Have you ever been called a f*g?

[JD_002]

Dumb question but I thought about it, as a kid I did, not because I was feminine, but because I was quiet, didn't liked to share personal information and I tended to stare at people.

And later as an adult (not in my face) by a girl who couldn't understand I wasn't into her, lol.

 

[AceWilde]

Grew up in the 90s in the Boston area so the f-bomb was a huge one around me. Similar to you I was a quiet kid and read books a lot so that got me called quite a few names.

 

[sonny84]

Yep. In school growing up in the 90s/00s, Toronto. Among friends as well.
I'd say yeah I'm a fag, bet I suck better than your girl. That'd shut them up.

And I was a 6ft tall 100lbs hairy dude that was on the Cricket team. I wasn't some delicate creature either.

There was also these two boyband eurotrash dudes in my History class (you know, spikey gelled hair with platinum frosted tips) and they'd always say as soon as I walked past them "don't drop the soap' and I didn't know wth that meant....Oz was on air but we only had basic cable. I figured it out like at the end of the semester and when tweedle doo and dee said it once again, I snapped back in as loud and as deep a voice as I could whilst remaining polite ....I said " even if I did, I've seen you both and you're each so small, I wouldn't even feel it going in".....even Mrs. S the History Teacher laughed along with the whole class. And those two high tailed it out of class to never bother me again (every one knew we were in the PhysEd together).

This other kid who'd call me a fag, who was on my Cricket team, he hit the nape of my neck with a Cricket Cork ball. Hurt like mf and I saw stars for a good couple of mins. When I came to, his face and my bat had one vigorous appointment. He never looked me in the eye again or made fun of me.
FF 5/6 yrs later....he finds my hotmail email, adds me on MSN Messenger and starts a video call with me in the middle of the night....he's naked.

Go figure.

That's all at bandcamp for now kids.

 

[JD_002]

Lol, these days if someone calls me fag it's because they want to have sex with me.

 

[sonny84]

Lol, these days if someone calls me fag it's because they want to have sex with me.

Amen.

 

[JD_002]

Amen.

They say it flirty followed by being very handsy, so I'm not making shit up.

 

[sonny84]

They say it flirty followed by being very handsy, so I'm not making shit up.

I believe you. They say in your native language? Or English or both?

 

[JD_002]

I believe you. They say in your native language? Or English or both?

In Spanish, somehow it doesn't sound so bad.

 

[sonny84]

In Spanish, somehow it doesn't sound so bad.

It's the same in French. It sounds hot and I get turned the fuck on.

 

[JD_002]

Find it so funny it used to be such a taboo word for me to hear while younger and now I don't really care, heck if I hear someone say it with conviction I just know they have "other" intentions.

 

[Robert Dole]

If someone says that to me I tell them there are less awkward ways to flirt. Most beat a retreat...

 

[ILoveGames48]

When someone asked me if I was a F@g or called me one.. I’d say yes and if ever want a good blow job you know where to find me.. that would always piss them off..


But what people don’t seem to realize back years ago.. we weren’t known as gay .. we were known as the f word and getting on chat rooms back then in a gay chat guys would be in there calling the guys there a bunch of F@gs and I would say yeah we are what’s your point..


But years later the word gay became the word for homosexual men / women.. so people would say are you gay.. I’d say yep.. I’m happy .. as in dictionary then.. gay meant happy ..