This site has really boosted my self-confidence. I now have minimal self-confidence instead of none. LOL. I went on a date with this girl at Habana Outpost in Brooklyn a few months ago. I was a little nervous about it being a real date so I asked her to invite some of her girlfriends along. LOL, maybe it's the little bit of queer in me, but I loved just talking with her and her girlfriends. It was like Sex and the City, LOL. Anyway, because I'm notorious for not knowing how to read women's signals (I thought a woman was flirting with me at the bar only to find out she was married...LOL) I don't know how she reacted to me. I called her a few days later and invited her to the Liberty playoff game (WNBA. She's a baseball fan, mostly. I don't really care for any sport other than basketball, though) and she said she was really busy with parent-teacher conferences this week. I think it sounded legit. I probably should have followed up soon after, but I didn't. Anyway, I sent her an e-mail inviting her to come watch me perform some poetry. She's a writer as well, and I said I didn't expect her to offer feedback on my poems without me being able to reciprocate (LOL, the symbolism.) I know she never checks her e-mail, but I'm curious as to what will happen. Mainly, when I think about her, I just think about how I want to go down on her badly.