Have you ever been offered money for sex by a member of the same sex?

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I'm asking this simply out of curiosity. I grew up with a guy & we were friend with benefits. When we were in our early 20' he's had a girlfriend and said he wanted to be faithful to her which was fine with me. After about a month I had met a guy & we were having lots of fun together. After a couple of weeks of seeing this new guy we went out for a drink & by chance there was my friend with his girlfriend. A couple of days later my friend came round wanting to hook up and have some fun. I turned him down as I wasn't interested anymore. He offered me £20 to have sex with him. I never did anything with him & told him I wasn't interested. He wasn't happy, but he had to accept it. I was just wondering if anything like this has ever happened to anyone else?
 
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YES, but I was young and stupid and rejected the offer as I felt like a prostitute, and my morals blah blah blah, if that would happen now, I would FULL ON take him up in his offer!
Nothing wrong with being a prostitute .. people do that because need money for some reason.. I was one for 3 years —- can’t say when— as someone needed money to help pay bills so I did the sex thing and then said I mowed yards and did odd jobs so can help with the bills
 

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Nothing wrong with being a prostitute .. people do that because need money for some reason.. I was one for 3 years —- can’t say when— as someone needed money to help pay bills so I did the sex thing and then said I mowed yards and did odd jobs so can help with the bills
that's is my point, there is absolutely nothing wrong with being a prostitute, that was my younger self being a closed minded idiot and coming from a very strict old fashion Latino mindset/background, I just didn't know any better, that what I said, I wish it was NOW that I am older and wiser MUCH wiser, I would do it in a second!
 

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I got naked and jacked off in an adult theater once with a few guys watching. Shot a huge load quite some distance. I went in to the restroom to get dressed and clean up and when I walked out, one of the guys made eye contact with me and slipped me a $20 bill.
 

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When my parents tossed me out of the house for being gay and I spent a couple of months on the streets making my (pretty decent) living with paid favors of a sexual nature. Had to get by somehow, and I have no moral opposition to prostitution as long as nobody is being trafficked or otherwise exploited against their will. Sex work is work.

Later, when I was about 35, this much much older dude hit me up on Grindr. I wasn't really looking for a hookup at the time and certainly wasn't at all interested in a 70-year-old guy who looked like Santa Claus and gave me stalker vibes, so I politely declined. He kept blowing up my phone with messages, and I blocked him. He also was blowing up my roommate's phone wanting to have sex with both of us, and my roommate declined and ended up blocking him, too.

A few weeks later I was at work (in a pharmacy) and Santa comes rolling up to the counter on the electric scooter and LOUDLY demands to know when I'm done my shift for the day and offers me $500 to have sex. I totally flipped out on him and my manager intervened and banned him from the store lol. I got written up for it, too, because customers were standing right there when it happened and it caused an embarrassing disruption in the store (not even counting the embarrassment for me!).

Every now and then I still see the guy out and about in public and if I catch him looking at me I just give him the death glare and flip him off.
 
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When my parents tossed me out of the house for being gay and I spent a couple of months on the streets making my (pretty decent) living with paid favors of a sexual nature. Had to get by somehow, and I have no moral opposition to prostitution as long as nobody is being trafficked or otherwise exploited against their will. Sex work is work.

Later, when I was about 35, this much much older dude hit me up on Grindr. I wasn't really looking for a hookup at the time and certainly wasn't at all interested in a 70-year-old guy who looked like Santa Claus and gave me stalker vibes, so I politely declined. He kept blowing up my phone with messages, and I blocked him. He also was blowing up my roommate's phone wanting to have sex with both of us, and my roommate declined and ended up blocking him, too.

A few weeks later I was at work (in a pharmacy) and Santa comes rolling up to the counter on the electric scooter and LOUDLY demands to know when I'm done my shift for the day and offers me $500 to have sex. I totally flipped out on him and my manager intervened and banned him from the store lol. I got written up for it, too, because customers were standing right there when it happened and it caused an embarrassing disruption in the store (not even counting the embarrassment for me!).

