Have You Acted On Bicuriosity?

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I was curious for a long time, but was too nervous to hook up with a guy. A few times I made plans then cancelled at the last minute. Eventually I made plans on short notice, not giving myself enough time to think about it too much and want to get out of it. I liked it a lot, been with multiple guys since then. Now I look back and wonder why I didn't start exploring that side of my sexuality earlier.
 

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Growing up I was your typical straight, horny American male, and up until my 20s I'd never even entertained the thought of sex with a man. Shortly after turning 21 (way back in 1990) I went through a breakup with a woman and found myself uninterested in meeting anyone new. Because I was a bit immature, had a lot of testosterone, and was always a bit of a hypochondriac, this was a sure sign that something was wrong. "Was I gay?" I thought. And if not, is there any part of me that is? And just like that I found myself in the middle of a homosexual panic. I knew most of what was on the menu didn't interest me. Kissing...no way. Physically men didn't do it for me. Anal sex...no thanks. Oral sex...that's where the panic set in. I'd always liked seeing other cocks in porn. Not having any brothers or friends who shared, it was my only real opportunity to compare. And I always loved the blow job scenes in porn. And I've always had oral fixation. So that was it. The seed was planted. But would I ever act on it? Anyone who's ever experienced that knows how frightening it can be.
The months that followed were the scariest of my life. I was tempted, but held back for a number of reasons. A. My God fearing side told me I'd rot in hell B. AIDS C. I was a straight, proud 21 year old and didn't want to be gay! As curious as I was, I was afraid it would affect how I interact with males for the rest of my life.
For about a year I analyzed men and women. How we're alike, how we're different. What I liked and what I didn't like. It was an interesting time. It's almost as if I was entering data for my brain, yet the end result was information that had been there all along. The day finally came when I knew for sure I wasn't gay. I'd gone through my mental journey and was now able to breathe easy. So what did I do next? I went out and picked up a male prostitute to see what it would be like! I'd done the mental thing now I wanted to see if the physical did anything for me. I picked up a black transvestite and paid him 20 bucks to play with his cock.
After a few minutes I knew it wasn't for me. I thanked him, told him he could go, and that was the last I ever did anything like that. That was 17 years ago.
Do I ever have gay fantasies? Every now and then I'll think about it. I think one really good trait to have is to not always act on impulse, and also know that you can't have everything in life. I love women. I'm completely attracted to women. And I won't jeopordize a future life I see with one. If I were to cross over into some bi lifestyle I think I'd become completely jaded, and probably addicted. One thing that always attracted me to the gay lifestyle is it seems so available, where as with women it's rarely if ever available.
I think we're animals by nature, and hundreds of years ago men were probably more animalistic around each other. Because we live in different times, men seek to explore this nature through other ways. This site would certainly be one. And that's why I'm here.
 

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If I could find a woman who would use a strap-on dildo to fuck me up the ass, I think that would be an acceptable substitute for a real man's cock, I'd just want to make sure it was a dildo that felt as realistic as possible.

If a man got tested for STDs and was clean AND used a rubber, I don't think I'd have too much problem with trying the ass fucking thing with a real cock. I just don't trust a rubber to protect me from uncurable diseases with people who I'm not sure are STD free. I've had rubbers break while fucking girls. Not often, but it has happened. And a man's cock up my ass is a bad time for a rubber to break!
 

