Have you ever been attracted to someone who is not classically good looking?

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  1. Mem

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    I got back from a cruise last week and there was a gay group on board. On the last night there I sat next to a guy, at dinner, that I was very attracted to. He was dating a guy on the cruise, but they sat at different tables that night for dinner. Anyway, someone sent me links to pics of him on the cruise. He is not great looking, and does not photograph well, but something about his caught my eye. In another picture he is kissing a guy who's face is not visible, but it does not look like the guy he was dating. He is just very cute and very attractive in a quirky way.

    The most photogenic guy is plain looking and kind of looks like Ron Howard. A really hot and sexy guy looked hideous in all of his photos.
     
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    I've never been attracted to someone "classically good looking"--I prefer a bit of character and imperfection to the face. :shrug:
     
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    attracted to? yes...
    dated? no...
     
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    No ugly chicks for you?

    That guy has something hot about him, I would definitely date him. He has a bad smile in pics, but in some serious pics he looks very good.
     
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    I have been, and this is actually something that I've discussed with several friends of mine. We're all pretty much in the same boat.

    Blessings
     
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    For a long time I was only attracted too pretty boys and did nothing but. Then one day I meet up with a nerdy/geeky type and let’s just say I no longer limit myself to pretty boys. :wink:
     
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    afraid not..:redface:
    at least, not so far!
    I will add, a person doesn't have to be "attractive" to be sexy...
     
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    Nerds are often bigger hung. :wink:


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    I'm not the only one who liked this guy. He was dating a guy, he was kissing another, and the guy that took the photos had him in almost every shot. He has a quiet, sexy "je ne sais qua". Most people would think he was unattractive in pictures, but he is CUTE.
     
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    Yes, sure have, but the person's personality out weighed everything, it made a big difference, looks fade, personalities don't, i like someone who can really make me laugh, treats me decently and is not in love with themselves.
     
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    when I was in high school, there was a girl who wasn't what most people would consider attractive...she was overweight, her face was average at best, and she had acne...all that aside, she had this damn sexiness about her and I wasn't the only guy who noticed it...I used to flirt with her but she had a boyfriend at the time & he never let her go...they ended up getting married after finishing college...
     
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    Actually I was making another guy laugh a lot on the recent cruise and his boyfriend was getting a little pissed off. they were a sweet couple and I he was very cute, they both were, but I was not hitting on him.
     
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    Yes I have really fancied a couple of people who although not ugly by any means could not be described as particularly good looking.... just quite average I suppose.

    But there is something else about the personality that just pulls you in normally confidence, intelligence, a mutual connection.

    I've liked my fair share of really good looking guys too for sure and looks do help...but normally when they are not too cocky...

    looks aren't everything.....

    A BIG COCK HELPS THOUGH!!! ;-)
     
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    in a word, no
     
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    even better pic!!!
     

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    I think that is a case of chemistry. It has happened to me many times.
     
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    Sure all the time. Take a look at all my past lovers.
    C.B.:saevil:
     
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    Hey. Me too. We must be twins.
     
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    I have too, but I've never seen what he really looks like...it's like he's invisible^
     
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