Have You Been Dumped/divorced/broke Up With? Why?

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As someone who has been single most of my life (by choice), I'm always in shock and awe of men who can maintain serious "meaningful" relationships with women. If you've ever been in a serious monogamous relationships, and they ended, (not by you) why do women break up with you?

Did you stay in touch with them? did they make the right choice? Did they end up better off?

Just curious. In my attempt to better understand women.

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Yes.
She broke up with me because she wanted to fool around with other guys. She made the absolute right choice for me. I was broken but in retrospect it's the best thing that could've happened because my life is 100% better without her, and she ended up worse off, hauled into court a few times for skipping out on the rent with her second (?) or third (?) husband, spent some time in county jail for public drunkenness and fighting.
I did not stay in touch with her. I tried to meet up with her once and she ditched me and that was the end of it from my perspective.
 
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Been in multiple relationships, only been dumped once. It was because I was giving more time and attention to my job than my girl. Was a fair reason I guess lol but it's in a man's nature to try to get ahead in life, she couldn't understand that
 
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when I was single, I was dumped once. she wanted to date around and was interested in dating a friend of mine. she didn't have it in her to tell me the truth. so she invented a story that I had been abusive towards her which (was false) no one believed and she recanted. so she dated my friend who thought he was God's gift to women, and after 2 weeks, she "laughed" him out of bed. he was terribly hurt. during this time, a friend of hers told me she really wanted to date XXX, but he had a steady girl and didn't pay much attention to her. then she met me and was at first thrilled but as time went on I wasn't the one for her and she just couldn't tell me. after she broke up with me and my friend, she made another play for XXX but that went no where. we remained friendly and almost started dating again, but no, she didn't want that. but when I started dating/fucking someone else, she couldn't accept that. things got a little strange for awhile...like stalking me.

I had other relationships that didn't work but we mutually agreed it wasn't gonna work. we remained friends and even continued sex once in awhile. friends with benefits. having a big cock sometimes complicated things. "no, we're not dating, we're just fucking."
 

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fascinating. i've never known a woman who wanted to fool around more. maybe less. but not more.


Yes.
She broke up with me because she wanted to fool around with other guys. She made the absolute right choice for me. I was broken but in retrospect it's the best thing that could've happened because my life is 100% better without her, and she ended up worse off, hauled into court a few times for skipping out on the rent with her second (?) or third (?) husband, spent some time in county jail for public drunkenness and fighting.
I did not stay in touch with her. I tried to meet up with her once and she ditched me and that was the end of it from my perspective.
 

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yeah. i'm married to my work also. i find women just want someone to spend time with and talk at.

Been in multiple relationships, only been dumped once. It was because I was giving more time and attention to my job than my girl. Was a fair reason I guess lol but it's in a man's nature to try to get ahead in life, she couldn't understand that
 

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fascinating. i've never known a woman who wanted to fool around more. maybe less. but not more.

She didn’t actually say those words. We were together, then she cheated on me with one guy, then she broke up with me and basically picked up any guy who she could.
 
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Technically the bumblebee should not be able to fly according to the laws of aerodynamics. yet it does. Man cannot cure the common cold, though he understands the viruses and bacteria, that cause it . Women are a lot more complicated than a Bumblebee or a cold. Some things just exist as part of nature, stop analyzing and just enjoy the wonders
 

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As someone who has been single most of my life (by choice), I'm always in shock and awe of men who can maintain serious "meaningful" relationships with women. If you've ever been in a serious monogamous relationships, and they ended, (not by you) why do women break up with you?

Did you stay in touch with them? did they make the right choice? Did they end up better off?

Just curious. In my attempt to better understand women.

thank you!
In April of my last year in High School, I was a few weeks short of 18 years old when a girl decided I was going to ask her to our Senior Prom. Eventually I did; she was my first date, first kiss, first girlfriend. We were together for about 7 months and starting to have really serious discussions about our futures. Unfortunately we were at different universities, over 500 miles apart. She broke up a few months into the first term.

We didn't know how to deal with the physical separation. In retrospect, looking back at our conversations and letters, I figured out that she had a personal need to have a guy close by, as well as a social need to be seen on some guy's arm. I don't mean that she was shallow, or manipulative, or chased after "eye candy". I think she was actually rather loyal, and had a tough time making the decision to break up with me. But I wasn't within her visual sight range, and other guys were paying attention to her, who WERE in sight.

For the rest of my time at university I didn't have dates, much less anything like a girlfriend or relationship. The summer after I graduated from university I met a girl . . . . we dated for almost exactly one year . . . and have been married for almost 45 years. In retrospect I think my first girlfriend and I could have had a long and satisfying marriage if we had been able to work through the separation problem, but I am actually better matched with the girl I DID marry. What I do not know is how much of that "better match" is because I loved my first girlfriend when I was 18, but met my wife when I was 22.

I lost track of that first girlfriend. In all sincerity I hope she has had a fulfilling life. I wish I could meet her again - not to revive some old feelings, but to know that she is doing well, however life has treated her. She was a very important part of my life, and played a significant part in making me, uniquely ME. Patty?
 
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If I had to to a stab the root of all relationship killers in some way, shape or form; comes down to money, or family/career influences.

My line of work and what I wanted to do, vice her want of stability for her job/career (see more money) in the case of the first.

Stayed in touch, still love each other after all these years. Both of us readily admit and agree that the killer was a combination of youth, finances and being out of control of our situation to some degree.