statistically, you're not? Some girl basically called me small once. I don't think I'm big either (i've gotten "hmm..nice" looks but definitely no "wow!"s) but the girl pretty much implied to me that I didn't have much. It wasn't done in a spiteful way either, more like her honest opinion. Then again, I know her ex before was huge and she had a fascination with huge dicks and supermale features, such as hairyness and whatever. Honestly she was packing a good amount of testosterone for a girl so i think she wanted a guy that could match that...not that i'm "soft" anyway, i'm just not 'roided and have a 9 inch dick.