Have you ever cheated on your man/husband? Who was it? Guy or girl? A stranger, his friend? Etc. How many times? How many guys? What was the reason, I.e., anger, something missing at home, he was hot, I was drunk, etc. did you tell him? Did he find out? Did you tell your best friend? I read a study recently that said women cheat on their husbands more than men do to them. The only difference is they keep it a secret and don't even tell their best friends.
Have you ever cheated? how far, how many times? guy or girl?
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Seems like you're after wank fodder. Try the fictitious stories forum.
Where is this said study? And don't bother providing it unless it's peer reviewed and / or from a reputable journal.
if women are better at keeping it a secret.... we wouldn't be likely to tell you
Cuz it's a secret.
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Cuz it's a secret.
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Uh no. People can write whatever they want on the internet. It's sad if you believe it.
I am loyal as hell, and finding out someone committed infidelity is an exceedingly fast way for me to lose any respect for someone. Life is short. If you're that unhappy, bored, angry, whatever, then split. Don't be a deceitful fuck.
I am all about sex positivity. You don't wanna be monogamous? No issue. You are poly, swing, whatever? Cool. But don't agree to monogamy and fucking break it.
This is just my own opinion on that shit, and it's not like my opinion should matter, but I feel very strongly about infidelity. I don't have anyone in my circles of friends who have been unfaithful, and nor does my sweetie. Those who did aren't friends anymore. My sweetie feels as strongly as I do about it. The people you surround yourself with matter.
I am all about sex positivity. You don't wanna be monogamous? No issue. You are poly, swing, whatever? Cool. But don't agree to monogamy and fucking break it.
This is just my own opinion on that shit, and it's not like my opinion should matter, but I feel very strongly about infidelity. I don't have anyone in my circles of friends who have been unfaithful, and nor does my sweetie. Those who did aren't friends anymore. My sweetie feels as strongly as I do about it. The people you surround yourself with matter.
It was a survey.... anyways, not asking for me. And I didn't necessarily believe it, which is why I asked here. I'm pretty confident in my relationship. If my wife wants another man all she has to do is ask. And bye just because it's a nonfor you, doesn't mean it is for everyone else. That's what the survey is for. I for one have cheated, my reasons? My wife doesn't suck my dick, and I got caught in a weak moment, she knows, we've moved on etc.
That's a great answer. Never thought about keeping the unfaithful out of our circle. Makes sense. Even then, I don't trust any man alone with her. Guys are pigs. And no guy tries to be friends with a hot girl just for friends. They always have a alternative motive. Which is why my friend is an idiot.
I do think that men and women can be friends. Some specific individuals seem to lack the ability to do so, but plenty of people are indeed capable of it. It's being respectful of a boundary, just like any other. It's being able to communicate clearly.
My sweetie has no problem with me being alone with friends of mine, male or female. He trusts me. Not all men are pigs, and that's kind of a crappy stereotype to enable, in my opinion. There have been a hell of a lot of women that throw themselves at my sweetie in spite of a good amount of them knowing he's in a monogamous relationship. People can be awesome or scum, no matter the gender.
My sweetie has no problem with me being alone with friends of mine, male or female. He trusts me. Not all men are pigs, and that's kind of a crappy stereotype to enable, in my opinion. There have been a hell of a lot of women that throw themselves at my sweetie in spite of a good amount of them knowing he's in a monogamous relationship. People can be awesome or scum, no matter the gender.
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With a cock like that at home why would you?!?! Lol j/k. I assumed women here would be less likely to being that they're more open sexually which would mean open to culmination with their man.
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Well geez!!! That's why I'm here! Helps if you answer and educate instead of make a guy feel stupid....Wow you're just full of generalisations
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I don't generally answer questions seeking wank fodder or reply kindly to statements of stereotyping. Your assumption of the women here is just as incorrect as saying that all men here are gay or all men here have big dicks.
But I'll play nice and will make a couple of statements. No, I have never cheated and never could. Anyone who has such a level of selfishness and disrespect for their partner is a despicable human being. And being on the receiving end of a cheater is not something to glorify either.
Men and women can be friends. Those who can't have platonic relationships with the opposite sex have serious issues. Those who can't trust their partners with the opposite sex also have issues.... in my experience, those who are capable of cheating are always fearful of (or even accuse) their partners cheating. That says a lot.
Whether or not women are here or have partners with big dicks generally has little to do with the fact that they wouldn't cheat or their level of sexual openness and curiosity. The women here are all here for sudden reasons. There's many a thread about that.
I'm here but I don't have a partner and I'm celibate until I'm in a committed relationship. So you can't put us all in a neat little box
No. I've never cheated on him. Never will.
He cheated on me when I was 19. Forgave the fuck out of him, and couldn't be happier with him now.
He cheated on me when I was 19. Forgave the fuck out of him, and couldn't be happier with him now.
I don't generally answer questions seeking wank fodder or reply kindly to statements of stereotyping. Your assumption of the women here is just as incorrect as saying that all men here are gay or all men here have big dicks.
But I'll play nice and will make a couple of statements. No, I have never cheated and never could. Anyone who has such a level of selfishness and disrespect for their partner is a despicable human being. And being on the receiving end of a cheater is not something to glorify either.
Men and women can be friends. Those who can't have platonic relationships with the opposite sex have serious issues. Those who can't trust their partners with the opposite sex also have issues.... in my experience, those who are capable of cheating are always fearful of (or even accuse) their partners cheating. That says a lot.
Whether or not women are here or have partners with big dicks generally has little to do with the fact that they wouldn't cheat or their level of sexual openness and curiosity. The women here are all here for sudden reasons. There's many a thread about that.
I'm here but I don't have a partner and I'm celibate until I'm in a committed relationship. So you can't put us all in a neat little box
Love this: I have never cheated and never could. Anyone who has such a level of selfishness and disrespect for their partner is a despicable human being.
Hate this: don't generally answer questions seeking wank fodder or reply kindly to statements of stereotyping.
I understand the wank fodder part cause of the other guys here. But for me, I ask out of curiousness, lack of knowledge. I'm 36, been with my wife 20 years this summer, 10 married. I DO NOT have a lot of "relationship" knowledge other than ours. So it's not stereotyping, it's me knowing when a friend asks, that not every relationship is mines. Yet I know enough to know that women, while being way closer to perfect than men, are not perfect, and also, that a man can drive a perfect woman up the wall, and crazy enough to do what she normally wouldn't.
But "wank fodder"?! Lol. I have pornhub/ videos of my wife for that!!! Lol.
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Thank you, this is basically the answers I was looking for. Same here for me, don't want to again, my question wasn't for me necessarily but while we're being honest, I don't get oral for years now and have told her, "if I ever cheat it's cause you won't go down on me and I WILL NOT go the rest of my life without a blowjob". Lol. Might sound shallow but DAMN!, I eat it, make it squirt, but toys, and even let her experiment with a girl and let her try two other guys!!! There's nothing I wouldn't do for her. But again, the question was for my friend. I know where my marriage stands, his case is a newer relationship and him being blind IMO. But I could be wrong about him, which is why I'm here. Lol.
I like how the "yes" and "no, but tempted" answers were from men. Not a single woman said anything other than "hell no"
I like how the "yes" and "no, but tempted" answers were from men. Not a single woman said anything other than "hell no"
Lol. I know! But sadly, it's true. We are wired differently.
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