone on here must know what a hooker is. I'm not talking about Bandar or TB (Blair) or U2 (the band, not the selling out of non-aligned status for spying on the USSR). It's a simple question.

I use the services of non-steet hookers. I like some, most are garbage -service wise. So no judgements. I just am curious. Like a one-armed monkey.

PS. I'm not high.
 

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With a classy agency and the right kind of money, it's definitely something I'd consider. Why not get paid to do something you enjoy anyway, and with clients who have already been vetted and approved?

Many thanks to the thoughtful and intelligent posters in this thread (of course leaving out the rabid generalisations on the previous page).
 

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Well prostitution has always been around and always will be. I think one of the better ways to deal with it is to have it legalized and have strict regulations on it. For example I'm sure the women at the Nevada Bunny Ranch have a lot less problems and are a lot safer than women doing it illegally.
 

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When I was 18 I had an abusive boyfriend that had me turn tricks. When I was done, I'd hand the money over.
It almost destroyed me. I was not a drug abuser, and I was a street walker. I also worked for an escort agency and found those clients worse than the ones I picked up on the street.
In my own experience, it wreaked havoc on my self esteem. I did what I had to do at the time, though 16 yrs later, I still feel some shame.
I guess you can still say I work in the sex industry, being a phone sex operator. Except now, it is safer, cleaner, saner and definitely more enjoyable.
 

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Prostitutes and the service they provide are important to me to a certain degree. I think it has to some degree to do with my lack of confidence, but more with who I am and where I live. Canadian and North American women are, well they are looking for something in return much of the time, it appears to me.

The majority of the time, I don't need intercourse. I wouldn't refuse, but hand holding or just talking is great. Some of the time though, I need all hands on deck orgy sex. Anal, DP, sweat drippin' down my ball sex. I can settle for normal sex, I can give up perverted, circus sex. But noooo, they ain't looking for love, they looking for Mr. Perfection. It's a little more complicated but I think that's the essence.

I do feel bad for any one involved in prostitution. I truly think that it is demeaning to all parties. Many women will never recover. I find it hard to visit a prostitute until I have lost my senses to lust. It's not the greatest. The fear of disease and violence, of being secretly video taped and sold as the B-side to the celebrity sex idiot of the week, or seeing someone I know : Hi John. Oh, hey there Jon! It is a waste of money. I feel only disgust, and shame and pity. I grudge some women the easy money they make and then think of the trade: their souls, their womanhood for this. I know it is not that stark. I have truly connected with some women, but it's so fake, so wrong. I feel protective about some of these women, even though I may never see them again. Creep after creep, except I guess all the creeps think they are the only man who's got it bad, who isn't the creep, who's doing it for the last time, who gargles after every encounter, feels remote and disconnected and alone and believes he will never be wanted, or ever want anyone really; because he can see through their skin, their lives ticking away, his own wasted life, his own wasting life, his every next mistake. His every final sin.
 

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Also, I think it is terribly rude and judgemental to call these women whores. Some are just trying to do what it takes to make ends meet, put food on the table and a roof over their head for themselves and their children. Not all are privileged enough to have a good education and opportunity.
Hogwash.

"Whores" is a word with a common and well-known definition. Judgement hardly enters into it. If she's a whore, calling her one is objectively true, and in no way judgmental.

Your assumption that "underprivilege" and poor education are necessarily correlative factors is bizarre, unjustified, and perhaps even demeaning.
 

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Hogwash.

"Whores" is a word with a common and well-known definition. Judgement hardly enters into it. If she's a whore, calling her one is objectively true, and in no way judgmental.
some people would say the same about nigger or fag.

it's an ugly word, an insulting word.
prostitutes just describes their job. like lawyer or dentist.
 

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To all the people endorsing prostitution here, would you also approve of your daughter or sister choosing prostitution as her career?
it's not up to me to tell an adult woman what she should do.

i'd hate it but that doesn't give me the right to judge, rant or condemn.
 

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nigger does have a pretty well defined meaning.

Definition of nigger - Merriam-Webster Online Dictionary

so it's no longer an offensive term, right!

but it now ranks as perhaps the most offensive and inflammatory racial slur in English

The text in red comes from the definition you linked for nigger. It certainly is still considered offensive by most. I was just pointing out that whore can be defined as an individual who has sex for money, with no social commentary attached. I agree that whore certainly can be used in a non-complimentary fashion, but I personally don't put it in the legion of nigger.