Have You Ever Docked With Another Guy?

[oldguyontinder]

I recently did this for the first time and I have to say that it was amazing. While I identify as straight, I’ve topped a lot of guys, but I’ve never felt emotionally attached as I did when I was inside another guys foreskin. For reference this is a straight friend and we’d just had a threesome with a female acquaintance, she had to leave so we just laid in bed nude and one thing led to another. He spent the night and we spooned and slept great. Took a shower together the next morning and said goodbye. We agreed that as long as we don’t kiss or do anything anal, and still have sex with women on a regular basis, we can still be straight and masculine.

 

[Chanceorlando]

I recently did this for the first time and I have to say that it was amazing. While I identify as straight, I’ve topped a lot of guys, but I’ve never felt emotionally attached as I did when I was inside another guys foreskin. For reference this is a straight friend and we’d just had a threesome with a female acquaintance, she had to leave so we just laid in bed nude and one thing led to another. He spent the night and we spooned and slept great. Took a shower together the next morning and said goodbye. We agreed that as long as we don’t kiss or do anything anal, and still have sex with women on a regular basis, we can still be straight and masculine.

you can definitely be "masculine". and can even call yourselves "straight".....but in actuality, you're "bi" and "masculine"

 

[oldguyontinder]

you can definitely be "masculine". and can even call yourselves "straight".....but in actuality, you're "bi" and "masculine"

I disagree. I compare it to being a guy who had one great great grandparent who was Mexican, yet he considers himself white because he looks white and identifies as white.

Also, there is no such thing as a masculine gay or bi male. Masculinity is more than being muscular.

 

[cofrader]

I disagree. I compare it to being a guy who had one great great grandparent who was Mexican, yet he considers himself white because he looks white and identifies as white.

Also, there is no such thing as a masculine gay or bi male. Masculinity is more than being muscular.

Perhaps we should blame the birdcage for the stereotype but I met a gay guy that had many gay long therm relationships, I would hook him up with woman friend if he didn’t tell me his orientation.
Consider yourself as you want but know there is nothing wrong with any orientation.
About the racism it would be better that none was discriminated by anything? whatever he picks for himself someone could have something to say.

 

[oldguyontinder]

Perhaps we should blame the birdcage for the stereotype but I met a gay guy that had many gay long therm relationships, I would hook him up with woman friend if he didn’t tell me his orientation.
Consider yourself as you want but know there is nothing wrong with any orientation.
About the racism it would be better that none was discriminated by anything? whatever he picks for himself someone could have something to say.

To me I think it’s silly to call yourself biracial if you are less than 25% of one race and the majority of another. Same thing for bisexual, if you have had sex thousands of times in your life, and only 100 times were with guys, you aren’t bisexual, you are straight and open minded.

 

[cofrader]

To me I think it’s silly to call yourself biracial if you are less than 25% of one race and the majority of another. Same thing for bisexual, if you have had sex thousands of times in your life, and only 100 times were with guys, you aren’t bisexual, you are straight and open minded.

Please keep the race out of this, perhaps is a good moment to check with ask bi if the only can be named like that only when their counter match if they have sex with a single person they fall on straight or gay according the gender. Having 3 some could be a good way to keep the balance of bi if it’s with a couple.

 

[Hatt_101]

Go ask Gay men how often and frequently they rub a woman's clit with their dick and you'll get the answer to your question.

 

[Inshape69]

Well put Hatt_101. Another idiotic question hoping that every straight man is secretly bisexual. We should just have another section "Ask a bisexual man" and this would eliminate the same question phrased over and over again.

 

[Motion-of-the-Ocean]

 

[hzs3fg]

I recently did this for the first time and I have to say that it was amazing. While I identify as straight, I’ve topped a lot of guys, but I’ve never felt emotionally attached as I did when I was inside another guys foreskin. For reference this is a straight friend and we’d just had a threesome with a female acquaintance, she had to leave so we just laid in bed nude and one thing led to another. He spent the night and we spooned and slept great. Took a shower together the next morning and said goodbye. We agreed that as long as we don’t kiss or do anything anal, and still have sex with women on a regular basis, we can still be straight and masculine.

You "identify as straight"?

Are you friggin serious?

 

[twoton]

I’m straight & circumcised but now I want to have foreskin restoration surgery so I can experience this ultimate of male-on-male straight bonding.

I used to think the ultimate bonding experience would be to have groupwise mutual masturbation with my straight bros while watching gay porn but now I must have this instead.

 

[oldguyontinder]

You "identify as straight"?

