Have people made comments to you about not being circumcised?

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  1. LemacST

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    I've been sexually involved with several girls so far and only one (who I ended up dating for over a year) asked about it. Only after about a year she asked me something like, "you have like a ridge of skin on your penis, what is that?" I think. I don't even remember what I answered or even if I did. Eitherway, she didn't seem bothered, just curious.

    If you remember my pics here, you wouldn't really think I wasn't circumcised (when erect, at least). I think I have a relatively short foreskin and since it's loose too, I can't for it NOT to be rolled all the way back when erect. Also when my dick's all lubed up, the skin can almost completely stay put in its place without rolling over the head.

    Sure, maybe a couple noticed it but didn't say anything but I know for sure some others didn't. I remember hanging out with a group of friends and within that group were two girls I had sex with. For some reason, circumcision/foreskin got brought up. Both girls who I had sex with agreed that "ew, uncircumcised dicks are gross and I would never have sex with a guy who has one". Yeah, this was after my foreskin was in their mouth, vagina, up their ass, etc. Neither had a clue. Apparently this is so because most girls either a)Have had an experience with 1 bad uncircumcised penis and have been forever traumatized or b)Only heard of them (and the bad experiences) and make up a really distorted, negative perception of what an uncut penis is/looks like/etc. They basically think having a foreskin means having a flap of skin on the head of your penis that is hard to move and hard to clean, so it's smelly and disgusting :rolleyes:

    Sadly due to those things I listed, for the most part I would not publically admit that I wasn't circumcised. I'm not ashamed that I wasn't, I'd just rather not feel the need to stand up and explain myself or dispell any misconceptions, that's just awkward and the negative stigma would remain anyway. I don't think being circ'ed or not is a huge deal anyways so it shouldn't be treated like one--people just make it a big deal because it's a touchy sex issue and as with most sex issues, there's lots of ignorance, shyness on the subject, exagerations and general misinformation. I blame anti-circ extremists just as much as aformentioned idiots who think the foreskin is a work of the devil.

    One comparison to my foreskin that I can make to a vagina is how much labia a vagina might have. Some girls have a lot, some don't. I'm guessing it's the same with foreskin. I have very trim foreskin. I've seen porn where guys have a ton, to where the head is still completely covered when they have a full erection. I couldn't even do that if I tried. I guess it all varies naturally, as does size and other things.

    Anyway, back to what I was saying--do you have a short, trim foreskin like me or a long one? Have you been asked about it? Share your stories.

    P.S.--Here's an interesting prediciton of mine. Circ rates are declining in the U.S. so I think by the next couple of generations, not many guys are gonna be circ'ed. You can almost guarantee this will have either of these things happen: 1)Longer foreskin means manlier man, or something like that, kind of like the whole size thing, or 2)Shorter foreskin will be considered more aesthetically pleasing than its longer counterpart (kind of like trim labia vs. long), so longer foreskin'ed guys will feel insecure.
     
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    Strangely enough...no!
     
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    The answer to your question is B not A.


    You're a Brit SBE, so you may not realize this; but in the US circumcision is performed on infant boys automatically. I believe you have to request it NOT be done.
     
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    NJ, I honestly don't know but I don't think she actually noticed til later. I never showed her my limp penis and because I used to be self-concious of the foreskin, I would make sure for it to not really be blatantly sliding over my head by jacking off with my fist over it, if that makes sense. Since she called it a "ridge" and not something like a "flap", it kind of shows that it really DID stay in place. I think this is why she started wondering and asked.

    Also, I agree, it's probably B.

    and yeah, in basically everywhere besides the U.S. and Israel, no one is circumcised. In the U.S., I'd say maybe 70% of guys are so having a foreskin makes you a minority.

    I remember being freaked out and thinking I was going to get rejected until I realized these girls didn't notice or didn't care. Now I absolutely don't care about it, lol.
     
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    Before coming to this website nobody ever made an issue out of my circumcision status.
     