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Growing up I was your typical straight, horny American male, and up until my 20s I'd never even entertained the thought of sex with a man. Shortly after turning 21 (way back in 1990) I went through a breakup with a woman and found myself uninterested in meeting anyone new. Because I was a bit immature, had a lot of testosterone, and was always a bit of a hypochondriac, this was a sure sign that something was wrong. "Was I gay?" I thought. And if not, is there any part of me that is? And just like that I found myself in the middle of a homosexual panic. I knew most of what was on the menu didn't interest me. Kissing...no way. Physically men didn't do it for me. Anal sex...no thanks. Oral sex...that's where the panic set in. I'd always liked seeing other cocks in porn. Not having any brothers or friends who shared, it was my only real opportunity to compare. And I always loved the blow job scenes in porn. And I've always had oral fixation. So that was it. The seed was planted. But would I ever act on it? Anyone who's ever experienced that knows how frightening it can be.
The months that followed were the scariest of my life. I was tempted, but held back for a number of reasons. A. My God fearing side told me I'd rot in hell B. AIDS C. I was a straight, proud 21 year old and didn't want to be gay! As curious as I was, I was afraid it would affect how I interact with males for the rest of my life.
For about a year I analyzed men and women. How we're alike, how we're different. What I liked and what I didn't like. It was an interesting time. It's almost as if I was entering data for my brain, yet the end result was information that had been there all along. The day finally came when I knew for sure I wasn't gay. I'd gone through my mental journey and was now able to breathe easy. So what did I do next? I went out and picked up a male prostitute to see what it would be like! I'd done the mental thing now I wanted to see if the physical did anything for me. I picked up a black transvestite and paid him 20 bucks to play with his cock.
After a few minutes I knew it wasn't for me. I thanked him, told him he could go, and that was the last I ever did anything like that. That was 17 years ago.
Do I ever have gay fantasies? Every now and then I'll think about it. I think one really good trait to have is to not always act on impulse, and also know that you can't have everything in life. I love women. I'm completely attracted to women. And I won't jeopordize a future life I see with one. If I were to cross over into some bi lifestyle I think I'd become completely jaded, and probably addicted. One thing that always attracted me to the gay lifestyle is it seems so available, where as with women it's rarely if ever available.
I think we're animals by nature, and hundreds of years ago men were probably more animalistic around each other. Because we live in different times, men seek to explore this nature through other ways. This site would certainly be one. And that's why I'm here.
Hi, a transvestite seems an odd choice to go for. How come you went for that?

Does anyone now that homosexuality and bisexuality occurs in the animal world too?
 

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Does anyone know that homosexuality and bisexuality occurs in the animal world too?

My best friend used to have a gay male cat with 6 toes on each paw. His name was Ellery Queen and he had his own Amex Card. :biggrin1: Swear to God! That was back in the days when they would just send you a pre-approved credit card in the mail.

Yes, I was aware that animals are often homosexual; but was unaware that some were bi-sexual as well. That's interesting.
 

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My best friend used to have a gay male cat with 6 toes on each paw. His name was Ellery Queen and he had his own Amex Card. :biggrin1: Swear to God! That was back in the days when they would just send you a pre-approved credit card in the mail.

Yes, I was aware that animals are often homosexual; but was unaware that some were bi-sexual as well. That's interesting.
It's just that anti-gay people seem not to want to want to know this as they claim "it's unnatural!" Yep, I heard that some varieties of monkeys have shown bisexual tendencies! Hey njqt, with a name like Ellery Queen I am not surprised the cat was gay!:biggrin1:
 

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For mostly-straight guys, some questions:

-What kind of guys are you bi-curious for? (personality traits, physique, LP?)

-Have you acted on your bi-curiosity?

-If so, under what circumstances did you act on it, and was it a good or bad experience for you? What were the repercussions, if any?

I realize this is probably an old and abused line of questioning, but I am looking for a fresh perspective.

Have to ask, have you?
 

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If you just want anal stimulation, wouldn't it be easier to use a phallic object instead of a real guy? It sounds like you are intent in using the flesh version, which is most certainly of the homosexual persuasion, IMO.

I see your point but a cold plastic probe is nothing like a hot fleshy, pulsing one. Just not the same. I don't bottom much but I have tried both - believe me, real is better.
 

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I wouldn't really call it bi-curiousity because it wasn't like I was constantly wondering how it feels to fuck a man but I did have a sexual experience with another man twice actually. Both times I was left disappointed. I really liked his personality and it was interesting to see he was so into me. I just realized I wasn't gay really. Personally, boundaries don't mean jack to me. I'm sure a lot of guys wouldn't have done what I did because they are so scared that they might enjoy it. I think gay men, most of them at least are cool and the ones I don't like most gay men probably wouldn't like either.
 

