Have you ever been refused sex becuause of your dick size?

Discussion in 'Sex With a Large Penis' started by earllogjam, Oct 7, 2009.

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Have you ever been refused sex because of your dick size?

  1. No

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  2. Yes, too big

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  3. Yes, too small

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  1. earllogjam

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    Has a partner ever refused sex or curtailed a tryst after they've decided that your cock is either too big or too small for them?
     
  2. Northland

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    I have never been refused and size has never been brought up as an issue one way or t'other.
     
  3. D_Percival Puddleford Pukehorn

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    I've dumped a guy before because his dick was too small.
     
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    Yes. On a few occasions.

    Once I contacted a guy through a cruisin site (not this one of course) and he was visiting London. I invited to him to come to my flat. He was not bad looking, latino looks and young. After pleasantries, I stood before him and dropped my trousers, then I asked him to pull down my underpants.... his face was a picture.
    He just sat there looking at it, I asked him if he wanted to suck it or lick it, and he shook his head - then I realised something was not quite right, I asked him again if he wanted to play with it and get it fully hard - he said something along the lines of " Sorry, its too big for me. I'm really sorry."
    He left a few minutes later, I was of course flattered
     
  5. vince

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    A few have tried to get away, but never underestimate a big cock's powers of persuasion. :smile:

    My current gf did ask me not to go home with her after she spent a week here in July. The plan was for us to have a week here, (the beach) and a week in the Alps, (her place). But her pussy needed some recovery time after more or less steady pounding for a week. Sometimes I forget to take it easy. :redface:
     
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    I've been asked to stop a few times because I was too long and was tapping into sensitive areas...too bad. Nice women.
     
  7. poomoz

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    I have been refused anal because of my girth
     
  8. jdoe86

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    A few times. Mainly because of my girth.
     
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    Couple of years ago.

    She was a brazillian escort.

    As soon as he saw my dick she said something like "What a huge thick dick!" "You've got a nigga's dick".

    I remember her in front of me. I was sitting over the bed and she was down on her knees ready to give me a head job. She held my dick with both hands and looking at it she simply said "uffffffffffffffffff!!!!!". She tried to get the dick into her mouth and ended gagging with vomits so she went to the WC in a hurry to wash her mouth.

    When she turned back she told me "Sorry, it's the first time this happens to me. You got a dick like none other I've seen yet. I'm sure all girls who try to blow up you also vomit".

    I wasn't sure if I should take this as a complain or as a compliment.

    Prior to start fucking she asked me if I wanna to fuck her ass too. As soon as I said yes she gave me back my money and told me she can't put a dick like mine into her ass.

    She told me to try with another girl.

    All this was enough for me for that night. I went home (without fucking).
     
  10. D_William Henry Hairyson

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    refused, no, never, asked to stop for a while or go slower yes...my gf is used to bleeding now though, lol
     
  11. D_Maurice Mountlilly

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    yes..but the women who refused only heard about it and never saw it...
     
  12. fsck_u

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    I've had several girls tell me they were too sore to keep going. One girl who wouldn't let me put it in for awhile because she wasn't sure it would fit and she was worried it would hurt. I've been told no by almost all girls I've been with about anal. I've still managed to eventually talk them into it. I had one girl tell me later that she gave me a lot of blow jobs because she couldn't take it more then every other day.

    Honestly though these are isolated and the female body can handle all sizes alot of this was probably for my benefit I don't believe all of it.
     
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    Yes, twice. Once was with this guy who chatted me up (whilst I was chatting HIM up) in a bar in NYC. He bragged about his size, etc. I said nothing just that I was pretty hung myself. Well, long story short, I took him back to my place and, after telling me in the cab how good he was gonna make me feel, when the trous were dropped he freaked out. He said it was inhuman, gross, etc. I merely shrugged and offered him a subway token to get him back to where he was staying. LOL. Second time was a really nice fella whom I suspected was lacking in experience and simply was afraid. He stayed and we cuddled and that was okay.
     
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    the girl didn't refuse, but i had to assure her that i would not be rough.
    i told her "it's not going to hurt, just relax and open your mouth a little bit more..."
     
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    There was this one woman I was with ... we were at the point of feeling each other through our pants, and she started to feel me and quickly lost interest, saying, "I'm ... I'm sorry ... your size is scaring me ... I think I just need to stop."
     
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    Anal sex yes. I'm still trying to convince her that as long as she's on top, she has control of the motion.
     
  17. D_Schwartze Schwanzstucker

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    another one:

    "heeeey, your friend said you were nothing to rave about. He's jealous, huh?"
    (refering to my friend, who had told this girl that my penis wasn't that big, since
    there was a rumor at school)
     
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    I always get the sore pussy complaints and I've always had to be mindful of going too deep until they've adjusted and can ask for more.
     
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    I've never been refused sex, but I've been stopped half way through due to her feeling too sore. I've also had a non starter with a petite girl. I managed to push my helmet into her, but had to call it off as it was clear my cock wouldn't fit without lube and pain.
     
  20. Aplus

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    Never been refused, but had more than a few who were nervous about my girth. I always tell them I'll go slow or they can go at whatever pace they need to as we start with her on top. It's pretty easy since that is what I prefer anyway. Most have adjusted within about five minutes. Some simply underestimated their ability to handle me or I think simply overestimated my size. Had a few who had to stop themselves or me because it was too uncomfortable. Matter of fact, just had one woman stop me a few months ago because she said I was too wide. Most handle me just fine, with some clearly able to take more.
     
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