Have you come to terms and accepted your own personal weirdness?

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1)Having or possessing qualities or attributes associated with joyboytoy79.
2)Varying, with only minute degree, from the qualities or attributes expressed by joyboytoy79.

Please define for me what normal is so I can do my best to do the exact opposite. :biggrin:

Be the opposite of Joyboytoy79...:tongue:
 

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Do you work as a Cirque du Soleil clown? lol



Surely there must be more self professed weirdos out here on LSPG who have faced and accepted their eccentricity.

Come out and tell us your story!


No I'm an artist, but so are Cirque du Soleil clowns I suppose. Clowns freak me out though, highwire or no.
 

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Oh yes. I accept that I'm gay, that I am into BDSM, that I have never had a romantic relationship, that I'm 43 and living with a parent, that I tend to be very direct with people, that I care very little about fashion, that I get emotional about the most ridiculous things while not about the most obvious things, that I have no job, that I'm a pathetic romantic, that I'm an underhung guy who posts on a board for overhung men, am mad about a presenter in a TV ad for Lincoln Technical Training School, and have an overly distilled sense of humor.

All in all I'm not that weird. As I've gotten older I have found people far more tolerant of it than when I was young and I was teased and beaten-up for it regularly.
 

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Whatever it may be, that aspect of you that is undeniably weird - have you gotten over it and learned to love it? or hide it? live with it?


First off I have to say I think it's poetic justice that a guy with CB as his avatar asks this type of question LOL !

Secondly, as long as I can recall I have been the black sheep of the family. I have always been eccentric. Most of my family are right wing conservatives I am SOooooooo NOT, most are Christians , I have not been for many yrs . Sadly many of them are intolerant of race, I however refuse to see someone as basic as something as a color. They are all carnivores, I have not eaten red meat for 15 yrs.
You can see to my family I seem weird and that is something I have learned to be ok with. Even around my peers they are usually more De Rigueur than my bohemian self .

I have learned to LOVE IT and love myself . A very wise woman I hold in high regard once told me I am like an onion, there are many layers and each layer is richer than the one before !


HH
 

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Whatever it may be, that aspect of you that is undeniably weird - have you gotten over it and learned to love it? or hide it? live with it?
Have you come to terms and accepted your own personal weirdness?


If anyone considers me weird, that is fine by me. I am me 24/7/365. I don't hide behind Jesus or any religion to mask or excuse my flaws. I know what my faults and issues are. People don't have to like me.

I don't hate anybody for their idiosyncracies. If I am irritated by a person's flaws...I know that there is something that will make me love them all the more aside from the more aggravation points of character.

If I am weird or evil...there is a reason for it.
 

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I'm really not all that weird, but the wall of post-it notes that covers half my room seems to beg to differ. Eccentric is how I suppose most would describe me, but really, it seems to me that everybody else is fucking weird.
 

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Whatever it may be, that aspect of you that is undeniably weird - have you gotten over it and learned to love it? or hide it? live with it?

Acknowledged it? Yes.

Accepted it? Hmm, grudgingly, perhaps.

Learned to love it? Not really.

Hide it? When appropriate (formal business or social occasions, in particular).

Live with it? Everyday. :cool:
 

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I know two women, both straight, who love the Three Stooges! How's that for "unfeminine"!

Yep, I've known straight women who love the Three Stooges too. I don't love them, but I like them ok. :smile: I'd much rather watch a Three Stooges movie than a romantic comedy (which are usually full of gender stereotyping - ugh!) But my favorite comedy movies are stuff like Airplane, Young Frankenstein, Blazing Saddles, etc... Mel Brooks and ZAZ! Oh yeah!

Oh yes. I accept that I'm gay, that I am into BDSM, that I have never had a romantic relationship, that I'm 43 and living with a parent, that I tend to be very direct with people, that I care very little about fashion, that I get emotional about the most ridiculous things while not about the most obvious things, that I have no job, that I'm a pathetic romantic, that I'm an underhung guy who posts on a board for overhung men, am mad about a presenter in a TV ad for Lincoln Technical Training School, and have an overly distilled sense of humor.

All in all I'm not that weird. As I've gotten older I have found people far more tolerant of it than when I was young and I was teased and beaten-up for it regularly.

The last paragraph relates to me as well - HOWEVER, part of that is that I moved from the rural Midwest to cities (first in the Midwest, then in the Southwest). I was actually rejected for my "weirdness" where I grew up until I moved out at the age of 32! :eek: (I waited so long to move out because of finances - I lived with my parents until I was 32 and had a boyfriend I could move in with, who lived in the city, and after that I was also able to get a steady job - at least for a while, although now I'm back to financial instability again).

First off I have to say I think it's poetic justice that a guy with CB as his avatar asks this type of question LOL !

Secondly, as long as I can recall I have been the black sheep of the family. I have always been eccentric. Most of my family are right wing conservatives I am SOooooooo NOT, most are Christians , I have not been for many yrs . Sadly many of them are intolerant of race, I however refuse to see someone as basic as something as a color. They are all carnivores, I have not eaten red meat for 15 yrs.
You can see to my family I seem weird and that is something I have learned to be ok with. Even around my peers they are usually more De Rigueur than my bohemian self .

I have learned to LOVE IT and love myself . A very wise woman I hold in high regard once told me I am like an onion, there are many layers and each layer is richer than the one before !


HH

Same here except that I do eat meat - although I won't COOK it because I'm extremely squeamish and can't stand to look at or touch raw meat! (although I like sushi - go figure!) Most of my relatives are right-wing Christians and/or racists. I love living in an area with racial and ethnic diversity and wouldn't want it any other way. I'm not against Christians but I don't like the religious right - and I think a lot of people who say they are against Christians are that way because of the religious right - I was that way for a long time myself. But I've known reasonable Christians who are not like that. Granted, most of the Christians I've known HAVE been religious right, but I know there are exceptions out there now.

I also grew up with people who only listen to country music, go hunting, watch NASCAR, have a collection of guns, etc. I'm not actually against any of those things per se, but the people who have that combination of traits are generally people I'm not going to get along with. I like some country music although it's not one of my favorite genres. I had been known to watch NASCAR in a couple of instances - for a while they had a woman competing and I had to root for her; and I thought Jeff Gordon was hot. :biggrin1: Actually, I do have a problem with people who ONLY like country music, or for that matter who ONLY like metal, or who ONLY like (fill in the blank musical genre). I know one woman who ONLY likes classical music and hates rock, country, jazz, pretty much everything else! (ok, she'll listen to a little bit of New Age, but that's about it, and she'll complain if anyone around her is listening to music she doesn't like. :mad:) Me, I like rock of pretty much all genres (although my favorite is indie rock), world music (all genres, with a special fondness for African music), folk, R&B, jazz, blues, traditional pop/standards, classical music from all eras, and a little country and a little New Age. Now granted that this is one of my particular forms of "weirdness" - the fact that my musical taste goes all over the place like it does! :biggrin1: