Have you ever been to a swingers club??

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  1. bigdog83

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    What can you expect? Im interested in going solo to one of the vegas clubs ive seen. Just dont know what to expect so I dont have balls to walk in solo. Is it ok to go solo?
     
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    what's a swinger's club?
     
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    Been thinking about it, but I have the idea that old nasty people go there, but there's one constant that stays the same everwhere, Male solos are usually unwelcome unless introduced by one of the regulars.
     
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    This was my experience. Never went back after the first time.

    Hope you have better luck.
     
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    old nasty people was your experience or being unwelcome?
     
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    I wasn't unwelcome. But there were only a couple of women in there that I would have been interested in... and they were in very high demand.
     
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    what about couples? Are they only looking for other women, or are some looking for single men? Are any of the couples attractive?
     
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    Go to the web site of the club you want to visit and read the rules. Some never allow single males, some allow them if accompanied by a couple, some have special single male days or nights, etc.

    I have gone several times and have always found couples or women to have sex with. I haven't counted the number of times I have gone but have only struck out once.
     
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    I have before and want to go back with Mistarhc & milf.wannaplaywithme ;)

    There are many clubs and all kinds of people in the lifestyle. I think the people I have met are real people and non judgmental.
     
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    I haven't been to a swingers club though have been to spas where in some circumstances it takes place. If it's your thing then you must not be pushy and respect the rules of the place, as single men can make themselves unwelcome.
     
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    Been to a (dutch) swingers club a few times. As a single you don't have to much chance at a woman, but when you bring something with you that they're not used to, things change! :biggrin1:
     
  13. D_Judith K Rantz

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    I'll go with ya ;)

    I would like to go to one, if just to have the experience and watch (not necessarily participate).
     
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