Have fun or Let it Go

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by MovingForward, May 12, 2009.

  1. MovingForward

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    So last night i was out with my guy and a friend. Well my friend is blind, so I escort him to the door of the bathroom. When I turn around there is a guy shaking hands with my man and there is a slip of paper in his hand. So because I am not about to leave my blind friend at the bathroom, I stay put and me and my boyfriend exchange a quick glance at each other and smile. So when I get back he hands me the paper and it just states "I want to talk to you" and this guys email. Now first my man is from Honduras and he does not speak or read english particularly well. ( i am teaching him) and does not have email or a cell phone.

    So in discussing with my friends they think I should post his email on facebook and let people spam him/or pretend they are my man and give him the runaround.

    I myself just thought it surprising that someone would be that bold. Between us kissing,holding hands, and my man sitting on my lap it was clear we were together
     
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    Hmm, one is blind, one can't speak (english), and the one that can see and speak doesn't.

    why didn't u just ask the dude what he was doing, right then and there?

    revenge after the fact is lame, and karma's a bitch so i'd let it go.

    and if ur bf was trying to hook up with the dude I'd let HIM go too.

    i never thought about it before but how does ur blind friend find the urinal? does he have to touch it, or just start pissin & wave it around and listen for the right sound? i'm goin with the latter if i ever go blind. or have a friend aim it for me.
     
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    Well, the piece of paper only said "I want to talk to you" so his intentions could be pure, could be. I don't think revenge such as posting his e-mail address will achieve anything, revenge is a hollow and petty thing to pursue and you wont feel any better for it. If I was in your situation, I would simply let it go. Either that, or e-mail the guy yourself.

    I also agree with the other post that says you should have acted on it there and then (if at all). My advice would be to just let it go.
     
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    Between thad and flamey, all's been said that's necessary.
     
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    well not quite,

    i still don't know how blind guys aim for the urinal
     
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    Scented urinal cakes.
     
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    I have never asked him, but he prefers stalls with toilets so I believe he sits.
     
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    They don't have to. They sit down.
     
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