This happened 10 years ago when I was at a leather bar in Earl's Court in London. There was a cute barman with a lycra black shorts showing off an awesome bulge between his thighs. I could harldly get my eyes off that package when an ugly old fat man told me to stop staring at a man's bulge. At that moment I was so embarrassed that I could hardly find the words to reply. I just moved to another bar.