Have No Pleasure

[RATA1988]

Hi,

I don't understand, i don't feel anything when having sex with a guy or girl. i give them pleasure. i can see them moaning and getting excited in all senses, but i don't feel anything. at best it's funny or worse i feel invaded by the partner and his smell. and that every time.

What is wrong with me?

Thanks.

 

[xidutu]

It may be some trauma, something hormonal, physical or just your own asexual orientation. Either way, I highly recommend that you look for a specialist doctor as your first step.
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[RATA1988]

It may be some trauma, something hormonal, physical or just your own asexual orientation. Either way, I highly recommend that you look for a specialist doctor as your first step.
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Thank you for your advice. I have sexual desire and I can seduce in IRL, but I feel like a toy when I do it. I feel dispossessed of my identity and energy.

 

[Capitolhillguy]

Thank you for your advice. I have sexual desire and I can seduce in IRL, but I feel like a toy when I do it. I feel dispossessed of my identity and energy.

I think you could benefit from a sex therapist. I love sex but never cum with anyone anymore, but it is because since I stopped going to the parks and baths, no one knows how to give head properly during the last decade. It doesn't help that gay porn almost never shows a good bj. I never came with my 6 year boyfriend because he loved my head, but when he sucked me he did it his way which was the wrong way. I can get myself off fine, though.

 

[WilliamG]

Hi,

I don't understand, i don't feel anything when having sex with a guy or girl. i give them pleasure. i can see them moaning and getting excited in all senses, but i don't feel anything. at best it's funny or worse i feel invaded by the partner and his smell. and that every time.

What is wrong with me?

Thanks.

It's been almost a year. Update on your situation?