as a laidback gay men, the answer to your questions are yes and yes. even though i grew up in a catholic family and what not, especially since my parents are latino...they've always pushed things that are for women, for men, and more so. example is..the wife stays at home to cook, etc.
so even as an 8yo, i knew i wanted to have a husband. the smiles it brought me thinking of my husband and im cooking for him and being a wife made me so happy too. sure..ive gone through many changes..but that still holds true. i also dont mind being the breadwinner, so to speak, or being the stay at home dad.
now, thats all romantically. sexually, i learned that FTM turn me on a lot..guys who had vaginoplasty too. and also, only one women ever in my life, have i wanted to plant my gay cock balls deep in her and squirt every once of cum in her. i wanted to eat her pussy and more so. shocking turn of events..took me a while to be accepting of that new part of me..as i had no one to talk to about it
which leads me to an off topic...theres a straight irish dude who im having trouble with. im being patient as he must be in shock of being straight his whole life n having feelings for me. so its something i wont take lightly...i actually really like him a lot a lot. i mean, i bake him cookies. i dont do that for anyone