Experienced based thread, hopefully with an uplifting note.
So obviously I'm aware that this is generally getting rarer than it used to be, but from time to time you'll hear some (particularly younger) straight guys casually using homophobic slurs or engaging in banter that can get pretty ignorant.
I have personally seen cases like this in my own life (both before and after coming out) from straight friends, but just curious to hear your own experiences on the topic.
Either ignorant banter or straight up homophobia, doesn't particularly matter, also feel free to mention cases if it was a friend that you suspected might have actually been in denial about themselves. Also doesn't matter whether that was just amongst straight peers, or if a gay friend of yours was present.
If so, how did it go down and what was the context? If not and it happened, did you feel any guilt about it afterwards?
So obviously I'm aware that this is generally getting rarer than it used to be, but from time to time you'll hear some (particularly younger) straight guys casually using homophobic slurs or engaging in banter that can get pretty ignorant.
I have personally seen cases like this in my own life (both before and after coming out) from straight friends, but just curious to hear your own experiences on the topic.
Either ignorant banter or straight up homophobia, doesn't particularly matter, also feel free to mention cases if it was a friend that you suspected might have actually been in denial about themselves. Also doesn't matter whether that was just amongst straight peers, or if a gay friend of yours was present.
If so, how did it go down and what was the context? If not and it happened, did you feel any guilt about it afterwards?