Have you ever dumped a guy because he couldnt Kiss?

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    This could be the tamest question ever to be posted on LSPG but here goes.... I overheard a woman the other day saying she dumped a guy because he couldn't Kiss!!! So ladies and gentleman, is kissing anywhere on your 'most wanted list?' And have you been dumped for your lousy snogging? or dumped someone for his/her kissing technique?

    Just wondering dont shoot me down!
     
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    i'd dump someone for various things. really bad kissing included. if someone can't even give you a simple, sincere and firm kiss, i don't know where the relationship would head.
     
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    Judging a quality of relationship on a kiss?

    That sounds like a horrible idea.
     
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    Dont know if i could but i agree with the type of kiss you describe. People seem so interested in the sex thing they forget the basic things like kissing.
     
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    Maybe he was a lost cause!
     
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    Generally, people kiss before a full-fledged relationship even starts so I don't even know how this lady managed this.

    Also: Kissing is very important, as it is the first indicator of sexual compatibility.
     
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    Yup! I kinda have. It was a first date though. He would hold his tongue ram rod straight, and shove it in my mouth! UGH! No movement at all! It was the strangest kiss I ever had!
    Also have had some that slobber all over your face practically! Yuck!

    And once in a while in the heat of passion, my ex used to bite my tongue while I was kissing him deeply. That hurt!! Made me nervous to kiss again, which in turn would kinda ruin the moment for a bit.
     
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    Did you say anything? Ha
     
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    No.Too awkward!!
     
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    Is it? so if a guy couldnt kiss you would imagine he would not be upto much in the bedroom?
     
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    A sensitive woman!
     
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    lack of kissing experience?
    would be happy to provide smoochable parts for practice.

    or just no ability at all??
    wouldn't get to the "drop" stage if someone couldn't kiss.
     
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    No ability at all! Can you learn a guy how to kiss? teach an old dog new tricks?
     
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    likes another poster said "too awkward"
    if ya rude/honest enough to say "please stop raping my tonsils"
    ya can indeed learn a more enjoyable kissing technique.

    since i am a fan of smooching, for the right person, i would totally take the time to grasshopper them out of lizard-lust land.

    hmm.. someone with no gift.. is kinda hard to imagine. i've been fortunate to not have locked lips with those peoples :smile:
     
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    Yeah well I did not want to hurt anyone's feelings, plus I had a feeling it would not work out with these guys even before we kissed. :frown1:
     
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    If he couldn't kiss me? What would prevent him from doing it?
     
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    I guess so.....but only in if "dumping" means not going on another date with him. I'd have to have huge chemistry and really like a guy to keep dating him if he was a bad kisser and then chances are he might not like the way I kiss either! What if he wants saliva all over the place and bites? Or tight, rigid lips? That's not how I like kissing and he may not want to learn to kiss "my" way.

    So yes, I guess I would dump a guy if the kissing wasn't good, but it's unlikely we would be in a relationship. More likely we'd be on a first or second date.
     
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    I've never dumped a guy (on account of being a straight man), but I've gone out with someone for weeks, had sex, but ended up not wanting to see them again because the kissing just wasn't there. People talk too much about "technique" when really, one ought to just kiss naturally. If it feels good, then there's a connection there. If it doesn't, then it's probably a mismatch.
     
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    THIS.
     
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    Kissing is very important to me. I've known some pretty bad kissers, but there was a lot more that kept me from going further in a relationship with these guys. I'm thinking the kissing thing was a symptom of deeper problems!

    One of the things I find interesting is that I didn't realize just how good a kisser my husband is until later in our relationship. I seriously did not notice before. I guess I was lovestruck. But I distinctly remember realizing that he was good, real good!

    So yeah, kissing is a big part of things for me.
     
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