Short version:
Im asking all women preferable in the age range of 18-28, if a previous relationship(male-female) has made them a better, stronger, more confident woman. This cannot be the effect of a cheater, abusive, or a misogynist.
Long Version:
This a small life dilemma that hopefully garner enough attention here to collect a decent sample size. Ive been curious of this my entire short male life of 23 years. Ive had 3 girlfriends, 15 sexual partners, only one of which a one night stand, three of which only very short term booty call, leaving 3 serious girlfriends and 11 girls in which we would spend a night together hanging out relaxing, but the bottom line was sex, however; we still had fun watched movies, relaxed, and so on on these nights.
With these 14 girls not a single one ended on bad terms(in my mind). I am not having sex with all of these girls at the same time(span of a few years) and I currently have no girlfriend. To the main point of this topic, I feel for the majority of these girls I make them feel better about themselves. This can range from just liking their hair in curls rather then it being straightened, or a more extreme, like raising their overall self esteem or body image.
I always try to make girls more aware of their beauty, amazing personality, whatever incredible thing about them by complementing the little and big things about them and trying to downsize and make them more comfortable about some imperfections that some people would judge.
I know damn right well that some or even a majority of these girls could think I am bull shitting them, but I am very serious in every complement I make.
The reason I ask this community this is because Ive been looking for love for 7 years now(I know this is a very short time relative to my current age). I am still in love with my first girlfriend(2.5 years starting at 15). I am now currently 23 broke up with my last girlfriend 8 months ago, only said "I love you" to my first and only felt it with her.
With all these past friends with benefits and girlfriends I have never ended on bad terms and I feel like Ive been major impact on the person they are today. I know for damn sure that my first two girlfriends had huge impacts on who I am today, but I know I haven't changed much these past 3 years. I want to know that even though I brake a lot of these girls hearts I know I am making some a better person and hopefully not making any resent me.
Thanks for the read everyone hope this helps everyone.
Im asking all women preferable in the age range of 18-28, if a previous relationship(male-female) has made them a better, stronger, more confident woman. This cannot be the effect of a cheater, abusive, or a misogynist.
Long Version:
This a small life dilemma that hopefully garner enough attention here to collect a decent sample size. Ive been curious of this my entire short male life of 23 years. Ive had 3 girlfriends, 15 sexual partners, only one of which a one night stand, three of which only very short term booty call, leaving 3 serious girlfriends and 11 girls in which we would spend a night together hanging out relaxing, but the bottom line was sex, however; we still had fun watched movies, relaxed, and so on on these nights.
With these 14 girls not a single one ended on bad terms(in my mind). I am not having sex with all of these girls at the same time(span of a few years) and I currently have no girlfriend. To the main point of this topic, I feel for the majority of these girls I make them feel better about themselves. This can range from just liking their hair in curls rather then it being straightened, or a more extreme, like raising their overall self esteem or body image.
I always try to make girls more aware of their beauty, amazing personality, whatever incredible thing about them by complementing the little and big things about them and trying to downsize and make them more comfortable about some imperfections that some people would judge.
I know damn right well that some or even a majority of these girls could think I am bull shitting them, but I am very serious in every complement I make.
The reason I ask this community this is because Ive been looking for love for 7 years now(I know this is a very short time relative to my current age). I am still in love with my first girlfriend(2.5 years starting at 15). I am now currently 23 broke up with my last girlfriend 8 months ago, only said "I love you" to my first and only felt it with her.
With all these past friends with benefits and girlfriends I have never ended on bad terms and I feel like Ive been major impact on the person they are today. I know for damn sure that my first two girlfriends had huge impacts on who I am today, but I know I haven't changed much these past 3 years. I want to know that even though I brake a lot of these girls hearts I know I am making some a better person and hopefully not making any resent me.
Thanks for the read everyone hope this helps everyone.