Are you friggin serious?

I am not gay... I have relationships with women... and sex with men

 

[twoton]

I am not gay... I have relationships with women... and sex with men

Is that like a gay man having relationships with men and sex with women?

 

[oldguyontinder]

Is that like a gay man having relationships with men and sex with women?

I thought you were trying to channel my boy Fin.

 

[Algofromarm874]

let me explain this to you as i would to a kid asking me about sexualities.

if you are a man and:
you like having sex with only women - straight
you like having sex with only men - gay
you like having sex with women AND men - bisexual

you could still be in denial but from your post, it seems like you enjoy having sex with men as well and so you shouldn't be ashamed or cover it up as a 'no homo' act. we're not in 2000s anymore. get some advice form other bi men if you want to reassure yourself.

p.s. try anal and kissing with men if you want to, it feels amazing <3

 

[oldguyontinder]

let me explain this to you as i would to a kid asking me about sexualities.

if you are a man and:
you like having sex with only women - straight
you like having sex with only men - gay
you like having sex with women AND men - bisexual

you could still be in denial but from your post, it seems like you enjoy having sex with men as well and so you shouldn't be ashamed or cover it up as a 'no homo' act. we're not in 2000s anymore. get some advice form other bi men if you want to reassure yourself.

p.s. try anal and kissing with men if you want to, it feels amazing <3

You’re right, it isn’t the 2000’s anymore, sexuality is a spectrum. As I’ve said before, it’s silly to identify as bi racial because you are 1/16 Hispanic and 15/16 Caucasian, yet if you’ve had sex with men a handful of times and women thousands, then you are bi

sorry I have nothing in common with the gay community. I’m not rich or into fancy resorts and restaurants, you wouldn’t catch me dead in public wearing nothing but pink booty shorts and combat boots, I don’t despise the Catholic Church (they saved my grandad’s life during the Depression), I don’t support gun control or really anything in the Biden agenda. I’ve also been married to four different women and have kids with a total of 8 different women (2 were wives, the rest just flings).

 

[Call_Me_Dave]

sorry I have nothing in common with the gay community .

Right. Minus your love of docking with other men, topping other men. Other than your desire to engage in sexual activities with the gay community, you have nothing in common with the gay community. None of those strereotypical traits you mentioned make you gay. Seems like you are using your non “all gays are liberal, flamboyant, drag race contestants” shitty outlook to deny you are likely a little bi. It’s cool to be what you are, but don’t paint with such a broad brush.

 

[Motion-of-the-Ocean]

I’m not rich or into fancy resorts and restaurants, you wouldn’t catch me dead in public wearing nothing but pink booty shorts and combat boots, I don’t despise the Catholic Church (they saved my grandad’s life during the Depression), I don’t support gun control or really anything in the Biden agenda. I’ve also been married to four different women and have kids with a total of 8 different women (2 were wives, the rest just flings).

You sound like a guy I used to work with who would preach to me about how gay men were just all about sex and multiple partners and they, along with godless liberals such as myself, were destroying the sanctity of marriage and morality. He would then talk about being on his third wife, who used to be his mistress that he cheated on the second with, and how each kid was from a different wife.

Hypocrisy seems to go over so many people's heads.

But having sex exclusively with other men (I.E. Gay) doesn't mean one dresses a certain way, embraces "Gay Culture" or acts effeminate. No one said you are gay, but by having sex with other men on a semi-regular basis, neither are you straight. Just embrace you bi-sexuality rather then dancing around it.

 

[oldguyontinder]

You sound like a guy I used to work with who would preach to me about how gay men were just all about sex and multiple partners and they, along with godless liberals such as myself, were destroying the sanctity of marriage and morality. He would then talk about being on his third wife, who used to be his mistress that he cheated on the second with, and how each kid was from a different wife.

Hypocrisy seems to go over so many people's heads.

But having sex exclusively with other men (I.E. Gay) doesn't mean one dresses a certain way, embraces "Gay Culture" or acts effeminate. No one said you are gay, but by having sex with other men on a semi-regular basis, neither are you straight. Just embrace you bi-sexuality rather then dancing around it.

I have no issue with two people of the same gender being civilly married. I’m more libertarian on 95% of issues than Republican. I’m just not interested in being part of the gay community. I like backpacking, muscle cars, working with power tools, etc. I do like to cook and garden just like most gays but I’m not into froufrou fusion dishes, I prefer hearty stews and roasts. I’m sorry to disappoint you.

