Have Sex And Leave Or Spend The Night?

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You hook up with a guy for some serious guy on guy sex fun in bed ;);) :cool: After the sex are you a 'that was great and then expect to part company' or would you want to spend the night together?

I was and to a large extent have the fun, spend an hour of so after chilling with the guy and part company, but of late I have spent the odd night with a guy .................. will say the second round before breakfast is a very nice way to start the day
 

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I don't think I've ever spent the night, but I wouldn't necessarily rule it out either. I'm reluctant to hang around because I often feel a bit awkward when I don't know someone well. (The irony: I'm happy enough to take his dick, but not his conversation.)
 

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I'll be honest, most of my hook ups are on a fuck and go basis, though sometimes it's nice to take nap in his bed for an hour or two, especially if it's been an energetic session. If there's no chemistry at all then sometimes I'll make my excuses and leave. The other end of the scale is a lovely guy who insisted on paying for a hotel room and ordering room service. Now he got the full, all night treatment!
 

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Normally I host this day and time and have no interest in a "hook up" spending the night. In my younger days I normally always hooked up with older men than I and yes I have been asked to stay the night afterwards many times and have excepted and declined. Today I still have a few guy's that I have been having sex with for 20-30 years and still stay in touch with in some form and since I have moved out of state I have invited these guys to come stay the weekend and have had some great times. Just a few months ago I met someone online who lived over a 150 miles away and it seemed as if we had all the same interest, wants, and desires and after literally thousands of text over a period of many weeks, it looked like we might just click so I invited him over for the night, NOT the weekend, sex was great he was more handsome in person, great sense of humor, had a wonderful time with him, made breakfast the next morning and then took him to lunch before he had to make the trip home, but not before inviting him to dinner AGAIN the next weekend, thing is after he left he sorta went silent for a day or so, which I suppose is normal, but it got me thinking that never once did he thank me for the $150 dinner I took him to the night he arrived, no thanks for breakfast, no thanks for lunch? No thanks for the extended invite for dinner the next week so I went radio silent and have never heard back, which is fine! Sorry to ramble, but need to get it off my chest lol
 

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It depends on the situation. If it was a one night stand then no I wouldn't stay the night. If it was someone that I had known for a while then it would be a possibility. If I was open about being bisexual and knew the person for a while then I would stay the night if they asked or let them stay the night if we were at my house.
 

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When I was younger it was never an option.

A little bit older now and sometimes the situation presents itself. Sometimes after sex, I might either pass out from drinking or fall asleep. I do enjoy and love the thought of my partner groping/fondling me while asleep for his own pleasure. Massive turn on to be told in the morning what he did to me. Find it very flattering to be needed and wanted that way. My partner likes to act that he owns and controls my body and I very much enable and want that.
 

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There was one time this guy I hooked up with asked me if I wanted to spend the night. We had great sex and all, but because I wear contacts, I didn't want to sleep with them in because they're a pain to deal with the next day. In hindsight, I wish I had.
 

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I’ve never had this experience…. But I’m a cuddler….. so. I want to stay. Maybe get fucked again later?
One night stands are boring. Let’s make it a weekend
 
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It depends. Daytime or early evening hookups with guys rarely lead to overnights. Late night hookups? No point driving home in the wee hours. Prob fall asleep anyway so stay the night by default. Maybe--just maybe--we'll keep waking up and doing it again and again. :cool:

:sleeping::zzz:
 

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I usually don't spend the night, but that's more because I'm very particular about my sleeping arrangements and I don't like to change them too much. LOL Plus it sort of needs to be a planned thing more than a spontaneous thing for me since I usually take my meds at night so I'd have to know enough in advance to bring them. So yeah, doesn't really happen often unless it's something that's been talked about and I know I'll be OK sleeping beside them and not get woken up every five minutes to snoring.
 
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This is funny, cause it brings back a lot of memories. I don't like to stay, a lot of men would ask me, "Why don't you stay with me tonight, sleep over." I think I was always too scared or too embarrassed. In my head, I was like,"You just had your cock deep in my ass, I have cum all over me, if not in me, Nah, I think I'll go home."
Besides, I'd rather make that walk of shame in the dark of night, than bright and early in the morning.

