Have we led sheltered lives?

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I get what you're saying now. But I hope you do start to experience orgasms, anyway. For me, sex is about a lot more than "just" orgasms, but being able to have them makes the whole thing much more powerful.
Oh me too... I've never experianced one.. so I can't be too hung up on it.. but it would be cool to see what all the hype is about.
 

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Okay, TK, now you really have me confused... You've ejaculated during sex but not had an orgasm during sex? I am the opposite. Which brings me to my list:

I have:

had black, latino, asian, and caucasian partners
had both circumsized and uncircumsized partners
had gay sex experiences
had sex in public
had a threesome
had anal sex
had oral-anal sex
had experiences with light S&M
had experinces with bondage
had a threesome (MFF)
had orgasms from anal, vaginal, oral, and digital sex
had sex with 4 partners at different times in 2 days
had phone sex

I have not:

used a strap on
ejaculated or "squirted"
had mutiple orgasms
had a group masturbation experience
had partners of native american descent
used food play as part of a sexual experience
had an MMF threesome (though I'd like to)
 

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TK _ It sounds weird to me also..when i ejaculate I also Orgasm....it is the best most instense feeling ever..for me ..way and above cuming from clitorial stimulation...I tense up, bare down and cum hard then the fluid is released.

So when you say you cum...what do you mean exactly?

Maybe you are just feeling the high state of arousal without climaxing?



*** do you really want me to write a list?? I dont even want to go there!!...I am afraid it would shock some people!**

x

Honey
 

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TK _ It sounds weird to me also..when i ejaculate I also Orgasm....it is the best most instense feeling ever..for me ..way and above cuming from clitorial stimulation...I tense up, bare down and cum hard then the fluid is released.

So when you say you cum...what do you mean exactly?

Maybe you are just feeling the high state of arousal without climaxing?



*** do you really want me to write a list?? I dont even want to go there!!...I am afraid it would shock some people!**

x

Honey
I have that excess in fluid from the start... it's like constantly orgasming without the actual ecstasy like state? I'm not sure how else to describe it...
 

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Just speaking about life in general there is nothing i havent done. The most amazing thing is im alive to tell you this. At my age to rediscover my childhood is mindblowing. To be in better physical condition then i was 15 years ago is amazing. I dont like to say im in love because being love is like a disease. It breeds jealousy and hate. To really love someone and dedicate your life to them is a gift from the heavens:smile:
 

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Yes, I guess a very sheltered life if one wants to view it that way. Then again, there are some things I don't want to ever experience, nor would I go to my grave regretting never having done them.
 

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I have not:

--Slept with a woman.
--Been able to be Equal Opportunity with men meaning I have slept with black guys before but I am unable to fall in love with black men.
--Been able to be into zoophilia. Not my thing.
--Been into alternative sex fetishes.

I have:
--Been in a few threesomes.
--Slept with a lot of guys (not boys) to know that I like being with guys.
--Had sex in public lots of times. Once was three in the morning. I had met someone at the club. We went to an open grassy field near a railroad track in Asheville. I fucked a guy on the hood of his Trans Am while a freight train rolled slow and pulling his train siren at us. Hehehe.
--Kissed women before and hugged lots of women.
 

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I dont like to say im in love because being love is like a disease. It breeds jealousy and hate. To really love someone and dedicate your life to them is a gift from the heavens:smile:

I am in love with you, Uncut. You had better not be datin' or fuckin' anybody else fucker. Or Mr. Snakey'll be swimmin' with the fishes, see (sea)? :smile:
 

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Ok, I'm new here, I'll add my list:

Have:
Done bondage/S&M (didn't like it tho-just to please someone)
Had anal (see above)
Come during sex (but I don't know the difference between coming and orgasm tho...?)
Done a much younger guy (28)
Done a much older guy (58)

Haven't:
Had a black partner
Had more than one partner at a time
Had an uncircumcised partner
Had a gay experience
Worn a strap-on

Gee, there's still a lot to do! lol BTW, what is rimming?
 

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I have:
had sex in public
had a threesome
had anal sex
given a man a b/j while he drove
had experiences with light bondage
had experiences with spanking
had orgasms from anal, vaginal; oral
had sex with 2 partners at different times in 6 hours
had phone sex

I have never:
used a strap on
Had an Asian, Indian, Latino, or Native American partner
Had an uncircumcised partner
Had a gay sex experience
Done anything involving leather or whips
Spotted anyone having sex in public
Had a group masturbation experience
 

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Oh, this is so much fun! People are bringing up stuff I didn't get to answer before, and of course I can't resist... :rolleyes:

Here are the additions to my list from before:

I have:
  • had a Latino partner
  • had an uncircumcised partner
  • had orgasms from anal, vaginal, oral and digital sex
  • had multiple orgasms
  • had sex with 3 partners at different times in one night
  • had phone sex
  • used food play as part of a sexual experience
  • done things involving leather and whips
  • given a man a BJ while he drove (my ex, on a deserted, very straight stretch of highway, which was wise, because he kept accelerating...) :biggrin1:
I have not:
  • had a MFF threesome (although I'd very much like to, if we find the right woman someday)
  • squirted (except for maybe one time very recently -- but it wasn't really a "squirt" -- what happened was whole bunch of fluid gushed out when I came. And the orgasm was good, but not the most powerful I've had, so I'm not sure what accounts for the fluid. In the interest of statistics, I just calculated and I would estimate I've had over 2000 orgasms in my lifetime -- many of them spectacular -- but never before accompanied by ejaculation)
  • had a partner of Native American, Asian, or Indian descent
  • been able to be into zoophilia (I agree with InvisibleMan...so not my thing)
  • Had a fetish (at least, I don't think I have)
*** do you really want me to write a list?? I dont even want to go there!!...I am afraid it would shock some people!**

x

Honey

Hmmm...most likely not. :wink: Remember, you're among friends here. I think between those of us who've posted so far, we've revealed things that would shock a lot of people.

So come on, ...dish! (you may give us all some good ideas) :wink: :tongue: :biggrin1:

Just speaking about life in general there is nothing i havent done. The most amazing thing is im alive to tell you this. At my age to rediscover my childhood is mindblowing. To be in better physical condition then i was 15 years ago is amazing.

How wonderful for you, Uncut! (and for your lucky lady) :biggrin1: :hug: :kiss:

I dont like to say im in love because being love is like a disease. It breeds jealousy and hate.

Here's where you shocked me, Uncut, because I see you as such a romantic at heart. However, the topic of "being in love" is so interesting it probably warrants its own thread.
 

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Just speaking about life in general there is nothing i havent done. The most amazing thing is im alive to tell you this. At my age to rediscover my childhood is mindblowing. To be in better physical condition then i was 15 years ago is amazing. I dont like to say im in love because being love is like a disease. It breeds jealousy and hate. To really love someone and dedicate your life to them is a gift from the heavens:smile:

awwww This is quite the statement. That last sentence is the most real and true thing ever.
 

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Oh, this is so much fun! People are bringing up stuff I didn't get to answer before, and of course I can't resist... :rolleyes:

Here are the additions to my list from before:

I have:
  • had a Latino partner
  • had an uncircumcised partner
  • had orgasms from anal, vaginal, oral and digital sex
  • had multiple orgasms
  • had sex with 3 partners at different times in one night
  • had phone sex
  • used food play as part of a sexual experience
  • done things involving leather and whips
  • given a man a BJ while he drove (my ex, on a deserted, very straight stretch of highway, which was wise, because he kept accelerating...) :biggrin1:
I have not:
  • had a MFF threesome (although I'd very much like to, if we find the right woman someday)
  • squirted (except for maybe one time very recently -- but it wasn't really a "squirt" -- what happened was whole bunch of fluid gushed out when I came. And the orgasm was good, but not the most powerful I've had, so I'm not sure what accounts for the fluid. In the interest of statistics, I just calculated and I would estimate I've had over 2000 orgasms in my lifetime -- many of them spectacular -- but never before accompanied by ejaculation)
  • had a partner of Native American, Asian, or Indian descent
  • been able to be into zoophilia (I agree with InvisibleMan...so not my thing)
  • Had a fetish (at least, I don't think I have)
Hmmm...most likely not. :wink: Remember, you're among friends here. I think between those of us who've posted so far, we've revealed things that would shock a lot of people.

So come on, ...dish! (you may give us all some good ideas) :wink: :tongue: :biggrin1:



How wonderful for you, Uncut! (and for your lucky lady) :biggrin1: :hug: :kiss:



Here's where you shocked me, Uncut, because I see you as such a romantic at heart. However, the topic of "being in love" is so interesting it probably warrants its own thread.
I should clarify. Being in love is wonderfull. However nobody stays in love forever. So many times i have been in love of the years and when it wears off thought " Who is this stranger im holding hands with?" Devoting your life to someone and they devoting there life to you is a different thing. Our work intertwinds and when we first met she ran a background check on me and i on her. You cant get more romantic than that:smile: :wink:
 

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I'm trying not to spam this thread by replying 800 times, I can figure out how to do seperate quote boxes...
Anyway, I think that all the things I haven't done doesn't nessasarily make me sheltered. It just means the opportunity has yet to arise, or it just doesn't turn me on. Think of your list as a "to do" list.

Hollyblue, I have been thinking about starting a thread about being in love, but I kind of thought that maybe it has already been done. Does your last comment there mean it might be a good topic?
 

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I'm trying not to spam this thread by replying 800 times, I can figure out how to do seperate quote boxes...
Anyway, I think that all the things I haven't done doesn't nessasarily make me sheltered. It just means the opportunity has yet to arise, or it just doesn't turn me on. Think of your list as a "to do" list.

Hollyblue, I have been thinking about starting a thread about being in love, but I kind of thought that maybe it has already been done. Does your last comment there mean it might be a good topic?
Sweety this is one topic that many people never tire of. A thread on this is allways welcome:smile: :wink:
 

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I have never:

had a threesome
found my g spot
had anal sex
joined the mile high club
done anything (willingly) involving pain as sexual fun
had a guy larger than 7 inch long or 6 around. (I think)
Felt completely loved, accepted, and wanted just as i am