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    I've seen you blow up on people here about this whole issue, you seem pretty fed up with the whole thing. All I know is that I'm not circumised, it hasn't caused any problems for me and no girl seemed to even notice or care. I don't care if other people are circumcised or not, the only thing I'd like to change with this whole topic is the ignorance towards both side (circumcised men are butchered, desensitized failures who were taken advantage of and uncircumcised men are dirty, ugly-looking smegma factories).

    Infact, speaking on the sensitivity thing...the glans of my penis is just as dry, or "calloused", as some anti-circ radicals like to say, as a circumcised penis. The head of my penis doesn't feel much different from my shaft (I remember it moist and super sensitive to the touch when I was growing up when my foreskin was still tight.
     
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    Agree with you 100%.

    I'd be happy to agree more with the pro-foreskin group if they weren't so hostile toward those that had been circumcised, which I don't see as that big of a deal, and if they didn't feel the need to call names to try and make their point.
     
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    I may have mentioned this in a previous thread . . . then again maybe I didn't because it is such a volatile issue here.

    I am a 41 yr. old American woman and have never encountered an uncircumcised penis. Prior to coming to this site I had heard a few tales of smelly foreskins spreading bacteria and yeast to women. I had seen a few pics of uncircumcised cocks and the always looked like anteater noses or mini-elephant trunks. :tongue: Then I came to LPSG and I spent hours going through the gallery as well as the forums.

    What I learned was that uncut guys don't all look alike and 99% of you are as clean or cleaner than the cut guys. There are actually quite a few uncut cocks in the gallery that I would just love to get my hands, mouth, etc on. :biggrin1::wink:

     
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    No. I am uncut and proud of it.
     
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    :rolleyes::rolleyes: I am not that naive. Thanks njqt466 for yet another jab at me!! With your multiple quotes putting the world to rights.:rolleyes:
     
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    Only people who ever commented were fellow 7th grade boys the first few days we stripped for gym showers. This was back in 70's America, when uncut guys were rare, and I got no end of shit for having a "weird-looking" dick. (I was hung & hairy, too...so I really WAS weird for a 12-year-old!) This lasted about a week, then we all got used to each other's "weirdnesses."

    No girl I've ever gotten naked and had sex with has mentioned it one way or another. Everyone of them has enjoyed playing with the foreskin when my cock's soft.
     
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    The only comments I have had have been

    ooooooooooo ummmmmmmmmmmmie a clean cock
     
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    I've probably told a few uncut guys that I wish I were like them.....

    I want my foreskin back!
     
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    None at all. Its the norm here. All the guys have skin.
     
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    On the flip side: You are in a minority if you are cut in the UK but In the UK no-one seems to think a CUT cock looks strange or unusual. They just accept it as a circumcised cock. So how come all these strong comments in the USA?
     
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    Actually, ONE time in all have I had a gal say something. It came down to her not being sexually experienced. She had been with a few guys, and that was that.

    She damn sure wouldn't leave it alone after that though, so it is a good/bad thing if you ask me.

    Hey, they don't like it, they can go get fucked......by someone cut.
     
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    The only comment I've had was from a guy who thought I was cut (I'm not). I'm sure he would have seen plenty of both sort before because among my age group in Aus it's around 50/50. But mine's fairly short and if you mostly see it hard (which he would have ;) ) then you might miss it. Other than that no one's likely to comment around here because there's plenty of uncut guys.
     
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    The only comment I've had was from a guy who thought I was cut (I'm not). I'm sure he would have seen plenty of both types because among guys my age in Aust it's around 50/50. But my foreskin's pretty short so if you've mostly seen me hard (which he would have ;) ) then it's easy enough to miss. Other than that, I doubt there'd be many comments around here cause there's heaps of uncut guys.
     
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    One. She was American. She liked it. :wink:
     
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    Where is Gisella? This is one of her favorite topics.
     
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