Have you ever been to a Sex Club/Bathhouse?

Posts Attachments
Sort by date Most Liked Posts
STD's? Be careful but have fun... :wink:
 
Not knowing what to expect can be half the fun! Keep in mind that sex club and bathhouse can be 2 different things. Yes at both sex happens LOL but some guys go to a bathhouse just to relax. Meaning if they have a pool to hang out nude, work out in the gym etc. And if you want to hook up you can. If its your first time I suggest the bathhouse. less pressure. Have been to many around the country and met alot of great guys just laying outside by the pool. Most bathhouses are from major chains so you can look up their site. Have not been to Zone but to others like it and it just that a sex club so be in the mood to explore. Good luck and just have fun.
 
I have not gone to a gay one but I have been a lot of swinger and lifestyle parties put in by lifestyle lounge and plush parties. I have lots of pics in my albums.
 
Been to many from San Fran, San Diego, Phoenix and Palm Springs. They can be fun, but be careful of many things. I like the ones with private rooms in case someone wants to be alone with you. Hit and miss....just like dating.
 
There used to be a "sex club" here in San Jose years ago. It was more of a sex party house ran by a swinger couple. It was open to couples and BYOB. This was a time before safe sex and condoms so the worst you might catch was gonorrhea. The couple would allow a few single guys in so to keep the ratio of men to women fairly close. The worst thing about it was people sitting around for hours getting the courage to make a move. As a single guy, you never make the first move. A few times a couple would approach me and we'd go to one of the private rooms. Just regular sex, nothing kinky. Every once in awhile the couple that ran it would get involved (he was older, she was in her mid 30's). The husband would watch me fuck his wife and jack off. And as a rule no guy on guy but woman on woman was acceptable.

Been to a gay bathhouse in San Jose and done just about anything two or more guys can do together. Oral anal, fisting, 4 ways, golden showers, had a guy eat my ass for must have been 20 minutes while he jacked off his 4" penis. Even tried double anal on a guy with a guy who looked like Lexington Steel (it wasn't him BTW). I even meet a gay porn actor there who liked to be fucked for hours. He could handle a serious ass fucking and I know from watching him he would take 10 or 11 guys before he would call it quits.

Went to The Power Exchange up in SF years ago, but spent most of my time getting sucked my guys since 90% of the women I saw there were just there to watch. Hell, I got more sex at adult book stores on a slow night.
 
Yes, I have been . . Its good to go in without expectations. . Its like hitting the bars. Sometimes you meet someone. . sometimes you don't. (There are lots of wallflower guys who stand off in corners masturbating who are too afraid to ask another dude for fun). Also, Like the others have said. . bring condoms and lube with you and put in your locker. Make sure you have a few extra bucks for a private room, if you hit it off with someone. Otherwise, Go there with the day spa mentality. . go have fun to relax in the sauna or hot tubs. . and if you meet someone. . Bonus.
 
jdoe86 said:
There used to be a "sex club" here in San Jose years ago. It was more of a sex party house ran by a swinger couple. It was open to couples and BYOB. This was a time before safe sex and condoms so the worst you might catch was gonorrhea. The couple would allow a few single guys in so to keep the ratio of men to women fairly close. The worst thing about it was people sitting around for hours getting the courage to make a move. As a single guy, you never make the first move. A few times a couple would approach me and we'd go to one of the private rooms. Just regular sex, nothing kinky. Every once in awhile the couple that ran it would get involved (he was older, she was in her mid 30's). The husband would watch me fuck his wife and jack off. And as a rule no guy on guy but woman on woman was acceptable.

Been to a gay bathhouse in San Jose and done just about anything two or more guys can do together. Oral anal, fisting, 4 ways, golden showers, had a guy eat my ass for must have been 20 minutes while he jacked off his 4" penis. Even tried double anal on a guy with a guy who looked like Lexington Steel (it wasn't him BTW). I even meet a gay porn actor there who liked to be fucked for hours. He could handle a serious ass fucking and I know from watching him he would take 10 or 11 guys before he would call it quits.

Went to The Power Exchange up in SF years ago, but spent most of my time getting sucked my guys since 90% of the women I saw there were just there to watch. Hell, I got more sex at adult book stores on a slow night.
Click to expand...




