Have you ever been embarrased about being big. Tell your story.

Discussion in 'Underwear, Clothing, and Appearance Issues' started by D_Saleth Scruffytrim, Apr 11, 2009.

  1. D_Saleth Scruffytrim

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    Ok. i show a huge bulge and i hate when people just stare at me (not knowing why they're staring) so i kinda get a lil embarrassed when people are staring at it but its all good. So this is why i refrain from wearing sweats and mesh shorts too much, too avoid embarassment.
     
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    This is a follow-up to a story I told about being in highschool years ago. A girl had asked if the bulge in my shorts was real, so during class we both slipped out for different reasons and I took her to the boy's restroom. I flopped out the dick, and as we all remember from highschool, it gets HARD and stays HARD.(Them were the good ol' days). Anyway, I went back into class with it hanging out towards the side of my shorts, still out of my underwear, and oh my what a bulge. Anyway, sure as shit, wouldn't you know it, the teacher asks me to come up in front of the class to talk. Needless to say, I brought my binder/notebook to cover it up the whole speech. Very embarrassing...
     
  3. TheWB

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    im not that huge or nothin at all but my big balls combined with above avg dick size do result in a bulge when wearing sweatpants or basketball shorts lol and its pretty much always unwanted considering i rarely find myself in a room full of nice looking girls, who are the only people i would want to see any 'bulge'....not that i would go out of my way to show that to a woman anyways cuz im not that much of a pervert lol

    anyways yeah the bulge is embarassing at the gym
     
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    Never been embarrased by showing a bulge myself. Can't see the point in trying to hide what you naturally got - just my opinion.
     
  5. TheWB

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    lol you cant think of any situation where you don't want people to see the outline of your package? i can barely think of any situations where i would want them to see it lol. even if it was huge and i was proud of it, it still kinda gives off the whole 'pervert' vibe
     
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    Once in a healtycentrum, were you have to wear swimsuits, there was a pool with saltwater. I was the only one who had a bulge above the water, while wearing speedo's.
     
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    i show a noticeable bulge in pretty much any sweats i wear, and a curvature even in jeans or cargo jeans, so I always get my fair share of idle stares.

    but in sweats it is quite bad. i am quite hung and have big balls, so in sweats (all my sweats are of polyester, not those heavy cotton ones, so they love contouring to everything down there) like no joke almost 100% of the women look, and 90% look for a while as it wags side to side, slithering across from one side to the other under the fabric and gently giggling with each step.

    one time one girl friend (not girlfriend) of mine was drunk as hell, i was in these sweats (because theyre comfy and they breathe well and I had just come from my apartment). there were literally 10 girls compared to 3 guys, and one guy was gay. they were all drunk as hell, so the gay guy is measuring his hand against mine, and literally i can bend my top knuckles over the tips of his fingers. the other guy then does the same and again my hand is way bigger. then my drunk girl friend from the beginning goes "so that's why your weiner is so big," and points. and my fat 6-inch semi was just sitting there, curling downwards across my balls, and i was standing, leaning against the edge of a desk so my balls were perched all the way in front of my legs, all with these polyester sweats draped over it with a line on each side along where the penis meets the balls.

    I IMMEDIATELY went red, turned to my best friend, wasn't able to say anything, had that embarrassed and dorky semi-grin on my face as all the people in the room laughed and stared at my obscene bulge. she just told me "it's ok, just breathe," giggling as she herself kept her eyes on my package the whole time...

    yah that was just a week ago and highly, highly uncofmrtable.
     
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    I was known as the guy that looks like he always has a boner.

    The guys in the locker room knew the truth; I didn't always have a boner it just looked that way.
     
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    This happened very recently at the gym, had a dad bring in his son (about 11? 12?) I am usualy nude it the sauna but covered up out of courtesy. (the father was i a towel teh son in board type shorts (not quite as long)- I love to see these 'father and sons' at the gym- great to them bonding.

    Anyhow I heard the dad 'explaining' the sauna (hot, how long in there, etc). The sauna is 'L' shaped, the father sat, closed his eyes and did his son, I was zoning as well, then noticed out of the corner of my eye the kid...well staring...

    I realized when I had 'wrapped' teh back of the towel was not pulled (so I was 'falling out'). The kid was trying not to stare but...what would you do? He tried to nudge his dad (who had his eyes closed).

    Was not sure what to do...so I stood up to leave, pulling the towel with me, went to tie it and the whole thing at this point 'dropped' due to sweat.

    About this time the dad had noticed the 'nudge'. I quickly wrapped up and went to shower.

    Embarrassing? yes in a way. I try to be very respectful of children.

    I stayed in the shower a bit longer to give them time to leave. I did see them walk past and caught the father drying off out of the corner of my eye (I was a the back of the showers) the glimpse I saw was not 'big'....
     
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    i was with my friends for a sleepover once
    we were all getting changed
    we had a dirty movie on
    and every1 suddenly said 2 me when i got my trousers off dat i'm hard
    i protested and touched it 2 prove it was flop
    and it all fell silent :p
     
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    I wear regular slacks or khakis to work. On several occasions I have had women around my office comment on being able to see which way I point and the regular bulge I show when in the slacks (see gallery). Since the last time (about a week ago) I have broken out all my briefs (i normally wear boxer briefs or trunks) just so I don't have to hear about it.