Every now and then I still see the guy out and about in public and if I catch him looking at me I just give him the death glare and flip him off.
Reading this reminded me of a time, about 20/21 years ago. I had gone out to a gay pub, about 8 miles from where I lived at the time. I was having a drink & noticed an older guy, I was 22/23 & he was older to me about 50, he kept staring at me, mouthing to me "do you want me" & it really crept me out. Nothing happend as I quickly finished my drink & left. But your comment got me thinking about some older guys, do they think younger guys are easy or just sluts that will do anything with anyone, especially for money.
 
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Yes, in college some guys paid to suck my cock. I was enjoying it, they wanted to pay...I never asked. I just said Thank You.
You sound like fun. I think I would have enjoyed being a friend of yours at college :p
 

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Sure. Turned it down as not interested .

Later, met guys offerred to pay just to suck. Hey--- guys Invented cocksucking! So, didnt charge.

Later still: realized how $$ could effect the dynamics . So--- some guys have to pay.
One guy i pay--- his ego and identity need it, as does his pockets.
 

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Was in my early 30's at a gay bar and was approached by a gentleman in his late 50's bought me a drink we spoke and he offered $$ if I would go back to his hotel to [deleted inappropriate content]. Not my thing, but was very flattered to say the least. Turns out he was an attorney from out of town with a big case going on where I lived, and came in to town for the next couple of years working and always gave notice when he was to arrive and how long, he spent the next couple of years paying me and then got to the point of always wanting a third party involved, which he paid for also. Turned out to be a pretty good deal for me all the way around as I always got to pick the third party, and he mostly just wanted to watch. Lot of money back in the mid 90's and turned out to be a lot of fun, always looked forward to his trips in. Thing is I would have done it for free, but something about the bucks made it much more exciting.
 
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Reading this reminded me of a time, about 20/21 years ago. I had gone out to a gay pub, about 8 miles from where I lived at the time. I was having a drink & noticed an older guy, I was 22/23 & he was older to me about 50, he kept staring at me, mouthing to me "do you want me" & it really crept me out. Nothing happend as I quickly finished my drink & left. But your comment got me thinking about some older guys, do they think younger guys are easy or just sluts that will do anything with anyone, especially for money.
Im in my 50's now and when I was younger I had my share of older guys being creepy like that, and now that I am older my self, I HAVE NO DESIRE to BE A CREEP towards younger guys nor anyone for that matter is juts not me, I honestly think a creep is always a creep at any age, there is also the older men that only like young muscle boys or twinks and do offer to pay as a way to interact with them and get their attention as a lot of em do enjoy showing off for money now with the ONLYFANS and CHATURBATE sites etc etc,
 
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It’s has happened to me too a couple of times when taking the public transport. 2 times by 2 different old men i got a 20€/10€ bill in my pocket with their numbers on it and asking me to call them cuz there might be more lol never called anyone though
 
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Once taking a piss a guy took the urinal next to me and looked over at my penis and asked how's it going and then looked down at my penis again and asked if he could buy me a drink or two. I told him no thanks. He asked again if he could and that he would really like to buy me at least one drink. I said thanks, but I'm not interested.

First time he turned to me to start talking, I looked down at his, which probably made him ask again as that probably indicated to him I was interested maybe, even though I said no. Out of habit I always check the guys next to me just to compare.
 

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Nobody, man or woman, has ever offered me money for sex. I did have a FWB that was always in need of money so she offered me "free sex" (any time, any place, no foreplay required) in exchange for lending her some money. Soo... she offered me sex for money! :D We usually had sex every time we were physically together so nothing really changed.
 

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I have been paid as a stripper and for erotic massages and since I am not gay they would offer more if they could either watch me play with myself until I cum or more if I would let them jack me off. I have always looked at it as Safe Sex where no one was hurt and it was mutually beneficial to both me and the viewer. Their privacy was maintained and in some cases they became regular customers too.

It is where I get the tag 80% Straight and 20% Gay (besides working there in Honolulu in the 80's near Hula's Bar). I know that I am not gay but I do like knowing that a man can be attracted to me to the point of either watching me get off or him getting off watching me. Definitely prefer women though.