Funny how that works out huh. I've been to the adult bookstore and a normal day and had several sexual partners and a bunch of great sex. Go someplace like Power exchange......absolutely no luck. Shit, sometimes I'd go right back to the same bookstore and get nothing.:mad:
 
latinluva said:
[/COLOR]



Funny how that works out huh. I've been to the adult bookstore and a normal day and had several sexual partners and a bunch of great sex. Go someplace like Power exchange......absolutely no luck. Shit, sometimes I'd go right back to the same bookstore and get nothing.:mad:
Click to expand...
The two times I went to the Power Exchange were a bust compared to what was expected. I went once as a single guy and once as a couple. The girl I was with went in all ready to do stuff, but froze when she realized that 20+ guys were following her around. She was content just watching a guy suck me off and eat my ass. The time I went solo was a total waste of $$$. Some of the worst head I ever got. I was going to go over to Blow Buddies but for some reason I didn't.
 
Yeah I went to one in downtown LA once with some work friends. Guys always had to have a girl with them but girls could roam free. Lots of public sex and couple invites which I accepted. One to go down on a guys girl who was on a Drs table with stirups and the other was a fee thrusts in a girl who wanted as many cocks as she could get. The best part was the dark room though. A hot steamy padded room with absolutely no light. Moms of naked writhing bodies and hands grasping for anything they could find. Cocks, pussies, tits.. Everything was fair game. The place had a great vibe and voyeurism was encouraged. Also condoms were everywhere.
 
Go your first time with no expectations other than to relax and check things out. Feel free to say 'no thanks' to anyone who approaches if you're not interested. The vibe can vary tremendously, and there are no guarantees that reality will fit your fantasy world.

There are several threads on this subject in the Ask a Gay Man section that go into great detail on the pros and cons, etiquette, STI awareness, etc. People are often judgemental of bathouses/saunas, but the world of Grindr and online sites are really no different. They are electronic bathouses. I like bathhouses because I can read body language and personal chemistry in real life If something doesn't click with a guy, no big deal, I move on. It's really quite efficient, not to mention great fun. Enjoy!
 
Last edited:
  • Like
Reactions: HairyMuscle
Been to lots of bathhouses lots of times...most recently on my annual week long trek back home to Orlando. Love going to them and they are great, especially if you're an exhibitionist and enjoy multiple partners and/or huge stuff in you or stuffing other guys. It never gets old.
 
I've been to a few, and generally enjoy the experience. I recommend going to see how you like it. Here are three pieces of advice:
- try to go at a busy time (around when bars in your city close for the night), so you get to see a wide variety of guys and activities
- pay extra for a room during your first visit. It might cost $10-15 more, but you will have a place to return to and relax if you get overwhelmed, and you'll also have a private place to have sex with guys in case you're not yet comfortable with playing out in the open.
- set your expectations appropriately. There will be a cross section of society. This means that guys there will be young, old, hairy, smooth, slim, fit, or overweight, guys who may or may not want to have sex (with you or in general), and so on. It will not be a bathhouse full of hot, hung porn stars dying to have sex with you.
 
Never been to a bathhouse, but it sounds VERY hot.
I got engaged sexually during the height of the AIDS crisis, when bathhouses were closing right and left, so I sort of missed that party.
If it is coming back, maybe I ought to try it out. I'm still in great shape (30s) and could swing it, as it were.
Better hurry up, though. I definitely don't want to be one of those too-old-to-be-here creepers.
Ah, to have been gay and out in the '70s.
 
Here in San Jose is a place called The Watergarden. I went one time and fucked 7 or 8 guys in one night. Each guy was maybe a fuck of about 10 minutes without cumming. I finished the night off by jacking off in the steam room and a into a guy's open mouth. That was maybe the most active night I had there.
 
I used to go all the time, back in the early 80's, to a place called "Flex" here in Atlanta. Sometimes I would get fucked by 5 or 6 guys in one night, while another hot mouth was in front of me sucking out my loads. Was hot as hell!!!!!! Those definitely were the good old days.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.

Similar threads

A
Go to the toronto bathhouse or go cruising?
Replies
1
Views
372
Personal Ads
fanboi
F
T
Question about use of something like viagra to have sex with a woman?
Replies
10
Views
2K
Ask a Gay Man
altaa_sa
A
B
Men do you ever fantasize what it would be like to have a pussy
Replies
15
Views
622
General Sexual Discussion
Wannabee
Wannabee
daybreaker96
Birthday at a Bathhouse
Replies
18
Views
3K
Erotic Stories
menhot
M
C
Sorry haven’t been on much
Replies
0
Views
217
Et Cetera, Et Cetera
chrissal480
C
Top Bottom