Depending on the guy, this is funny. If he liked to fuck more than once (I mean, how would I know right), He finishes dumping a load and fucking me, goes to the bathroom and cleans up, I'm gettin dressed and he comes out,"Uh where ya goin? I was hoping for more"....now I'm gettin undressed for round two maybe three. Kinda always thought a good romp in the sheets was a pump, dump and run thing. But quite a few guys like to savor that ass and hit it all night. Not just a cum and dump.
 

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This is funny, cause it brings back a lot of memories. I don't like to stay, a lot of men would ask me, "Why don't you stay with me tonight, sleep over." I think I was always too scared or too embarrassed. In my head, I was like,"You just had your cock deep in my ass, I have cum all over me, if not in me, Nah, I think I'll go home."
Besides, I'd rather make that walk of shame in the dark of night, than bright and early in the morning.

Depending on the guy, this is funny. If he liked to fuck more than once (I mean, how would I know right), He finishes dumping a load and fucking me, goes to the bathroom and cleans up, I'm gettin dressed and he comes out,"Uh where ya goin? I was hoping for more"....now I'm gettin undressed for round two maybe three. Kinda always thought a good romp in the sheets was a pump, dump and run thing. But quite a few guys like to savor that ass and hit it all night. Not just a cum and dump.

Loved your reply.

When I was younger, staying the night was never an option, in fact getting home before it got dark was the main goal and before neighbours returned home at 530pm.

A little bit older now and whether I stay the night really depends on my partner and his situation than me. Im not a morning guy to begin with nor am I horny, but I totally get and respect when my partner wants to pump, cum and dump a load inside me the next day. If I stay over, my partner will get up well before me, shower and have breakfast and then comes back to bed and leaves a glass of OJ next to bed side table.

He usually wakes me up by fondling my dick or arse depeding on how I sleep. When I wake up I smile at him and usually down the glass of OJ quickly, as I know he is super horny. I will perform oral on him till he gets hard enough to fuck me as at that time of the day, thats about all the energy I have to spend lol. Once he starts fucking me Im super happy, as I enjoy moaning while still half asleep and also know that he will take over from here and fuck me till he blows his load inside me, missionary position. The best part I love is once he cums, we both sleep together for another half hour or so together, both in total bliss, him for cumming and for me enjoying a good moan. It makes a great start to the day.
 

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I love having him stay the night at my hotel..so hot cuddling after climax inside..cock stays in for a bit and I usually get a round two as we cuddle in the middle of the night and round three if he is bold I wake up with myself inside him
 

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Loved your reply.

When I was younger, staying the night was never an option, in fact getting home before it got dark was the main goal and before neighbours returned home at 530pm.

A little bit older now and whether I stay the night really depends on my partner and his situation than me. Im not a morning guy to begin with nor am I horny, but I totally get and respect when my partner wants to pump, cum and dump a load inside me the next day. If I stay over, my partner will get up well before me, shower and have breakfast and then comes back to bed and leaves a glass of OJ next to bed side table.

He usually wakes me up by fondling my dick or arse depeding on how I sleep. When I wake up I smile at him and usually down the glass of OJ quickly, as I know he is super horny. I will perform oral on him till he gets hard enough to fuck me as at that time of the day, thats about all the energy I have to spend lol. Once he starts fucking me Im super happy, as I enjoy moaning while still half asleep and also know that he will take over from here and fuck me till he blows his load inside me, missionary position. The best part I love is once he cums, we both sleep together for another half hour or so together, both in total bliss, him for cumming and for me enjoying a good moan. It makes a great start to the day.
See something like this would convince me to stay over. LOL I'm like you, not a morning person, but I seem to live in a city full of them. And generally the guys who have asked me to sleep over have just slept the whole night away and then gone about their usual business the next morning so not super fun for me.
 

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I've done both lately but I much prefer spending the night for one reason

Nothing like waking up to your rock hard cock being sucked

Also lately my FWB and I(who I've known for awhile now) only been hooking up stoned and that always leads to multiple rounds well into the early morning usually
 

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I leave, maybe some small talk after. I dont "date" guys so staying over is more of a dating or FWB thing and for me thats with women
Good response.

I dont think there is no right or wrong answer here.

You do what you feel comfortable doing. You should never feel pressured to do something youre not comfortable with.

On a bi forum, respect is the key here.