Have you ever had a three-way?

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  1. rrkrd

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    What are the advantages and disadvantages? Has a three_way enhanced your relationship or made it worse?
     
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    I've been enjoying 3-way sex for years - both MFF and MFM. It's usually enhanced my relationships - and the one time it didn't it was because the other two weren't sure about how to open up their relationship.
     
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    Short answer, yes. Just for variety. But then I am in an open relationship with more than one person atm.

    Other times in the past it was one-off experiences.
     
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    a few.....always alcohol involved
     
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    Yes, a few of different variations, mostly two women and me (my size helping organise things), and one with two men and one women. All of the women were friends rather than lovers, so there wasn't any issues in regard to relationships.

    I think if one is open and honest and not prone to jealousy, it can work in a relationship scenario. In the two-women one-man scenario, fucking is always one-on-one at a point, and that could be a problem. Alternatively, the two women could be really get into one-another, and the guy could be on the outer. Two men, one woman, she's fucking with the other guy and clearly enjoying it immensely; could you be there on the bed while that's happening? Think about what might happen, because reality isn't a porn movie.
     
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    Only once. A girl I was seeing arranged for another girl to join us in bed as a surprise for me. It was fun but not exactly what I was looking for at the time. Ultimately I ended liking the other girl better but I could never get with her on her own.

    During that encounter the girls were very concentrated on me and not very interested in eachother. While I certainly enjoyed the attention, I think I would have been more turned on if they were into eachother as well.
     
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    Is always the lucky ones who wanna complain
     
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    Hasn't happened yet...but then again, I get confused easily.
     
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    I once had a three-way kiss with two other dudes.

    I was intending to kiss a guy while he had his arm around his mate, but the other guy decides to stick his tongue into the mix.
     
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    I have had three little moments:

    I was in an erotic club (swinger type place) and there were rooms at the back where you could watch people having sex etc. There was a very good looking couple having sex and I walked in with just a towel (after I had been in the jacuzzi). They saw the buldge and invited me to join them.. she blew me while he fucked her. The biggest turn on for me was how he guided her onto my cock with his hand and he seems to get a huge kick out of watching her battle to take me in her mouth. It was very erotic, but there were no words spoken, and hence no emotions etc.

    Another time I had a 3-way kiss with a gay guy and a mutual girl friend in a club (on ecstasy).. that was fun.

    The final time was when I got two lesbian friends into my bed with my girlfriend. We were all very drunk and it was my birthday, and I thought I would get a foursome mfff ! - my g/f was keen on the whole thing.. but what destroyed it was that my g/f and the cuter of the two lesbians had a connection and were clearly into each other (they were the hotter two of the 3 girls).. so the other lesbian partner got hung up and wanted to leave and the whole think ended after just a little bit of massaging/touching but no sex..

    Despite these events I still dont feel like I have had a proper 3some, where I take home 2 girls or join a couple... and my current g/f is not keen to share me :-(
     
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    had threeways but never with someone i was in a serious relationship with, just fun.
     
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    I have had both MFF and MFM hookups but not an actual three-way relationship. The only three-some hookup I had that was really perfect was being with my ex g/f and my best male friend. Really beautiful experience...
     
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    Only once and it was one of the best sexual experiences of my life. I was single and it was with two ex-boyfriends, one of whom was my first love, so me and the two other men were very comfortable with one another's bodies. We didn't discuss it beforehand and there was no alcohol involved. It is still a bit of a mystery how it ended up just happening. My two ex-boyfriends did not have sex with one another during the experience, which I think would have made it even better, if they had touched one another, but I have enjoyed the memory many times since then.

    Since we were all single at the time, it didn't seem to affect any of our relationships with one another. We all still hung out together.

    I think you would have to be very secure in your relationship if you did it while in a relationship. It's a risk. It could harm your relationship. For me right now, I'm not willing to take that risk, but I leave the possibility open that maybe sometime in the future I may want to try it with the bf.
     
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    yes several times but only once in a relationship...my 3rd husband prior to marrying...i prefered his friends penis and never enjoyed sex with husband again.......

    prefer moresums though!!
     
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    I got into a m/m/m 3way once but was only attracted to one of the other dudes. I'm very masculine and can't get off with a fem guy in the mix. lol
     
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    I have had numerous experiences when I was single. Now that I'm a couple we have met a third on occasion, and it was quite nice. My partner and I made a commitment that we would not cheat on each other and we we wanted to sleep with someone else we would do it together.
    The important thing is that everyone is honest with their expectations and limits.
     
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    NO, and there's no way my bf would share me with another guy. One he'd never let another guy be naked and that close to him. Two he'd be really pissed if I suggested it with another guy. I think he would do a ffm or a fmf.... haven't really talked about it that much, but I know he's done it before.
     
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    My best three-ways have been with my wife and one other man, usually someone that I already know, and whom I can trust. I always play a secondary role while they fuck, but they are both very much aware of my presence and involvement. I love the fact that the other man is very conscious of the fact that she is MY pussy and that he is fucking her with my permission.
     
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    MFM and MMM, and "MMM circle jerk, MMMFcircle sucks". The hottest was one of the MFM because the girl was hot and hot for my cock. The worst was a MMM session, and I ended up leaving the two alone.

    I think that someone could feel left out, unless they are a voyeur. I think watching another guy fuck his wife/girlfriend from a couple of inches away is wonderful.
     
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    Yes. FFM. Twice.

    The same (bi) GF was involved in both scenarios, but the second girl was different on both occasions.

    The first one was really just a bit of strip poker, kissing, groping and fooling around which culminated in my gf giving me a blowjob while her friend watched and played with herself.

    The second one was the full blown porn movie type of scenario. My gf let me hook up with another woman we both knew was bisexual, and it was arranged that she would come home while we were in bed together (the second girl knew this as well).

    TBH, I am glad I did it, just for the experience, but although it was pretty amazing (it went on from 4pm on one day until 5am the next), I didn't enjoy it as much as I thought I would (perhaps all fantasies turn out like that?).

    Stand out moments were

    - The moment when I knew it was really going to happen (when I started fucking the second girl and my gf came over and french kissed her)

    - Fucking one of the girls doggy style while they 69'd. The lower one would take my dick out of the top girl's pussy and suck it before guiding it back into her. The girl who was on top in that position also had the most amazing ass I have ever encountered in the flesh.

    - Three way french kissing.

    - Both me and my gf going down on the second girl at the same time.

    - Both of them blowing me at the same time

    Inevitably, as these things often do, the whole thing went tits up. The second girl wanted to see me outside the 3 way thing, and I was keen to do so (my relationship with my ex was on the rocks at the time anyway), but this caused the whole dynamic to break down, and it never happened again. My gf and I also split shortly after.

    I would say that if you get the opportunity, then you should do it, but bear in mind that if you are doing it within a relationship, then that relationship needs to be very strong or the people need to be the non-jealous type, otherwise it can all go horribly wrong afterwards.
     
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