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If I could find a woman who would use a strap-on dildo to fuck me up the ass, I think that would be an acceptable substitute for a real man's cock, I'd just want to make sure it was a dildo that felt as realistic as possible.

If a man got tested for STDs and was clean AND used a rubber, I don't think I'd have too much problem with trying the ass fucking thing with a real cock. I just don't trust a rubber to protect me from uncurable diseases with people who I'm not sure are STD free. I've had rubbers break while fucking girls. Not often, but it has happened. And a man's cock up my ass is a bad time for a rubber to break!


i am kind of not liking how a few people are brining up AIDS as a reason not to explore

you realize AIDS is not a gay disease and even women carry it too, just cause you might try something with a guy it doesn't make your chances any higher for getting HIV

that girl you pick up at the bar has just as much chance of giving you HIV, herpes, syphilis and so on

if you are practicing safe sex with a girl, do the same with a guy, its the same risk in both circumstances if you are practice real safe sex
 

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Hi, a transvestite seems an odd choice to go for. How come you went for that?

It wasn't really what I sought - it was more like what I spotted first - he was a street walker. Figured black so the odds of a big dick were better (that was important). And I knew we definitely wouldn't know each other - so my secret would be safe.
 

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"well", Not kissing, holding hands, I see, a hug maybe not that too, ok, "BUT", Id much rather expect you to want to jack off, maybe each other, press your cocks together etc long before I would be talking rear entry.
 

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It wasn't really what I sought - it was more like what I spotted first - he was a street walker. Figured black so the odds of a big dick were better (that was important). And I knew we definitely wouldn't know each other - so my secret would be safe.
Maybe a wrong choice but there again if you were only in it for the dick... And was it true about his size just because he was black?

Did his shoes match his dress?:biggrin1: Sorry!
 

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I could never settle down long term with another man. I just have too great of an emotional attraction to females to go along with the physical one. But in high school I started developing a small attraction to some guys...on an individual basis. It started with admiration of classic (generally non-physical) traits. Some how between then and now I've admitted to myself that certain people are just plain sexy regardless of their gender, and sometimes I'm going to be attracted to another guy.

That said, I've sucked a buddy's cock. I like sucking cock, but primarily only because of who's cock it is. Make any sense? I can't say whether or not I'll ever participate in homosexual intercourse, but I can say that it'll always stop and friendship and sex.
 

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-What kind of guys are you bi-curious for? (personality traits, physique, LP?)

I am bi-curious for big cocks. I have big penis envy and i like to see and feel a nice thick cock. Mine is only a slender 6 incher and i want to feel a truely masculine cock. A good physique is a plus and i prefer the guy to not be overly agressive. I prefer easy going, understanding, and patient.

-Have you acted on your bi-curiosity?

Yes, a handful of times, but i have yet to find a truely well hung guy.

-If so, under what circumstances did you act on it, and was it a good or bad experience for you? What were the repercussions, if any?

My first time acting on it was to reply to an ad from a gay couple looking for "straight" guys who want to experience the other side. We exchangd emails online, some pictures and then i met them at their place one night.
I was basically their plaything. They slowly undressed me, touched, licked and sucked me all over.

My fondest memory was when one of them put my hand on his soft cock. it was a thick package! I stroked it and felt it grow in my hand. it was so much THICKER than mine! It felt like a tree trunk compared to holding mine! I eventually got to be fucked by it, but he just rammed it in hard and fast and I prefer a slow, sensual fuck. ( that is how I use big dildos)

I had a few other experiences, but being one time encounters i was usually too nervous to enjoy them as well as I might. But I always liked seeing and feeling bigger cocks than mine.

I also didn't feel comfortable cheating on my wife. Being married and having to sneak around isn't me. So I haven't done it in a long time. But if I found a really big, thick guy.... I probably couldn't resist.


 

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if you want to indulge your bi side, go ahead (this goes for everyone). hkwes, with a body like that you won't have any trouble finding a willing partner. If you like it, fine. If not, nobody needs to know. It's a win-win situation. but choose someone with experience and that you feel comfortable with, have a couple of beers and it will be easy. but make sure you play safe x x x