 

[hzs3fg]

I have no issue with two people of the same gender being civilly married. I’m more libertarian on 95% of issues than Republican. I’m just not interested in being part of the gay community. I like backpacking, muscle cars, working with power tools, etc. I do like to cook and garden just like most gays but I’m not into froufrou fusion dishes, I prefer hearty stews and roasts. I’m sorry to disappoint you.

Wait -

Are you saying that gay men don't like "backpacking, muscle cars, working with power tools, etc."?

Seriously, dude, what world are you living in?

 

[Call_Me_Dave]

I have no issue with two people of the same gender being civilly married. I’m more libertarian on 95% of issues than Republican. I’m just not interested in being part of the gay community. I like backpacking, muscle cars, working with power tools, etc. I do like to cook and garden just like most gays but I’m not into froufrou fusion dishes, I prefer hearty stews and roasts. I’m sorry to disappoint you.

Translation: “I’m into men, fucking men, docking men, I just do want to live like a “man’s man”, but not THAT way.” By your definition of what all gay men is, you are “gayer” than million of gay men, gay men that aren’t afraid of admitting it. Scram, troll.

 

[Motion-of-the-Ocean]

I have no issue with two people of the same gender being civilly married. I’m more libertarian on 95% of issues than Republican. I’m just not interested in being part of the gay community. I like backpacking, muscle cars, working with power tools, etc. I do like to cook and garden just like most gays but I’m not into froufrou fusion dishes, I prefer hearty stews and roasts. I’m sorry to disappoint you.

 

[Call_Me_Dave]

Sounds more like “I’m kinda conservative, therefore, I CAN’T be into the men I fuck around with”

 

[rob5712]

This conversation is moving off the original point. The peasure of docking. Can we get back to it and could guys who have been docked tell us about it. I was cut at birth (yes in the Uk it was very common until 1950) I love my bare knob but I would like to feel a foreskin over it and use his foreskin to wank both cocks. And both cum in the one foreskin. Such a thrill and one that I have sadly missed. Has anyone her eenjoyed the experience?

 

[hzs3fg]

This conversation is moving off the original point. The peasure of docking. Can we get back to it and could guys who have been docked tell us about it. I was cut at birth (yes in the Uk it was very common until 1950) I love my bare knob but I would like to feel a foreskin over it and use his foreskin to wank both cocks. And both cum in the one foreskin. Such a thrill and one that I have sadly missed. Has anyone her eenjoyed the experience?

Says the guy who calls himself 99% straight?

 

[oldguyontinder]

This conversation is moving off the original point. The peasure of docking. Can we get back to it and could guys who have been docked tell us about it. I was cut at birth (yes in the Uk it was very common until 1950) I love my bare knob but I would like to feel a foreskin over it and use his foreskin to wank both cocks. And both cum in the one foreskin. Such a thrill and one that I have sadly missed. Has anyone her eenjoyed the experience?

It’s such a great experience, but it needs to happen organically. It’s very intimate and you need a good rapport with the other dude to make it work. While I am a huge fan of hookup apps for casual sex, I think docking is more of a bro thing.

 

[vizzered]

It’s such a great experience, but it needs to happen organically. It’s very intimate and you need a good rapport with the other dude to make it work. While I am a huge fan of hookup apps for casual sex, I think docking is more of a bro thing.

Yeah, I just did this with my masseur. Took about a year to get comfortable enough to try. I got so hard and turned on. Felt so good being enveloped by him and rubbing our heads together inside his foreskin.

 

[YIIRYBNC]

My main partner has always wanted to try docking with me, unfortunately his skin is too tight to get me inside and I don't have the skin to begin with. I'll try it someday though.

 

[ronin001]

Just passing by the site, Sadly I do not have the energy to seriously jump into this thread

Please forgive me not posting regularly in 4 months ; and my coffee is not kicking in yet

O.P. wrote We agreed that as long as we don’t kiss or do anything anal, and still have sex with women on a regular basis, we can still be straight and masculine. This " We " indicates an agreement between 2 people ; and only binding between the 2 persons constituting the : "We" . However outside of the micro-verse , of your We, you have now entered the Universe of the greater numbers of Ask a Straight Men . I believe you will find a few challengers to your "We" verbal contract

But to answer the OP. NO, I have never had the desire to try that activity. There are manyyyyy things I have not experienced, ,have not eaten, places I have not visited, things I have not learned; but docking is not one of the activities I see be trying to accomplish any time soon

Just my opinion

 

[Gj816]

Too funny! Made my morning