    Not that I mind, but if a girl aint jumping on the johnson the comments can only lead to an even bigger bulge...lol
     
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    most recently... i've never really use condoms, most the relationships i am in tend to be somewhat long term, and she usually gets on birth control. but this girl im seeing on and off the past couple months said i should probably be using large condoms, which i had never really considered. i just thought condoms really sucked, they always seemed so tight and short, but i thought thats how they were supposed to fit. i definately blushed a bit, tried not to show it. it should have been a no brainer but i never considered myself larger than normal. so, now i have to go to the corner store and buy some magnums... ill probably be pretty embrssd up until i walk out with them stashed in my pocket.
     
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    Amazing how styles change over the years!
    Dare I say that I'm proud of my bulge, and don't mind others' compliments?
    I would appreciate being able to observe more bulges.
    A nice looking "rack" on women can be admired, complimented, and accentuated!
    It seems strange to me ... Nice cleavage=Beauty ... Bulge display=Perversion

    I might be perverted, but I don't appreciate anyone assuming me to be a pervert due to the size of my "pride". ENOUGH! I choose not to editorialize anymore. I do recall becoming embarrassed one day during an unexpected "boner" period.

    This probably occurred in 1961 or '62 while I was in grade school. It was prior to the invention of pantyhose. These were the days when girls were still required to wear dresses or skirts to school, and those who chose to wear nylons, kept them from drooping by wearing garter belts. The "saucy" girls usually kept a portion of their bare leg exposed. Some were quite a bit more attractive than others. These are just observations of the era; nothing sexual intended. We all were barely 12 years of age, and my knowledge of sexuality was limited to the definition of "screwing", which a friend explained when I didn't understand the punch line of a joke. This is about the same time I had learned "fucking" was synonymous with "screw". Most of my friends were raised not to utilize swear words such as "shit" or the forbidden "f" word.

    Some girls were passing a handwritten anecdote around class one day. It didn't take long to observe giggling occurring every time the note paper was secretly passed from one to another. I surmised it must be a funnier story than the usual jokes that were passed around while the teacher was distracted. My turn arrived to read the note, but I wasn't discovering anything humorous in the story. It seemed to be a well written story about a girl and boy falling into love with each other. The story came to an end as the boy was pushing his "peter" into the girl's "bush". I began to understand the story and immediately developed a boner. Later, I understood the reason for all the giggling. I assume other guys were growing boners when they read the story, also. I never discussed the issue with my friends, we were just curious about where a story like that was found.

    I was embarrassed. I attempted to hide my boner, because previous to this erection, a boner had only been a personal indicator that I had to piss sooner than later.
     
  14. sendera1

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    I'm not sure if I want everyone knowing that I'm big. I do everything I can to not show what I'm working with. There seem to be some cultural things that make some women at work just stare anyway. There have been a few women that are very obvious about the staring. The stuff is pretty much annoying.

    I remember a few years back where I was experinmenting with boxer shorts at work. I more of a briefs type of guy for the support. I just thought it might be fun to have some breathing room and I've heard the women like guys who wear the boxer briefs. I tried them and they don't give enough support. I get too much freedom. For me too much freedom equals a semi.

    Anyway, dummy me peaked my head into a meeting room full of mostly the younger crowd of women. My semi was, well semi and there was this one girl who was close to the door and my crotch was near her face. She just sort of had this goofy smile and look on her face. I think a few other women saw what she was looking at. From that point on I think many of the women who were in that room always look at me and then look at my crotch when they see me.
     
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    well lets see here one time i was laying on the theater stage and two girls were out in the seats. that day i was wearing just regular jeans which, when im standing dont bulge too badly but when laying down show an obvious bulge. anyways so i was just laying there then suddenly they start to giggle. I laugh too and ask why they were giggling. one of the girls was my friend and she said "It looks like you have a boner." I went beet red and told them that i didnt have one. man tht was embarrasing...
     
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    Too many stories to tell. When I was in school my boner was enormous and would last for hours either poking out of the top of my pants or forcing the bulge out of my pants on the side. The shape of the bulging head clearly outlined in the fabric is embarrassing now and was then.

    Or when my huge balls bulge out from my pant leg.

    Truly embarrassing. And, I have not even gotten to the speedos era that I grew up with.
     
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    Recently I had friends over and one on my computer looked at my history and found a bunch of searches in the "big dick" category on pornhub. At first I just said "So? I watch big dick porn."
    They responded by calling me gay, saying I love big dicks and etc.
    I then explained to them that I happen to have a big dick and its a lot better when the actor you are watching screw a girl has a dick size similar to your own because it makes it easier to put yourself in their position.
     
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    hey now- let's not call them "actors". :p

    i was pretty damn skinny when i was 13, and my dick had gotten pretty damn big for that age. i actually got teased mercilessly by a few guys two grades higher. i knew better a few years later, but at the time i was very much wishing i was more "normal" between the legs. to clarify, the "high school" i went to was 7th through 12th grade. i know a lot of readers probably went to a middle school but we didn't have that.
     
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