Soon after I had my first sexual experience with a man (one night stand) it was a great but I felt very inadequate sexually. Being from a small town there seemed little opportunity to find other gay younger men like myself. I saw an ad in a gay magazine for a bath house in Toronto and having had little experience sexually I was determined to get more experience and the fact that I wanted to be anonymous appealed to me. I found a whole new world of experience finding all the men I needed and ones I didnt need! LOL I was surprised how many married men there were and men who said they were mainly straight! Have you ever been to a bath house? Did you go before you were out? Did the bath house provide a place for new sexual experiences? As a mainly straight man did you go at least once to satisfy your curiosity?